Men Tips

posted by ChrisChew on Dec 2

Contrary to what many people say, good looking men have a much better chance of meeting and attracting beautiful women. So one of the most important thing you must do if you want to impress the girls is to make yourself look good and keep up to date with the latest fashion to improve on your appearance.

Do you know that are very observant with your appearance. As a matter of fact, women are far more observant than men. It is just their natural instinct to be like that. They notice things that you and I may never even be aware of.

Don’t believe me? Well, take your shoes you are wearing for example. Girls will almost always look at a man’s shoes and make a judgment of you. If you are wearing a pair of dirty old sports shoes, she will think, “Gosh, that guy does not even take care of himself, how can he take care of others then?”. That certainly is not being impressive to a woman.

In contrast, when was the last time you judged a woman based on what kind of shoes she was wearing? Let me make a guess, you probably did not even bother to look at her shoes, right? If you are like me and you probably are, you were far more focused on her legs than on her shoes, didn’t you? Gotcha!

The reason why women are impressed with men with good dress sense appearance is precisely because women are so observant. Therefore you need to dress nicely to impress her and be consistent with your fashion sense. That means that not only do you need to wear a decent pair of shoes, the rest of your dress sense needs to match your shoes.

You also need to be consistent to create an identity unique to you and therefore can’t wear a pair of expensive Italian dress shoes one day and a crappy pair of flip-flops the next day. Women will definitely notice your inconsistent appearance to your own detriment!

There are two basic components to fashion consistency. Firstly, you need to be consistent within a single outfit and secondly, you need to be consistent from day to day. To retain consistency within a single outfit, you need to have all the pieces of your outfit matching each other. I don’t just mean that the colors need to match, what I meant is that everything you are wearing needs to fit within the same “style”.

Take for example, an inconsistent outfit might consist of a bright green T shirt, a pair of dark brown dress pants and a pair of running shoes. Yucks! Isn’t that awful? The problem is men are committing this fashion dress sense mistake all the time and they don’t even know it! But Women do!

Of equal importance, you need to dress consistently from one day to the next. This is especially important if you see and meet the same people day in and day out.

I once had an email from a guy called Jep. Jep was certainly very dedicated to looking his Sunday best and even went shopping several times each month. He used to visit the most expensive male boutiques and bought tons of nice expensive clothes so as to impress women.

“I was certain I had lots of great clothes,” Jep told me, “but the other day I was talking with a couple of girls and they actually started making fun of my fashion dress sense!” After exchanging a few emails with him, I got to the root of his problem which is that his fashion sense was totally confused. He had a wardrobe full of nice clothes, but they were totally out of sync!

One day David would wear a handsome Armani blazer, the next day he would put on an oversized scarlet limited edition Adidas Tee. Sure, they were both expensive clothes were fashionable but the problem is that they are completely different mix.

I advised Jep to stick with one single style which is the image he wished to project. If you are going to wear an Armani blazer one day, you should wear something similar the next.

Remember, women are incredibly observant! They will remember what you wore yesterday. If it is a total mismatch with your dress sense today, then they will definitely take notice and immediately think, “that guy has no idea at all when it comes to fashion sense!” That is certainly not an impressive thought, don’t you think?

Hey guys. There are a lot more to good fashion than just simply buying expensive clothes. If you want to look good, you need to know what are doing!

Not only should know how to retain fashion consistency, you should also learn how to break down a variety of different clothing styles and provide an analysis for each one so that you can appear your best and impress the girls without spending a fortune. After all, your goal is to impress women, not to be broke!

I know that I am being long winded, but I will say it again, women are very observant and they will notice your clothing and appearance every day.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at Be More Handsome and Attractive Male Body Women Like

posted by ChrisChew on Dec 2

Do you know what is the biggest mistake men are making when dating women? If you want to know how to date a woman successfully, then stop being a wussy!

Most men when it comes to dating, especially dating beautiful girls will turn into a wussy. Women are turned off by wussy men big time!

So what is a wuss? Let’s begin by defining the word wussy. This slang word is thought to be derived from the word “wimp” and is meant as a guy who behaves in a wimpish, submissive and needy way. This is a sign of male weakness and that is why women disdain wussy men.

Believe it or not, women are able to spot wussy man a mile away. Attractive girls get approached all the time and so they need to be able to immediately judge whether a man is worth the effort to date or not. If you are an attractive girl, can you imagine being approached every day by needy men. You will really be sick of men telling you that you are so beautiful and being asked to go on dates, won’t you?

The problem is that most men radiate a neediness that most women can feel instinctively and part of this neediness are the signals his body language is sending out.

The one thing that women notice about a man’s body language immediately is the eye contact which women use to test men. If he holds her gaze till she looks away he has passed the initial test. If he can’t even hold her gaze for a few seconds, then he is perceived to be weak. Men who can hold a women’s gaze for about 6 seconds and then smile are judged to be strong and this triggers sexual attraction in girls.

Some things that wussy men do are always trying to please women by always agreeing with her and not saying no to anything she wants. This is wussy weakness and not chilvary, so get that right!

Do you know that the more you say “no” to a woman the more she respects you? This is because you will come across as a strong dominant male and she feels more secured with dominant men. It is a primeval tribal instinct.

On the the other hand, the more you say yes, the less she feels you are able to hold onto yourself. If you say yes all the time she knows that you can be manipulated to do just about anything and you bet most of the time, you will be manipulated to do her wishes, that is, if you managed to date her in the first place.

Wussies frequently buy expensive presents to please women. Buying flowers for every date would be an example of such. Also, letting the women get away with bad behavior is another example of a typical wussy. So stop pandering up to her! Be the man women want, not wimp!

Yes, some women may date or even marry wussy men but this is not because they are attracted to these kind of men but because he is either the best she can get, is rich and has been courting her so many years that she finally gives in to him. Whatever the reason is, she will never feel attraction for him.

Women don’t choose who they are attracted to and they also don’t choose the emotions that they feel either. It just happens instinctively. They either like you as a potential date or they don’t straightaway.

One major problem most men have to face is becoming a wussy over time. Herein lies the bottomless black hole. When you gradually turn into a wussy with a woman, that emotion called attraction in her will begin to begin to flicker out.

For example, a woman will say things like, “I don’t know what it is but for some reason lately he is just annoying me nowadays.” It bothers and irritates women when a man that is interested in them acts like a wussy.

Then as the relationship gets worse the more annoyed the woman becomes, the more the man becomes more wussy like. It is a dating vicious cycle that usually ended up with the woman dumping the poor chap and he doesn’t even know what went wrong which left him thinking that perhaps, if he had just been able to tell her just how much he loved her, she wouldn’t have left him for that another guy. Another wussy thought!

So if you want to date girls successfully, don’t make the mistake of being a wuss and you will naturally attract more and more women to date.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at Male Sexual Enhancement and Sex Aphrodisiac

posted by ChrisChew on Dec 2

Most men, especially those above 40 years of age suffer some form of erectile dysfunction, commonly known as male impotency to varying degrees and this affliction can cause much anguish, pent up sexual stress and may even lead to depression.

Because of this medical problem, many men resorted to making regular trips to their doctors to get erectile dysfunction prescription pills such as Viagra, Cialis or Levitra just to name a few, to treat their problems.

However, regular trips to the doctor’s office can be expensive, embarrassing and time consuming which can be a real hassle not to mention their related side effects. Furthermore, the prescribed pills only serves as a temporary measure and when the effects of the pills are gone, it is back to square one.

Unknown to these patients, there are several natural ways to treat erectile dysfunction successfully such as changing one’s lifestyle or using natural herbal erectile dysfunction supplements.

For most men having this sexual health problem, just simply by adopting a healthier lifestyle, such as quitting smoking, exercising regularly, quitting alcohol consumption, losing weight if you are obese and reducing stress may be all that is needed to cure their impotency.

Quitting Smoking can be very difficult for most hardcore smokers and there is no single best way to quit that works for all people. One of the most effective ways to quit smoking is to get nicotine replacement therapies such as with the aid of nicotine gums and patches. Others use quit smoking hypnosis or even acupunture treatment to help them stop smoking.

Regular exercise not only can improve your physical health, it can improve your mental and sexual health too. Along with improving erectile function, exercise can, strengthen the heart and lungs, improve the flow of oxygen in the blood, build stamina, lower blood pressure, strengthen muscle and bones, help you lose weight and reduce stress plus many other helpful health benefits including being a natural treament for erectile dysfunction as it involves good blood circulation.

Nest, go get enoungh sleep. Your body rejuvenates itself during deep slumber and you should sleep at least 7 or more hours a day. A night of restful sleep can rejuvenate your mind, body and banish away your stress and anxiety. You will feel great and even sexually healthy.

Stress is one of the common causes of erectile dysfunction. Our bodies are designed to feel stress and react to it. It keeps us alert and ready to avoid or confront danger. But it is not always possible to avoid or change events that may cause stress and it is easy to feel trapped and depressed.

When stress accumulates, our body begins to break down and illnesses such as having erectile dysfunction and other disease can occur. The good thing is regular exercises and having enough sleep can reduce stress significantly. You can even try coping with stress through meditation, yoga and even picking up a new hobby.

In order for your impotency treatment to be even more successful, try natural herbal impotency supplements such as Herbal Viagra. These erectile dysfunction pills are made from natural traditional herb extracts and are used by physicians for centuries from many different cultures. Because of its natural herbal ingredients, you don’t need a prescription to get them because there are no known side effects.

Why not change your lifestyle to correct your impotency problems instead of relying on prescription pills.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at What Is Herbal Viagra and Human Pheromone For Sexual Appeal

posted by jhernandezlawoffice on Dec 1

This year approximately 14% of the 193,000 men diagnosed with prostate cancer will already have advanced prostate cancer at the time they are diagnosed. With screening, including digital examinations and PSA blood tests, many of these men could have been diagnosed while their cancer was in the early stages. A delay until the cancer is advanced not only limits the man’s treatment options but also dramatically lowers his chances of surviving the cancer. Consider the following reported case as an example.

At age fifty-six, a male plaintiff underwent a digital examination of the prostate. His doctor felt and documented the presence of a small nodule on the left side of the patient’s prostrate. The doctor ordered a PSA blood test. The result was noted to be 3.1 which generally considered to be in the normal range. The doctor did not recommend any additional testing or follow up by a Urologist.

Two years and ten months later, the doctor again conducted a digital examination of the patient’s prostate. This time the doctor documented the examination as “normal.” The doctor did not order a PSA test during this visit. Approximately six weeks after this, the patient had a PSA test as part of a medical examination required for his insurance. The result was a 5.3 which was interpreted as high. When the patient inquired about the results of his blood work from the earlier appointment with his doctor, the doctor told him that he had not ordered a PSA test as part of that workup and suggested that the patient return to the doctor’s office for another PSA test.

The PSA test was redone and the result was a 3.5 which the patient’s doctor interpreted as normal and as not requiring any additional follow up. The doctor told the patient he did not need to be concerned.

The next time the doctor performed a complete physical examination of the patient was two years and eleven months later. The doctor again documented that the digital examination revealed a small nodule on the prostate. The PSA test came back with an elevated reading of 4.7. The doctor confirmed reading the report with a signature. The patient underwent a sigmoidoscopy the following moth which noted that the prostate was enlarged. The doctor then spoke with the patient and in the medical record documented telling the patient that the test results were normal. The doctor again failed to order a diagnostic workup and failed to refer the patient to a Urologist.

The doctor conducted the next full physical examination one year and ten months later. By this time the digital examination revealed that the prostate was enlarged, and that it was firm on the left side without a discernible nodule. Following the digital examination the doctor documented a plan to refer the patient to a Urologist if the PSA came back above a 3. The PSA actually came back at 14.1.

The Urologist ordered an ultrasound and biopsy which found prostate cancer on both lobes of the prostate, with primary involvement in the left lobe. A bone scan then found that the cancer had metastasized into the right pubis, the right femur and the right tibia. The patient was thus no longer a candidate for surgery and had to begin taking hormone therapy and a Lupron injection. Statistically, men diagnosed with such an advanced form of prostate cancer have an expected two to three years survival rate.

The patient filed a lawsuit against his doctor for the delayed diagnosis of his prostate cancer. During litigation the doctor admitted that the detection of a nodule during a digital examination was an “abnormal” finding. The settlement included the wife’s claim of any future wrongful death action. The law of the state in which the claim arose limits the amount that can be recovered for any non-economic damages to $250,000 and would also limit to $250,000 the wife’s wrongful death claim. The law firm that handled the matter on behalf of the patient reported that the case settled for $850,000.

This case illustrates the importance of doctors following the screening guidelines for their male patients. By deviating from the guidelines by not performing the required screening tests and by not following up on abnormal test results either by referring the patient to a Urologist or by ordering diagnostic tests (such as a biopsy) the doctor may be liable for medical malpractice. As the case further illustrates, such a claim, even in a state that limits the amount of recovery, can be substantial.

Joseph Hernandez is an Attorney who helps victims of advanced prostate cancer due to medical malpractice. Find out more about advanced prostate cancer cases by visiting his website at http://www.prostatecancerlaw.com