Men Tips

posted by BuddyF on Jan 8

How to meet women, this is one of those questions that I am asked all the time and I give the same advice to every type of guy I encounter. It does not matter if I am asked this question by players, lonely shy guys or older guys who have just started dating again the same advice applies and it never varies. If you want to meet women walk out your front door! It truly is that simple guys, meaning almost any social setting or place you go allows you the chance to go meet women.

Find age appropriate locations

There are locations that work better than others do and when looking to meet women in public sometimes the best approach is determining what time of women you are looking to meet so you do not end up wasting your time. For example if you are a young guy younger than 25 the best place to meet women is college related activities. You probably already know about campus parties, but you can also walk up to a pretty girl in class and ask if you can borrow her notes. Make sure to attend school sporting events and join social clubs for exposure to more girls.

Cater to your own interest

Maybe the reason you need to know how to meet women is that even though you are able to locate lots of local girls you waste a lot of time finding out that you are not compatible. To locate women who are more suited you have to stop visiting the same places and interacting with the same type of girls.

Guys you can go online to find a woman who matches up with your exact requirements. Maybe your goal is to locate women who do not mind the fact that you keep exotic pets in your home, or to date a girl that has your same political views. Maybe you even want to know how to meet women who share the same passions for sports, have the same taste in cuisine or have the same religious background. If this is what you are looking for your best bet is too start looking online. You can set up your preferences at online dating sites to only include women who live within your local area and fit your requirements.

Stop ignoring perfectly acceptable women

It is so funny to me when I go out with Jack a friend of mine who is shy with meeting and approaching women. I have observed him as he wanders around at a party before gathering up the courage to walk up to a woman. It is like watching a blind bat stumble around in the dark. No matter how many women there are in a room he will always focus on the girl who is probably the least attainable, she is the prettiest and most popular lady around. She is sitting far away from Jake, too far away to make eye contact work and a large group of people surrounds her.

Jake will walk by tons of eligible and pretty girls on his way to approach the girl he thinks he wants. Pretty girls who try to make eye contact with him and smile in his direction hoping he will notice them. Jake never notices though, eventually he will walk close enough to see the girl he desires but he still will not actually talk to her and now that she is close enougth to make eye contact with Jake lets his nerves get the better of him and he makes sure to keep from attracting her attention.

Jake could have gotten much better results by following up on any of the warm leads he had gotten. Instead, he wasted his night walking over to a girl he did not even have the courage to speak too yet not a smart way of learning how to meet women. When I asked Jake why he had ignored all the pick up signs girls had given him as he walked by he told me those girls were just not his type. Guys you should never dismiss a woman if you want to learn how to date, especially a pretty girl who is actually hitting on you for a change.

Before Jake can ever get the courage to walk up to the most attractive and popular girl in the room he has to develop some self-confidence and what better way to do this then by actually talking and dating girls who find him attractive. Even if you know a girl is not the “one” for you, the more you allow yourself to date and learn how to meet women the faster you improve. Soon you will be able to approach the most popular girl in the room and walk away with her phone number.

Buddy Franklin is a dating advice guru. He recommends: How to Meet Women, Meet Single Women, Meet Local Women