Men Tips

posted by ChrisChew on Jul 28

Are you afraid to ask women for dates? Most guys do because it sure is intimidating to have yourself in front of a woman who has the power to reject you. You know something? You need not be in that intimidating situation ever again.

Why? The reason is that you will never need to ask women for dates ever again because if you do you will only be triggering the defense mechanism in her mind, especially if it is the first date with her. All sorts of questions will be flying in her mind such as, what does he want, is he flirting with me, will he want sex and she will come up with an excuse to turn you down. That is the reason why it is so intimidating for guys to ask for the first date and if attempted, are rarely successful.

Guys, unless a woman already likes you right from the start asking for a date seems like too much too soon for most girls. So instead of asking her direct for a date, why not try, “Hey, you seem like a fun person to hang out with. I am going over to Jack’s Bowl next week for a bowling session with some friends. If you gimme your number, I might invite you along if we are short of bowlers.”

Now can you see the difference? You are now not only not at her mercy, she is at yours. It is now at your discretion to invite her or not. Is this way of asking for a date intimidating? Obviously not, don’t you agree?

What you did was that you did not say this was a date and that takes away the pressure from both of you. She will more readily give you her number since the pressure is off. Furthermore, you did not make anything definite as you might invite her only if there are not enough bowlers and that takes the pressure off her further.

Next, you are simply just suggesting a group activity that she might quite well fit into and thus she will not have to worry about awkward moments that can happen from a one on one date. But unknown to her, the group activity can become a one on one date when both of you head off for supper or a drink together after the bowling session. Cool, isn’t it?

In a situation that you already knew the girl earlier and already have her number, simply call and tell her that you are going bowling with some friends and you are inviting her if she is interested to have some fun at the bowling alley.

So the entire idea is to leave the notion of going on a date out of the picture but she is just accompanying you to some fun activities. When she is having fun with a group of people, her defense mechanism will naturally be lowered and you can come closer together and bond.

So henceforth, instead of asking women for dates, simply include her in your lifestyle activities and thus you will have your opportunities to seduce and flirt with until she falls for you. This is a much easier and successful way of asking for “dates” with women.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at How To Ask Women For Dates and How To Be Attractive To Women

posted by jeffmcqueen on Jul 28

Of course, you might think that the previous statement would be a bit of an exaggeration, but nonetheless, shaving should never leave your skin feeling dry, itchy, or irritated. If you’re experiencing these troublesome symptoms as of the moment however, you might want to take a closer look at the shaving products for men that you’re using as of the moment.

Choosing the right shaving products however can pose quite a challenge. The process is not just going through the store and picking a random product that catches your eye, or deciding to buy after you see a good commercial on television. It’s also about considering the type of skin you have as well the quality of the products that you buy.

If things aren’t difficult enough as it is, you will also need to deal with selecting a few good products among thousands available on the market. So, how will you be able to determine which ones you need to get with all these options available to you? The answer is simple enough - by knowing what it is exactly that you need.

But don’t let the answer fool you, finding out which shaving product is perfect for your skin can be a long and frustrating. Oily skin for example will need certain shaving products in order to produce the best results. This rule will also apply to dry skin. The type of razor, shaving creams, moisturizers, gels, brushes, etc. should all be considered if you really want to prevent any irritation or itchiness.

You’ll need to do a bit of research first if you really want a product that will provide you with the results that you’re looking for. Some of the bigger shaving companies will have sites that contain information for almost all of their products allowing you to compare and see what makes them stand out from the rest. Aside from this, you’ll also need to check up on what the product contains at it might have certain chemicals that you body isn’t really agreeable with.

Replacement of such items is also important especially in terms of razors. While quality razors will generally stay sharp for longer times, there is also a limit to how long you should be using them. When you feel that the razors are beginning to grab at your face during shaving, don’t hesitate to replace them. Using the right shaving products for men can mean the difference between comfort and irritation, so be sure to follow instructions and read up on how each product may benefit you.

To find out more, check out: shaving products for men