Men Tips

posted by artgib on Nov 18

Our society tends to place a great deal of emphasis on the “manly man,” and what is expected of males in general. Unfortunately, these lead to unfair stereotypes, particularly stressing that men think of sex all the time, and they are ALWAYS ready to go.

These generalizations tend to make men in our culture feel ashamed and embarrassed if they are actually struggling to make things happen in the bedroom. Some men go so far as to make ridiculous excuses or blame their partner, which in turn damages otherwise healthy relationships.

If this scenario resembles the situation you find yourself in, the first step to making your life what you hope it to be is admitting that this is, in fact, a problem–and that it most like won’t go away if you wait long enough or you simply want it bad enough.

If you are on the younger side (under 35 or so), you may feel very concerned about why this is happening to you. Before you rush off to the doctor to have a full work-up, stop to check out the side effects of any medications you may be taking. Many prescription drugs can decrease the sex drive.

You need to also take stock of your life. What seems to be causing you the most stress? Are you working long hours? Do you have a new baby at home? Are financial anxieties on your mind constantly? Are there issues in your relationship that make it difficult to be turned on?

These are just a few questions you need to ask yourself. Isolate the problem(s) and try to work through them in a healthy manner. If you believe you have too much to handle by yourself, don’t hesitate to see a counselor so you can get some perspective and sound advice.

Be aware of how you deal with stress, frustration, anger, etc. Most men I have known tend to internalize it all, which perpetuates the problem rather than solving it.

If you don’t want to open up to someone, you should at least try exercising to blow off steam. This also boosts testosterone, which also increases your sex drive!

Even after this self-evaluation, you may feel a need to have a chat with your doctor. This is by no means a bad idea, but don’t assume that one of the common prescription medications meant to treat erectile dysfunction will serve as a “miracle pill.” Some of them have dangerous side effects and these should be considered carefully.

Some men decide to try male enhancement supplements, which may be beneficial. But you need to be sure to follow all dosing instructions carefully. You need to also inform your doctor that you are taking these.

Struggling with ED does not make you any less of a “manly man.” It just means that, like all of us, you have problems that require a solution that’s workable to you. Don’t let this temporary affliction ruin your life or your relationship.

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posted by ChrisChew on Nov 18

Most men will at some time or other suffer from some form of impotency or erectile dysfunction to varying degrees and this affliction can cause much anguish and pent-up sexual stress. For the few unfortunate ones, the affliction can even lead to severe depression.

Because of this male embarrasing problem, many men resorted to making regular trips to their doctors office to get erectile dysfunction stimulants or prescription sexual enhancement pills such as Viagra, Cialis or Levitra just to name a few.

The problem is that regular trips to the doctor’s office can be rather expensive, embarrassing and time consuming which can be a real hassle not to mention the pilss related side effects. Unknown to these patients, there are several natural ways to treat erectile dysfunction successfully such as changing your lifestyle habits or using natural herbal erectile dysfunction pills (commonly known as Herbal Viagra or Natural Generic Viagra).

Many men have overcome this sexual health problem successfully by just adopting a healthier lifestyle, such as quitting smoking, exercising regularly, quitting alcohol usage and reducing stress level.

Quitting smoking can be very difficult for some hardcore smokers and there is no single best way to quit that works for all people. However, from some medical research, one of the most effective ways to quit smoking is to get nicotine replacement therapies such as with the aid of nicotine gums and patches. Others use quit smoking hypnosis or even acupunture treatment to become non smokers.

Regular exercise not only can improve your physical health, it can improve your mental and sexual health in many ways. Along with improving erectile function, exercise can, strengthen the heart and lungs, improve the flow of oxygen in the blood, build stamina, lower blood pressure, strengthen muscle and bones, help you lose weight and reduce stress plus many other helpful health benefits including being a natural treament for impotency.

Get enoungh sleep. Your body repairs itself during deep sleep and you should sleep at least 7 or more hours each night. A night of restful sleep can rejuvenate your mind, body and banish away your stress and anxiety. You will feel great and this can only help your erectile dysfunction condition to get better.

Stress is one of the common causes of erectile dysfunction. Our bodies are designed to feel stressful and react to it. It keeps us alert and ready to avoid danger or take flight from such dangers if appropriate. But it is not always possible to avoid or change events that may cause stress and it is easy to feel trapped and depressed.

When stress accumulates, our body begins to break down and illnesses such as having erectile dysfunction and others can occur. The good thing is regular exercises and having enough sleep can reduce stress significantly. You can even try coping with stress through meditation, yoga and even picking up a new hobby.

In order for your impotency treatment to be even more successful, try supplementing with natural herbal impotency stimulants such as Herbal Viagra. These erectile dysfunction pills are made from natural traditional herb extracts and used by physicians for centuries from different cultures. Because of its natural herbal ingredients, you don’t need a prescription to get them because there are no known bad side effects.

There you have it, change your lifestyle, bad health habits and with the help of natural herbal supplements, you may even cure your erectile dysfunction impotency condition permanently.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at Penis Enlargement Pills and Sex Aphrodisiac

posted by akalloh on Nov 18

Most women think men are immature. For the most part, they are right. Us grown men still like to play sports, video games and other child like things. This is because of how we think. We aren’t always as serious as women pretend to be. Men enjoy competition. We go through this our whole life. It starts when we are little kids and we throw baseballs with our dad. We grow up playing sports, then we grow old and we get into the job market and we have to find a mate. All of those requires you to compete. So, all of our lives, we end up doing this. Women don’t understand this.

This is also why they tend not to succeed in business like men do. They lack that drive to succeed, to compete. It is like a game. How many women CEOs do you see compared to men? There is a big difference in numbers.

On the other hand, there are some really immature men. Every time I watch Animal Planet, the men on the programs make me think of adolescent boys. They all act like if they seen a pair of tits they would have a heart attack. Maybe it has something to do with animals, hell I don’t know. I can’t stand to watch more than ten minutes because of this.

When a man acts immature, it doesn’t mean they are lazy or a retard. Sometimes people can have emotional problems. Sometimes being abused as a child can have an effect on people. There is so much bad shit that happens in life, I am surprised if anyone can walk away sane from it.

If you have problems that stemmed from the past, I wouldn’t beat yourself over the head about it. Instead, I would go to a therapist and talk to them about it. They will help you deal and cope with everything that has happened. If you don’t have the money, try either getting government assistance or try to find a place that makes you pay on what they call a ’sliding scale’. This means, they will base how much you have to pay on how much money you make. Chances are it will be much cheaper and you will be able to afford it. If you have no money at all, you can go and talk to a minister for free. Most of the time they will be happy to talk to you and give you good advice.

Even though we might feel immature or down, there is no reason to go around pouting 24/7. We don’t like when our women do this, so we should keep in mind they don’t like it when we do it. If you are doing this, you need some help. You are trying to get pity to cover up your problems. Drug addicts use drugs to cover up problems, you use pity.

You shouldn’t let mood swings get the best of you. This can happen if you have a mental illness. You get tired when your old lady has mood swings before her period and bitches you out all day long. Chances are, she hates yours as well.

There is no need to go on with life feeling this way. If you are just an immature guy because it is your nature, don’t worry about it. On the other hand, if you have problems, I suggest you get help.

If you find yourself getting depressed often or thinking of killing yourself, its time to get help. There is no need to run from it. The doctor won’t kill you when you go in. There is no surgeries, needles, or any of that stuff. They can’t even force you to take meds or come back for a second visit. Simply put, they can’t force you to do anything you don’t want to do.

If you are having panic attacks they can effect your sex life. If you have panic attacks while having sex, it can be very difficult to maintain an erection. Hell, it is almost impossible to maintain a reasonable life when you have panic attacks.

If you find yourself unable to leave your house or without the desire to leave, you need to seek some help. There is no reason why you should put yourself through the horror of this living hell. Get on your feet and make the first step. It is important for you to understand that only you can help you.

If you feel like some of the things I described because you are being abused by your woman, you need to leave right away. Most people don’t believe that a woman can abuse a man, but it happens every day. You don’t deserve to be abused, you have done nothing wrong. You need to put your foot down and get the hell out. Let her ruin someone else’s life.

Money should never be a problem when it comes to getting the support you need. If it is, try to find local support groups in your area. Talking to someone is better than no one. You can go to places online and find support groups and even ones you can talk to people online. You can talk to people and they will never know who you are. Most if not all of the online support groups are free. This means you won’t have to pay any money to use them. You can go to places like yahoogroups.com and find support groups. It is a good place to start looking.

Friend, if you need it go get some help. There is no reason not to. You deserve to live a good healthy life. Don’t kid yourself, you do deserve it.

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posted by ChrisChew on Nov 18

Let me as you a brutally frank question. Do you agree that approaching women and chatting them up will be a piece of cake if not for those damn nerves? You are? Then you are very honest with yourself. From my observation, most men are except for the lucky gifted or thick skinned few.

Most men will agree that the most terrifying part of picking up girls is to garner enough confidence in the initial approach to chat with her. The mere thought of it sent shudders up your spine, didn’t it? This is especially true if the women of your desire is a stunning beauty.

Well, this is a common problem shared by most men. But until you overcome this natural but irrational fear approaching girls, you will lose out dating many beautiful women because you simply do not approach and chat them up or even if you do so, you will probably end up like a bundle of nerves and embarrass yourself even more. Further to this basic unpleasantness, women will also sense your jittery nerves and will get turned off.

So unless you correct this horrible irrational fear of approaching beautiful girls, you may find yourself trapped in the vicious cycle of “fear of approaching women” with no way out, perhaps even forever! However, if you master the art, you will find that approaching and chatting up the woman you fancy for the first time, making her laugh and getting her phone number will be a piece of cake.

So how do you pluck up that courage and confidence to approach and talk to the girl you are attracted to? Well, the first thing you should do is to desensitize yourself to women.

You see, most of the fear of meeting, approaching and chatting girls comes from the fact that you simply don’t do it often enough. Yup, you read that right. If I am to guess correctly, some of you may never have even done it before.

No, I am not talking about women you already know, I am talking about that chick you have never seen before but have caught your fancy at the bar. So get some practise now, go ahead and approach her, then another and another until approaching women is as normal to you as stepping into a 7-11 joint to buy a can of soda.

If you are still nervous then practice and practise. Even if you fumbled up, what is the big deal anyway, you would probably never see her again. But think about it, what if you start to see success again and again? A thrilling thought, don’t you think? But for that to happen, you must begin appraoching women!

Hey, don’t freak out just yet because you don’t even need to start a conversation. You see, your goal is just to take the fear out of the approach. So just go and say, “Hi, how is it going?” with a friendly smile and then walk away. Do this to a few women everyday until your irrational fear is gone and that is when you can chat with them easily.

This is the first step to conquer your fear of meeting, approaching and chatting with women. Once you get past this stage, you can then learn other ways to start a conversation easily as you no longer have any inhibition in approaching beautiful girls!

What do you say to that huh? Go on, try it now!

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at How To Get Better Orgasm and What Type Of Male Body Women Like

posted by ChrisChew on Nov 17

Once you have confidently approached a woman you like, the next sentence out of your mouth can make or break your picking her up attempt. So it is very crucial to know when and how to use the most effective pick up lines.

So, what are pick up lines? Pick up lines are openers to start a conversation with someone you want to seduce, flirt or to well, pick up. The best pick up lines are original ones which you’ve composed with certain seduction skills because it is original and not cheesy, unless you meant it to be. A good pick up line should also be funny and witty but not corny.

The best thing about original pick up line is that there is almost no danger of having your intending target finding out that you are not using second hand openers or lines already used by many other people and are often repeated until it gets rather artificial and insincere.

For the purpose of this article, I will not dismiss the value of ready made pick up lines but will show you the reasons behind the best and effective pick up lines and some of the worst pick up lines.

Effective Pick Up Lines
“Hi, would you like to dance?” - This good pick up line can only be used effectively if you can dance stylishly and gracefully. Most girls like to dance and if you impress her with your dancing skills, you can even later have a conversation with her about dancing and music in general. If you can’t dance well, then isn’t it about time to start having some dancing lessons?

“Hi, is this seat taken?” - I like this opener because it portrays you as polite and innocent as you are not assuming that a woman sitting beside an empty chair is alone. Your consideration to this fact that she may be reserving the empty seat for someone else shows you have good manners. The best thing about this opener is that it is so unobtrusive that it gives you the opportunity for her to invite you to join her if she is alone. This pick up line is best used in social situations, in nightclubs, bars etc.

“Excuse me, can you help me with?” - This is where you can invent a light task for her to help you with such as reserving the seat beside her for you while you go and get a drink or asking her to referee a game among some friends or naming a song that is being played. This will make her feel as though you are appreciative of her help, opinion or a favor.

Using cheesy or corny pick up lines is not cute and will get her turned off immediately. On the other hand, being clever and confident with your pick up lines can get you to the next level in your attempt to pick her up.

Compliments, when delivered should be delicate and not exaggerated. Compliments must be sincere and true. Believe me, girls know when you are lapping up to her. The objective thus is to create a conversation opener that best reveals your interest and genuine intention.

Bad Pick Up Lines
Here, you will know that why canned readymade pick up lines can get real corny and cheesy and why inventing your own witty and funny original openers is still your best option.

“Hi, you have sexy legs, what time do they open?” - Your male friends may find this line witty and funny, but the girl you deliver this corny pick up line to may well give you a tight slap!

Anytime you imply that a girl is easy because she is dressed provocatively, you are commiting an unforgivable sin in the art of seduction. If she is that hot, do you really think she is interested in hearing you belittling her? This line is utterly insulting to women!

“You must be very tired because you have been running through my head all night” - Ouch! The danger of ready made canned pick up lines! This line is just plain ridiculous because it is being used for ages by thousands if not millions of men. If you do not know this, then must be living in Timbuctoo. Some inexperienced guys would have probably used it on her and she must have heard this line countless time! You won’t want to be the next wussy to bore and insult her, won’t you?

“Hi, can I buy you a drink?” - Another overused pick up line. You see, every beautiful girl at the bar will have all kinds of guys coming up asking to buy her a drink. You just did, didn’t you?

Some girls will just take your free drinks and ignore you because you are no exception from any other guys. Some girls will even feel insulted as if they can’t afford to buy their own drink. Whatever it is, you lose out big time!

Now you see why canned ready made pick up lines can be dangerous to your seduction adventure and the best pick up lines are your own original compositions? So how to compose good and effective pick up lines that work like a charm? But that is for another article.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at Natural Herbal Viagra and Ballroom Dancing Lessons