Men Tips

posted by ChrisChew on Jul 21

We all know that many men are afraid of approaching strange women and what can be worse than being rejected publicly? Now, however if you want to be successful with women, you must approach more women and thus you just cannot avoid rejections.

Yes, I know being rejected is not a good feeling and I have my fair share of them, but guys, this is a learning process on how to get better with women. If you don’t do and experience this, you will never get better. No matter how good your pick up skills are, there will be times when a girl is simply not interested in you.

The good thing is that most girls are polite at rejecting you and will simply make up excuses such as “I must get back to my friends” or “I have an important call to make” and then say goodbye to you. However, on rare occasions, you will encounter mean and nasty women who seem to get their kicks by insulting you.

When that happen, you can do two things. The first option is to “save face” by insulting back and trade insults for insults which can get very ugly. The next option is just to simply say goodbye and walk away.

Let’s discuss both options. Many guys can’t take rudeness especially when his self esteem is shaken by the rejection. As his feeling is already hurt, he feels the need to return the blow and just do it instinctively.

However, being mean to a woman because she rejected you can be the worst mistake you make when approaching women. You will convey the message that you are a quarrelsome man and that will hurt your chances when you want to approach other girls in that venue.

If you take the second option of being polite and then walk away, then life goes on. You can say to yourself “next” and move on to approach someone else and thus increasing your chances of meeting other girls.

So when you are approaching women, just have the attitude of you don’t care what they think of you, then your feelings will not be hurt. You should refuse to waste mental energy by agonizing over a rude comment made by some girl you don’t even know or for this moment, don’t even care to know. By doing that, you are already one up on her without resorting to even being mean.

When you can handle rude rejections gracefully, the other girls watching the action in the venue will have the impression that you are a real gentleman and will respect you for this. Others may even become sympathetic to you and may even approach you on their own accord to make friend with you.

So when you start having conversations with other girls and being nonchalant about what had happened earlier, you will come across as a polite and confident man and to girls, these are very attractive manly attributes.

Now that you know which is the better option to take, start approaching girls and if rejections are thrown at you along the way, be glad that you are being rejected so quickly so that you do not need to waste time with women who are not interested and start meet more new ones. Isn’t that better?

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at How To Approach Women Confidently and How To Have More Sex Appeal With Women

posted by sureshy9 on Jul 21

My boyfriend and I were residing only 4 houses in distance.We both lived alone and would visit each other extremely frequently.There were 2 occasions I caught him fast-clicking his mouse as I entered his room.In one occasion he even switched off his PC.That got me really snoopy.He would never give me a worthy answer when I asked him about his activities, I could sense his unfaithfulness.I attempted a lot of things and then finally got access to his email accounts, then to his other social network accounts.

Obviously, I was not too surprised to see the bunch of emails from ladies in his accounts.what got me real angry was that he was already intimate with two girls, talking about their make out sessions in their mails.I had put up in his apartment that night, simply to ask him and sort out the mess.Even after having solid evidences with me, I had asked him again.. the response was the same.I told him about what I came to know he still denied everything screaming at me calling me too snoopy.I left that night itself feeling like a miserable ugly insect.

Sadly we got in talking terms after 8 months and attempted to work out,me being more eager to because I truly loved him so much.But once a cheater always a cheater.I caught him again doing the same filthy thing living with me under the same roof.Well anyone would have done the same thing as I left him feeling less miserable about myself .I knew it was not meant for both of us to be together , I deserve someone much better.I dumped him, its been a week it feels great to be single again.I cannot believe how popular virtual cheating actually is. I’ve had tried a a few things to get the answers to all my snoopy questions….here is what you can do too.

1. First and foremost talk about it.Ask him face-to-face, without having any doubt.Whatsoever is troubling your mind, ask him about it like where does he be all day, what is that he tries to hide.. anything at all.A digital answer like ‘yes’ or ‘no’ is a definite sign of lying…so don’t take that.

2.The emotional way of unveiling the truth is by speaking to him about how lovely is your relationship- you love it so much- you are so proud of him- how strong and honest it is.If these kind of talks make him uneasy or blank he is possibly hiding some thing, feeling guilty like hell.Eventually he may reveal it himself , which is not the best of idea to deal with your partner.

3. If you find him beginning to point out the negative aspects of your relationship it is a definite sign of being unfaithful.I did notice that quite often but only realized it after the relationship was over.

4. Ask him. Sometimes the most simple methods are also the best ones. More guys who are really cheating will never tell their faults, but once in a blue moon 1 will. What to do from there will be up to you.

5. Hiring a private investigator would be expensive, but very effective to get credible proof.

6. You can use spy software or monitoring programs to catch him in the act to get real evidence, there are many available.

7. Ask him for the passwords of myspace or facebook or any other email which you know he uses.If there is a hesitation or an excuse, there is definitely a major deal of proof that you could potentially get hold of.Get access to his accounts by hook or by crook..If you fail to access his online accounts by asking for the passwords then you can hire someone from TechnohackersGroup website to gain access to all.

If anyone did anything more successful to catch a partner cheating then let me and other readers learn, it is free and priceless.

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posted by ChrisChew on Jul 21

We all know that there are certain types of women we should not date because if we do, it could turn out to be a detrimental relationship or worse, a broken marriage. Okay, I am first to admit this is an assumption on my part, but guys, why take the risk of being terribly heart broken or maybe even financial ruin.

The crux of the matter is that men are attracted to women by sight and sometimes caution is being thrown out of the window especially so when the woman you should not date is a very beautiful girl. I am sure as a third party, you have seen someone who is dating a girl who is not suitable for him. Yet when everyone else can see that, the guy is blinded by it.

For example, this girl is seeing other guys behind Joe’s back but Joe is rich and is always trying to please her by buying her expensive gifts and taking her to exotic vacations and so she sticks with Joe but is still two timing him. Everyone can see that she is with Joe because of the money but Joe does not think so. Joe is either blinded by her beauty or is in a denial mode.

So in order not to become another Joe, don’t you think it is better to take precaution in identifying what kind of women we should not date and when one appears, our radars are up?

Simply put, when it comes to the dating game, there are certain kind of girls who can cause a variety of problems for guys. If you are able to avoid dating these women, then your dating life could be a beautiful romantic breeze.

So what are the types of girls we should avoid? Here are four of them.

a)Sad Susan - This is the type who is always sad and depressed. She cast herself as the “victim” and see that the world is always against her. Life with her will be a constant battle to keep her happy. Her free time is spent either in front of a TV watching sad soap operas or is telling anyone within earshot that how life seems to be unfair to her. If you ended up with Sad Susan, your own outlook may even be influenced by her making both of you a depressed couple.

b) Money Mandy - This is Joe’s girlfriend we mentioned earlier. She only dates you for what you can materially provide for her. When you spent all your money on her and have your credit card maxed out, she will leave you and find another victim to date.

The good thing except maybe for Joe is that Money Mandy is easy to identify. This is because barely into your first date, she will be hinting for expensive gifts and asking for dinners in swanking up market restaurants. She talks about nothing except about her shopping and her liking for branded expensive products. If you can smell a rat, then she is the one because to her, you are simply a means to an end. Do you hear that, Joe?

c) Drama Diana - She is the drama queen, the emotional attention grabber. By dating Drama Diana, you can bet that your life will be filled with emotional roller coasters. Arguments and conflicts will be the routine rather than the exception. You have to constantly appease her dramatic and emotional appetite.

You can discern a Drama Diana by her strong emotional reaction to the slightest bit of provocation as she simply freaks out at the slightest incident. So if you do not want your life to be controlled and dictated by Drama Diana, stay far far away from her.

e) Bernice The Bride - Being a bride and getting married is first and foremost in her mind even on your first date. It does not matter to her if you are the right guy for her or vice versa, she will hint to you about walking down the aisle and starting a family. This is dangerous because you do not even know if both of you are made for each other and if you continue dating her, she will put pressure on you to tie the knot.

So now that you know what type of women you should not date, does your present girlfriend resemble anyone of the above?

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at How To Ask Women For Dates and What Do Women Find Attractive In Men