Men Tips

posted by Chris_Tyler27 on Mar 31

It’s a pretty common situation that almost all men have gotten themselves into once or twice before. You fall in love with your female friend. Maybe from the very start, you knew that you were attracted to her and you wanted her. And maybe you though that starting out as friends first would be the key to making her fall in love.

After all, that’s what so many people say, right?

That you should start off as friends first with a woman.

Want to know why that is WRONG?

Sure, there are some instances here and there where that does work, but in all honesty, they are far and few in between. And all men know deep down that they have had at least one of those female friends that they really had a crush on.

When you start off as being just friends with a woman, you want to know what she does?

She puts up an invisible wall, one that you will almost never have a chance of being able to penetrate. One one side of that wall is YOU, the guy that she is just friends with. And on the other side, are all of the other guys, the ones that actually have more of a chance of dating her and sleeping with her than you do.

Doesn’t seem fair, does it?

Well, guess what? It’s not, but that’s just the way that it is.

If you want to make that female friend of yours EVER see you as the kind of man that she would get physical with, if you ever want to have the chance of getting her into your bed, then you have to do one thing.

You have to get her to think about you in a totally different way. You cannot just expect that you can go out and buy her one of those sappy cards and some flowers and she will change her mind. Attraction just doesn’t happen like that.

You have to make her see you in a whole new light. And for most guys that means that you will have to disappear for a while. No more going out for coffee on a Friday, just to hear about what guy she is going out with on Saturday night.

No more changing the oil in her car with the hopes that she will suddenly rip your shirt off and rock your world.

You have to change her perspective on who YOU are, otherwise, it’s NOT going to happen!

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posted by ChrisChew on Mar 31

All of us instinctively know that a man is usually fit, healthy and attractive just by looking at his bodyshape. We all have the inherent ability to appreciate beauty when we see it, but few have tried to understand, describe and to measure it. I am talking about the measurements of an appealing, attractive and perfect male body.

You see, there exists a specific set of measurements and ratios that can calculate what the perfectly proportioned male physique is. Ancient master sculptors such as Leonardo da Vinci and Michelangelo had long figured out these proportions, but over time, the concept just faded away. The ideal male body measurement is superbly displayed in Michelangelo’s King David sculpture (left).

There are only three measurements you need to know to determine your ideal physical proportions and they are your height, shoulders and waist. Many of the research done on the human physique, classic art sculptures and the psychology of human attraction indicated to us that there is a specific body shape and size that people will find the most attractive and pleasing to look at.

It is psycholigically known that men who are close to this ideal body size and shape are generally treated more favorably in any societies. They get bigger salaries, bonuses, more business deals and of course, more pretty girls. Given the physical and social benefits of having a perfectly well proportioned male body, you should know what is your specific ideal perfect body size and shape and how to get it, right?

Everybody will have an ideal waist measurement and ideal shoulder measurement that correspond to their height that equal your perfect body proportions. This is sometimes referred to as The Golden Ratio. Scientific research has confirmed that women will find a man most attractive when his body proportions approach these ideal measurements. Unfortunately, most men have no inkling what these body measurements are and how to get them.

Do you want to know? Well,firstly you need to know what your measurements are right now compared to what your perfect ideal body shape is going to be. Once you know where to start, you can determine how to go about getting to where you want to be.

The health and fitness industry has always been striving for the perfectly proportioned look. However, nobody has managed to pin down what this “look” is all about, how to measure it, and how to get it until John Barban, author of The Adonis Index Workout designed a plan on bringing you to your specific ideally perfect body shape starting with your present male body measurements.

Forget about doing weights to get bigger muscles or long boring cardio exercises to lose weight and fat. The perfect male body should be carved out with specific exercises and the workout routine is different for everyone because the starting point of everybody is different.

This is about a specific workout routine to build your body into its most appealing perfect shape. The idea is to get bigger muscles only at the right places and lose inches where you need lose them so that you can get a proportionately shaped perfect male physique. This is the male body shape that women find attractive and men respect.

So find out what are your measurements now and then work towards getting the appealing perfect male body that everyone desires now.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at Perfect Male Body Calculation and How To Get Attractive Male Swimmer’s Body

posted by ChrisChew on Mar 31

Let’s get down to earth guys. No matter what the so called “pick up artiste gurus” told you before, a handsome man with plenty of money do get more women attracted to them! Or least most of the time. That is an indisputable fact!

However, the good news is that guys with these positive assets can only go so far because if you know and master the correct seduction skills, even if you are not half as handsome or as wealthy, you can still make girls swoon over you and leave those guys behind, coming out as a clear winner as a chick magnet.

Why is this so? It is because there are many male attributes that most women admire and adore more than just good looks and money. The problem is that money and good looks are usually the root of shyness and lack of confidence in most men. They think that they are not wealthy or good looking enough to date beautiful women. Popular media seems to support this misconceived notion and it is the reason why so many men are misled into thinking that unless you have Tom Cruise’s handsome features or Bill Gates’ fortune, then supermodels and beautiful movie stars are out of their dating game.

Guys, now simply take a step back and have a good look at the people around you and you will see gorgeous women dating men who are both good looking and not so handsome ones, men who drive BMWs and Mercedes and the average guys who can’t even afford a car who take public transportation. So what does that tells you? What makes these men so successful with gorgeous women regardless of their wealth and looks?

Well, like I said earlier, you stand as good a chance or even better than guys who have a little bit of edge because of their wealth and good looks. In this article, I will show you 3 techniques amongst many that all women find desirable and irresistible in men. Of course, if that wealthy and good looking chap have these techniques and display them to women, then you will have a very formidable opponent. Then again, how many of these wealthy and handsome guys bother to learn the techniques when they already think they are on top of the dating game?

a) Establishing Confident Eye Contact - Holding her gaze in a confident eye contact is a sure sign of self confidence being flamboyantly displayed. It is also a way to communicate attitude, desire and emotion without saying a word. This is a very effective tool for flattering, teasing, flirting, showing your alpha male dominance, establishing your sincerity and credibility with women.

Looking at a girl from a distance intently and not looking away even when she sees you can be very sexy and thrilling to her. It tells her that you desire her and that you are so confident that you will prevail. Keeping a steady gaze during a conversation tells her that you are interested in what she is saying and that you are listening to her. Because of this, you will be perceived by her to be honest and sincere.

The breaking of eye contact if executed in perfect timing during a conversation can be a sign of confidence and dominance too. It tells the woman that you are not afraid of offending her and in fact, she should be trying even harder to impress you so that you can reward her again with your attention(holding eye contact).

Confidence - If there is anything a woman admires more in a man is his self confidence. Confidence have a very positive effect on your adventures with women. You see, it is not the money or the good looks that make rich and handsome guys attractive to women but their confidence in themselves. Wouldn’t you be more confident if you are flushed with cash and is a gorgeous guy?

You need to believe in your ability to attract beautiful drop dead gorgeous women. So do relax and enjoy yourself when you are in the company of beautifully attractive women and do not be cowed by their presence. Feel as if the women need your acknowledgement and approval more than you need theirs. Confidence is a very potent weapon that guys can use in attracting girls. This begs the question of how do you show confidence when you are not? Simple, just like anything else, fake it until it is real

Social Skills - Your social skills is a way of establishing dominance to let her see that you are dominant in most of your other social relationships. If she sees that you are comfortable, well-liked and even admired by your peers, then she is more likely to be attracted to you. This is why in the early stages of getting to know a woman, you must not hang out with her the entire time because this will make it seem as if you are clingy and desperate for her affection which is a big turn off to women. That is what wussies(losers)do.

Now, when you have mastered the above techniques, you can be sure most of the time that when it comes to the game of attracting gorgeous women, the guys who have the money and good looks may not be your match after all.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at How To Have Better Orgasm and How To Be A Handsome Attractive Man

posted by Chris_Tyler27 on Mar 31

At some point in time, we are ALL guilty of believing in certain myths about attracting women that will wind up holding us back from having the kind of success with women that we deserve. Thankfully, you can get past any of these beliefs and instead focus on what REALLY works to attract beautiful women. Don’t for one minute, think that you have to be blessed with wealth or an incredible physique to attract women.

Most guys will NEVER figure out that attracting beautiful women does not have to be a challenge, but something that you should enjoy instead. When you understand that an element of fun should be a part of attracting beautiful women, then you can start to change your experiences and date the kind of women that you WANT to be with.

Here are 3 myths about attracting beautiful women that might be holding you back:

1. You have to be tall, dark, and handsome to attract beautiful women.

While it would certainly help you out and make things a little easier, you might be surprised at how little this really matters. In fact, there are guys out there that are tall, dark, and handsome, and they STILL have a hard time attracting women. Then, there are men that are short and chubby and women seem to have an amazing attraction to them. Don’t believe that you have to be the classic tall, dark and handsome to attract women. Far from it.

2. You have to be wealthy to attract beautiful women.

If this were true, then there would be a beautiful woman on the arm of every rich guy and poor guys would have only the leftovers. Just take a walk outside your home and down any city street and you can see that this is not true. So, why bother in believing that you have to be wealthy to attract beautiful women. You DON’T. You can have practically no money to your name and still be very successful attracting pretty women.

3. You have to be born ’smooth’ with women.

Not even close. Most guys have to hone their skills with women through experiences, both good and bad. In fact, some of the top pick up artists are the way that they are because they used to get rejected so much. The thing is, they learned how to turn it around and STOPPED using methods to attract women that just did not pan out. You have to be able to do the same if you REALLY want to attract sexy women and have an easier time dating.

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posted by karenwinton on Mar 30

When talking to women during dates, most guys think that everything is going excellently, only to find out after the date that the woman does not call back or would make up excuses when asked again for another date. That is, of course, a signal that the date has failed and that it may be time to move on to other prospects. Reading the tips on dating stated below, however, will help guys avoid dating mistakes and help them achieve successful dates:

1. Relax.

Some guys become too nervous that they turn the date into something awkward and boring. Thus, the women would not want to go out with them again. Most dating tips 101 will tell you that the very first thing you need to do is to relax and be cool.

Don’t think of the date too much. Just imagine that you are there with a lady to have fun so you have to make sure that the atmosphere is something fun, comfortable, and relaxing. Good examples of relaxed dates include having coffee, watching movies, and so on.

2. Talking to women the ‘proper way’ is necessary.

Dating tips for guys usually touch on the topic of talking to women properly. This means that you have to be careful not to do all the talking or remain too quiet during the date as that is an action most women dislike.

It is best for you to remember that you also need to listen to your date and let her talk, and find a common ground for both of you to talk about. You also have to be casual when talking to women, and avoid making your dates feel like being on interviews.

3. Be mischievous at times.

One of the tips on dating that men should know about is to be mischievous from time to time. This means being a bit naughty in the sense that you loosen up to crack jokes, and make comments that tend to make women laugh. This also shows women that you are indeed confident and that makes you look more attractive in their eyes.

4. Date other beautiful women.

Dating other attractive women is also included in the tips on dating. When to talking to women on dates, it is good to let them know that they are not the only attractive women you are dating. Most women who learn that you are not dating them exclusively will see you as a challenge, thus, they would do everything to win over the other women you are dating.

There are many tips on dating and dating tips 101 that you have to pay attention to in order to have successful dates and win the heart of the woman of your dreams. Remember that dating tips for guys are important because they make it possible for guys to interpret women’s signals and words correctly, and at the same time, teach guys how to act in such a way that will make their dates feel extra special.

Karen Winton is a freelance writer. For valuable tips on dating, check out: Tips on Dating. To learn how to communicate well with the opposite sex, see: Conversation Chemistry.