Men Tips

posted by Walhein on Aug 7

Have you ever wondered why that date you had went terribly wrong? Or why the woman just did not want to answer your calls afterwards? Probably you made on of the 5 mistakes that keeps the majority of guys from enjoying true success with women.

It is funny to think that even though there are so many things that go wrong most of them don’t. The reason is that we inherently know how to attract the opposite sex. What is stopping us is the conditioning we receive from the media and peers that tells us to act otherwise and thereby destroys out natural seduction instincts.

Mistake number one - don’t state your interest
This is one of the saddest mistakes I see almost all men do. Somehow we have been conditioned not to directly express our interest in a woman. Instead we should just be friendly and show our interest by our actions. Directly coming out is seen as aggressive and too dangerous to ourselves since it opens us to rejection.

But women like clarity. They know anyways why the guy is being so niche to them. He just wants sex they assume. How can they think otherwise if you have never told them what you like about them? And how can they not be surprised if you suddenly start touching them after not doing that at all during the first 2,3,4 or even more meetings you had together.

Mistake number two - being too nice

He’s a nice guy. It has almost become an insult among women. We all want decent people around us but a nice guy is often seen as a liar who is just too insecure to express his true desires. Instead of saying what he wants and risking rejection he just does whatever the woman want from him. He is not a challenge but boring.

I’m not advising to reject every one of her suggestions or to argue. Just stand up when your opinion differs from her. It shows that you are an individual and not just a follower of the masses. You will look more interesting and less boring immediately plus you avoid any lying that could get back at you later on.

Mistake number three - chasing her too hard

First let me make one thing clear. When I talk about chasing her too hard I do not mean that you end up like a stalker, following her every step and calling her twenty or more times a day. We all know that this is sick behavior that will get us in trouble at best. What I mean here is showing the woman that she won.

Women like to be chased. We all crave to be desired by someone since it improves our self worth but women also want to be challenged. They do not want a guy that is totally in love with her after just seeing her. The rewards just feel a lot sweeter if you worked a bit for them. Give her the chance to do so.

Do not call her everyday but let her call you as well. Let her miss you. Don’t be available all the time but have a life which is at least as important as she is to you.

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