Men Tips

posted by merclord on Jan 31

Most men have a lot of trouble getting an erection soon after they ejaculate. This could lead to frustration and other serious relationship problems.

All men want to satisfy their woman. But let’s face it, that’s not easy to do when your body will not cooperate. Imagine this situation: You strip down, you get a rock hard erection and start pounding away hard on your woman. After a few minutes you ejaculate. She has not even had a chance to achieve an orgasm. Your penis is totally numb. She tries her best to arouse you again, but nothing seems to work. Finally she gives up and rolls over and goes to sleep. You just lay there staring at the ceiling frustrated, wondering what the heck is wrong with you. Sound familiar? Then read on…

First let’s deal with the obvious. There really could be something physically wrong with you… Not enough sleep, anxiety or stress from work or other issues, low testosterone, etc… These issues are beyond the scope of this article. For more info about how to deal with these problems go to my website. So let’s assume that you don’t have any of these problems. In that case you’re solution may be something that you can fix almost immediately. What may be the problem is that you got aroused and ejaculated too quickly. Now I don’t mean premature ejaculation. I mean that you simply ejaculated much sooner than you should have.

What some men don’t realize is that foreplay is an important and critical part of effective love making. Foreplay helps to build up tension in your pelvic muscles. It also helps to give you stronger orgasms. It’s very easy to know if you have had enough foreplay. If your sperm simply dribbles out like a turned over bottle of syrup then you probably didn’t have enough foreplay.

Of course this is something that most women have no comprehension of. When you ejaculate, it should come shooting out with enough force to land on your chest, face, or even fly right over your head if you are lying down. Normally this is only possible if you have created a lot of tension by having a lot of foreplay.

Having enough foreplay to do this can be extremely difficult especially if your partner is ready to be drilled within 5 seconds of removing her panties. Also, you may not want to be bothered with all that foreplay and tension building, but this is a mistake. You need time. Lots of time before you enter your partner. Maybe even an hour or two! The benefit of this is not just a stronger ejaculation, but an increased chance of having a 2nd or 3rd round of sex shortly after you ejaculate.

Building all of that tension increased blood flow, and increases your arousal levels to the point at which they remain high, even after you ejaculate. And if you act quickly enough you can maintain that blood flow and arousal for much, much longer.

Now you may be wondering how in the world can you get your partner to wait nearly one or two hours before you mount her. The answer is simple. Take control and don’t allow her to get what she wants, when she wants it. Make her wait. Even if she begs you for it. An easy way to keep her waiting is to keep her panties on. Most women take the cue that if you take off her panties, you are ready for intercouse soon after. So delay that move for as long as possible.

For most women, once they get aroused, and have an orgasm, it’s quite easy for them to have more orgasms, and have them more frequently. But men are not built that way. If you are good at oral sex, or you use your finger or a toy to give her that initial orgasm, she will be immediately expecting you to penetrate her. She may even grab hold or jump on top of you.

I know this sounds crazy, but simply don’t let that happen. Don’t let her dictate when it is time to get busy. You have to be ready otherwise it will be over too soon and you won’t be ready to do anything else for another couple of hours or the next morning.

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posted by merclord on Jan 31

The idea here is to find a way to achieve multiple erections within a short period of time. Now we need to talk about all of this from a woman’s perspective. Previously I said that you need anywhere from one to two hours of foreplay to build up enough tension to have multiple erections.

However, women do not and probably will not understand this. Their bodies are different from ours. Once they get aroused it simply continues to build. Women tend to think that a man’s arousal is similar to theirs. A woman’s entire body is basically an erogenous zone. The neck, back, lips, knees, arms, ankles, pretty much anywhere on her body can get her hot and ready.

And when you jump on her for the first time that night and start banging away it only intensifies it more for her. But as soon as you ejaculate, your penis gets soft and here is where all the trouble and confusion takes place. A woman that really cares about you isn’t going to get upset. She will try to help you by doing what she “thinks” will get you back into the mood. She may start kissing you on the lips, or neck or even suck on your nipples.

Unfortunately most women don’t understand that men have only one erogenous zone and that is the penis. Messing with any other part of your body, (and I’m specifically talking about immediately after your first orgasm), is a complete waste of time. Now before that first orgasm, you don’t need much help in getting an erection and touching you in other places can and probably will increase your arousal. This is the definition of foreplay. But this approach won’t work after you come the first time.

Before you have intercourse, you must build up enough tension, for a long period, otherwise both you and your woman are going to have to work twice as hard to get you back up again. Don’t let her waste time messing with any other part of your body. She simply needs to give you oral sex immediately and be prepared to keep giving it until you have built up enough tension. This does not necessarily mean that as soon as you get a semi-hard on that she should stop giving head and go for intercourse.

If you didn’t not build up any tension then she is going to have to work long and hard to build that tension back up. Her goal should be to bring you close to the point of another ejaculation before she stops giving head.

For a lot of women giving head is hard work and they get tired after a few minutes so I don’t recommend this approach. To make matters worse, her arousal may be completely gone by the time she’s finished giving you oral and now she will simply roll over and go to sleep. She doesn’t have to work as hard during the first round. That is the time when she can focus on other parts of your body to keep you hard which is much easier than a blowjob. Also you can do the same to her at the same time to keep her arousal levels high. This situation changes dramatically after you have an orgasm.

If you do have intercourse to early then both of you need to maintain a high level of arousal at the same time. The best way to do that is in the 69 position. Or if she doesn’t want to do that, then grab a toy and use it on her while her mouth is going to work on you.

Don’t assume she understands any of this. Explicitly tell her that if she wants to keep on going after your first ejaculation, she needs to give you head immediately. Too many women think that a man has lost or is losing interest in them sexually when he can’t get it up for a 2nd or 3rd round. They simply don’t understand male physiology. And neither do a lot of men.

So in conclusion, take control, don’t give in to your woman, or your desire for instant gratification and add a lot of foreplay to your sex life. Also, give these articles to your woman to read so that she might have a better insight in to how to get you up and keep you up.

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