posted by ChrisChew on Mar 9
Are you attractive to women? You see, if your success with women is at best average, then you may not have enough chemistry to attract girls consistently.
You may not know this, but there is nothing more important in the art of seduction than pure sexual chemistry, and if you don’t have enough of it, then you will need to learn how to create it.
Nope, I’m not talking about some magical chemical substance such as pheromone that you rub on to attract girls. I am talking about your own natural attraction power.
You see, women have widely unpredictable taste for the male species. Some like jerks while others like geeks. Some go for the wealthy while for some, money does not matter at all. But one thing every girl will agree is that her potential lover and herself must share the right chemistry.
The good news for most men is that sexual chemistry has got very little to do with looking good although being goodlooking does help to a certain extent.
Look, have you ever seen a beautiful girl hanging on the arm of an ugly man? I have, as a matter of fact, indeed quite often. You see, that usually means that the ugly guy must be giving her some sort of good feeling chemistry.
Most girls believe that attraction chemistry is a natural occurence that either you have it or you don’t and it can’t be faked or learnt. Girls tend to think that you have to be connected with her somewhat and that if the attraction is not there, then it is pointless.
Let you in on a secret. This isn’t the case because all you need to do even if there is no chemistry between the two of you at first, you can learn how to create a connection between yourself and any girl you like. Of course it takes a little practice to perfect this skill.
When a woman talks about attraction chemistry, she meant that there is simply a feeling of being comfortable in one another’s company. There are several ways to do this.
Firstly, you have to be very relaxed in her presence. Even if you are sweating in your palms and your knees are quivering, you must adopt a very relaxed attitude and banter with her in a calm and easy manner. If you seem perfectly comfortable in her presence, she will find it easier to loosen up and be more relaxed with you.
When both of you are already relaxed, then you can start engaging her with casual conversations. Casual topics can range from movies you have seen, popular TV shows, or any casual subjects which are neutral by nature. Not subjects that people can take a firm position on such as animal rights or religious matters.
Go explore for common grounds of interest and engage her in conversations about them. The reason for this is that if you discovered a shared hobby or opinion, this will imediately bring you closer to her and make her feel comfortable and thus raising your attraction chemistry with her another notch.
Tease her and joke with her, but do so carefully as criticising her beliefs, habits or loved ones will instantly put the chemistry on the death knell! But a simple light hearted discussion about a movie or a pop star which can make both of you laugh and yet give you an excuse for playful touching will be setting the stage for the chemistry to keep on sizzling to dizzying heights.
Tease and touch her playfully now and then like brushing your fingers against her arm and then pull back. This will keep her guessing and set the sexual tension high to get her excited with your company.
Do not talk much about yourself, so that you remain somewhat of a mystery and thus stoking her curiosity. The objective is to create a relaxed and natural atmosphere which will convince her that both of you are indeed very compatible.
Your smiles and your laughter must be genuine, your responses should be vague but honest and most of all, there must be no signs of nervousness whatsoever. With that, you will have created such attractive and desirable chemistry that will make you very irresistible to most women! This chemistry is a very powerful stuff to attract women.
Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at Sex Aphrodisiacs and Natural Human Pheromone
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