Men Tips

posted by ChrisChew on May 31

Should you tell a woman that you like her even if it was the first time that you have seen her? Or perhaps, you’d already known her and wanted to take the relationship up another notch? So when is the best time to tell her?

Basically there are three possible scenrios to this question. The first scenario is that you have just seen a girl you fancy and this is the first time you have seen her and have already decided that this is the girl you want to marry. The girl probably doesn’t even know your name or that you actually existed. Should you tell her or just let the opportunity pass by as you may never see her again?

In the second case, you have known this girl for sometime as she is a friend or a colleague. You have always wanted to tell her that you like her but was too shy to do so and also afraid that you may ruin the relationship if she rejected you. So, should you tell her?

In the third scenario, you are already dating her and you wanted to tell her that you love her dearly and wants to marry her, but were afraid that you may screw things up and sent her running away from you which is the last thing you wanted.

Let’s tackle the first scenario where this is the first time you have seen her. First and foremost, you must resist walking straight up to her to confess your undying love for her. You are a total stranger to her and she will get the fright of her life. Remember, mummy used to tell her never talk to strangers?

Now, if she is stunningly beautiful, she would have experienced other guys doing just that and she will scoff at you like she did with the other guys as being attracted only by her beauty. You will come across to her as a needy wussy and women are turned off by wussy men.

So handle the situation casually. Just say “hi” and proceed from there in a casual manner. If you are well versed in pick up skills, you should know what to do from there. If not, start learning the art of seduction flirt.

In the second case, if you’ve known the woman for quite some time, then you need to tackle this more tactically as telling her that you like her will make things very awkward if she has no reciprocal feeling.

In such a case, you should handle this pretty similarly to the first scenario. That is to get her friendship first, then start flirting with her playfully now and then and at the same time inject some sexual tension when you are interacting.

Then ask her out for lunch or something. If she does go out with you, then you can have an indication that she does not mind or actually even like your company. If she turns you down, don’t act like its a big deal. You deal with the situation like you only wanted to go out as friends so that things do not become awkward, especially if you are a colleague with her.

The situation becomes more complicated in the third scenario as this is the most difficult to solve as you never really know when is right time to tell her. Do be careful because many guys did this worngly and thus ended the relationships.

If you tell her that you like her for the reason being that you sensed that she does not seem to like you at the moment and so you want her to like you more, then do not tell her. It just does not work this way. This is because women will not suddenly fall in love with you just because you like her. You thus need to build attraction. The few words won’t cut it.

So take your time and flirt with her. You will know when she develops an interest in you and start testing you whether her feelings for you are mutual. Even better, wait for her to pop the question instead of you blurting out that you like her.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You and How To Attract Women Pheromone Perfume

posted by dezen12 on May 25

You’ve finally popped the question. Now what? When you were a kid you probably played with Power Rangers, Transformers, or G.I. Joes. When your fiance was a kid, she played with Barbie. Barbie has a long history as a bride, but the Power Rangers have had only one wedding, and that was just to team up two villains and make jokes about table etiquette.

In other words, while you probably haven’t given your wedding much thought until recently, but your bride-to-be has thought about it her whole life. Both of you are getting married, but it’s her wedding: Forgo the partnership and just be there to help her make this the day she’s been dreaming of.

Planning The Wedding

Unless you regularly set up conventions you probably haven’t put together an event of this magnitude. Sit down with your future wife and write down everything everything you need for the wedding. Figure out whose responsibility it is to handle each part and when they need to be done, and keep this list updated as you go along. This way you’ll know at a glance where you are and you won’t forget some detail before it’s too late. There are several wedding-specific planners available on the Internet or at your local bookstore.

Better yet, if you both have smart phones there are a number of apps that let you share planning information instantly. This way whenever you do something you can jot it down while you’re thinking about it and everyone stays in the loop.

You are not alone. While you may think best man is a position for your closest friend, this person is going to be key in your preparations. Pick someone who can survive a night of drinking, get you into your tux and in front of the altar on time. Even if you choose your best bud from college, make sure there’s always one groomsman handy to help fix the things that will inevitably go wrong.

The Big Day

You’ve done all the planning and everything is coming together. You’ve had your last night of freedom. Now all you have to do is walk up to that altar and say “I do.” It’s only the most important sentence you will utter in your life.

Don’t panic.

Have a good breakfast: By the time you go down the aisle, take pictures, and make your way through the procession line it may be a long time before you get a bite to eat. This will also allow you a little time to digest before the nervousness hits.

Avoid caffeine: It’s well known that coffee makes you jittery, but the extra nervous system activity can greatly increase the symptoms of a panic attack.

Exercise: Cardiovascular exercise relieves stress and boosts norepinephrine and dopamine levels in the brain, taking the edge off.

Doug Davis is writer working for PerryOlsen.com an online retailer featuring mens wedding bands.

posted by ChrisChew on May 25

If you think that this article is going to show you how to use hypnosis on others to attract and seduce beautiful women for dates, it is not because it is morally wrong to do this without the consent of the other party. However, I will show you how to use hypnosis on yourself, so that you can attract other people to you as who you are.

Before we go into that, let us have a brief understanding of what hypnosis is all about. There are many myths about hypnotherapy and perhaps the biggest one of all is that when a hypnotist waves a pendulum in front of you, you will be under his/her control and that you will have no control of your faculties. That is definitely not true.

All of us are under a state of hypnosis most of the time. We under hypnosis when we are daydreaming. We are under hypnosis when we are watching a movie because we laugh at some funny segments, get excited with an interesting scene or feel sad in a moving drama. In other words, we are under the suggestions of what is shown in the movie and we reacted to it. As long as we are reacting to sggestions, we are in a state of hypnosis.

However, we can always walk away from the TV set or the movie hall, can’t we? We are still in control of ourselves, aren’t we? This is exactly what will happen when we under hypnotherapy. We can always get up from the hypno-therapist’s couch if we want to and are in full control of ourselves.

With that misconception out of the way, let’s explore how self hypnosis can help you to attract and date beautiful girls or handsome men if you are a woman.

You see, hypnotism can be used as a therapy to change some of our social habits and to enhance our attractive attributes. You can get hypnosis DVDs, VCDs or MP3s to perform self hypnosis to better yourselves such as quitting smoking or losing weight amongst many other benefits.

Hypnotherapy is when a therapist relaxes you to a semi-sleeping stage when your concious mind is not as active and so the therapist can suggest things that you want to change for the better into your subconcious mind. When these suggestions are repeated overtime, they become part of you as your mind accepts them as facts.

For instance, women like and adore confident men and if you are too shy to approach them to strike up a conversation, you will hardly have any means to meet beautiful women, much less to date them. In this case, your therapist will instill into you that you are a confident man, full of charm and grace until you truly believe that you are and so you will confidently walk up to any girls without the shyness you had before.

If your smoking habit turn off the girls, your therapy will include suggestions as to why you can quit smoking easily and that you already are a non smoker so much so that smoking no longer appeals to you.

So using self hypnosis to attract women is not about using underhand tactics on the girls that you want to attract, but to improve your good attributes until women find you naturally attractive.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at Attract And Date Beautiful Women Hypnosis and Lose Weight Gain Weight Hypnosis

posted by ChrisChew on May 25

It is of no consolation if you are suffering from premature ejaculation to know that this is a very common male sexual problem affecting sexually active men. This is a condition when a man ejaculates too soon or before his sexual partner reaches her climax.

The male orgasm or climax is achieved when there is the discharge seminal fluid from the penis during copulation. In men with premature ejaculation, this happens too quickly causing neither partner to enjoy making love in a satisfying manner. The man is dissatisfied because he cannot have the pleasurable sensations of sex for a longer period and the female partner is dissatisfied because before she reaches at her sexual peak, the game is over.

Previously, premature ejaculation was loosely defined as men who ejaculate within two minutes of penetration in a sexual contact. However, this definition is now considered as defunct because it is now thought that about 50% men ejaculate within this time frame.

There are many reasons for this unfortunate male syndrome. For younger men who are having sex for the first time, there could be so much sexual excitement that they climaxed prematurely. It is also thought that some men may be having sex secretly and thus there is a need for them to ejaculate quickly and soon this developed into a habit.

Men suffering from medical conditions such as diabetes may also be afflicted by premature ejaculation or worse, erectile dysfunction. Mental stress and pressures can also contribute to this problem. Many smokers and certain medical drug users and abusers are also known to ejaculate prematurely.

One of the common techniques used to prevent or even stop premature ejaculation is the ’squeeze’. Upon sexual arousal and the sperm discharge is just about to happen, the glands or the penile head is being squeezed. This prevents the sperm from being ejaculated and the penis becomes limp as the blood gets disgorged from it.

After sqeezing for a minute or so, the man will try to get an erection again and the penis is again squeezed when he is about to ejaculate. By doing this, the sexual act is prolonged to the satisfaction of both partners.

Another way to prevent premature ejaculation is the need to be stress free when having sex. The man must focus on just the act and not think of any other things. By using this focused mind control method, the man can thus delay his climax.

Another treatment to prevent early climax is for the man to masturbate just before the having actual sex with his partner. This is because since an ejaculation has already occurred when he was masturbating, it will take a longer time for him to ejaculate again.

Some men consume alcohol to prevent themselves from hitting an orgasm too early. This is because alcohol numbs the nerves and so it can delay the man’s climax. However, it must be made clear that whatever it is, the fact remains that alcohol is harmful to health and may also lead to erectile dysfunction if abused.

So if you are a victim of premature ejaculation, try out some of the above treatments to see if it works for you so that you can enjoy your sex life in a more satisfying manner.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at Premature Ejaculation Cure And Treatment and Cure Premature Ejaculation Supplements

posted by ChrisChew on May 25

Most men when meeting a girl they like for the first time and wanting to date her out must have asked these questions. How am I going to ask her for a date? When is the appropriate time to pop the question? Where to bring her for that first date?

You see, most guys when talking to a girl, especially to the one that they like and are attracted to will want to date her. But when it comes to popping the question about asking her out, they are at a loss. Have you ever had this experience? Well, if you had, then you will know that by not taking the opportunity to ask her there and then, the chances of securing that first date will probably be lost, perhaps forever.

So what then is the secret to getting that first date? Getting the first date is not so difficult or daunting. This is because most of the time, a conversation that is filled with flirting and sexual tension will just do the trick. However, there are a few rules to follow if you want to be successful, the first time.

Girls like having fun. So the first thing is to show that you are a fun and exciting guy to be with, so she must be enjoying the conversation with you. If she is looking bored, then your chances of having that first date is as good as kaput!

Therefore to make her want to see you again, she must feel some sexual attraction towards you. So when you are having a conversation with her, you must take the opportunity to create some sexual tension by using some basic flirting techniques.

You can start by playfully teasing her, playing flirty games, telling funny stories and thereby establishing a good rapport. All of these flirty techniques will get her to feel that you are a fun guy to be with since she is enjoying your company and will want to see you again.

Next, observe her reaction towards you because everything you need to know about her interest in you is in her body language. So even if she is smacking your arms and telling you that you are a jerk, her body language will tell you that she is in to you or not. Therefore, when talking to her, you have to fire up her sexual attraction and build the conversation to the point where you know that she is attracted to you.

So how do you know that she is attracted to you? Well, like I said earlier, it is in her body language. Every girl has a number of tell tale signs to show her level of interest in you. Here are some of them.

a) She touches you frequently during the conversation or smacking your arms playfully when you tease her.

b) Looking into your eyes when you are speaking.

c) She keeps the conversation alive by asking you questions, especially personal ones.

d) She is responding well and laughing at your jokes.

e) She teases you back.

The above are just some of the signs to observe and there are many more if you are savvy enough to spot them.

Do not be like most guys who place too much emphasis on bringing girls out for a perfect date. Every date is a perfect date if she enjoys your company no matter what the dating activities are. So there is no necessity to impress her with the dating venues or the activities. Instead, it is a better idea to ask her to an activity that you would usually do and in this way, your asking is so innocent that it does not come across as a date request so as not to trigger her defense mechanism.

So what do you normally do during the week? Meeting some friends at a local bar? Going shopping? Then simply ask her if she would like to join you. It is as simple as that.

You see, your first date should not be formal as a formal first date could make you or even her nervous. A date should a fun and casual activity that gives you a chance to develop further bonding with her and you can bet your last dollar that if she enjoyed the date with you, she will want to be with you again and again.

So asking the girl you like out for the first date is a breeze if you know how to. That is why I am still wondering why most guys break out in cold sweat when it is time to pop the question.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at What To Do On First Date and How To Be Handsome Goodlooking Man