Archive for November 13th, 2009

posted by cyborg3100 on Nov 13

Every man in this world would have fantasized for some women in some part of his life. This fact is quite inevitable and does not need any proof. You might be young and never feel like coming close to any girl, but there is a particular time juncture in life where you would feel the importance of a partner to share feelings with. This is the basic nature of human beings and is seen in every living object unless really abnormal.

But despite of such an inborn habit, have you ever tried to realize why some people fail to get a proper life partner in their lifetime. If you do not want to get counted among them, here are some tips that can help you:
a) Before you go forward to approach any girl, it is important that you understand their nature and their mode of thinking. Many people fail to fulfil this criteria that results in their failing in further steps. You should realize that a girl can take any shape or any role in life and hence is very compatible. You need to invoke them at right place and at the right time so that you really make place in their heart.
b) Before approaching on any particular gal, make sure that you have completed your homework on her. Try to know as much as possible about her like her nature, likings and disliking, her preferences and interests. You must be prepared with the millions of questions that she might shoot at you at the very first meeting. This interview might be verbal or silence, but you should know that girls have the power to scan boys without even speaking a single word.
c) If you discover that your gal is bit introvert, you have to most of the things and you are on your own. But conversely, if she is adventurous and quite open, you have a better chance because she will tend to notice you better.
d) A lot of girls love flowers, but don’t take this for granted. If she likes them, it is good for you, else think of some other way to greet her. Make sure that this matter should be noticeable and memorable.
e) Lean to appreciate, and done give hoax fake calls, you might end up badly. Pick up the things that you really like about her and elaborate to her. Make sure that your words are piercing and hit the bulls eye.
f) Though some girls love to get pampered and praised out of the blue, do not follow the traditional way. Give a light pump and play around with words. This is the best way to keep her bound to you and gain her attention.

The above mentioned tips can help you a lot in coming close to a gal, but keep in mind that you do not press hard to force her for a “Yes”. Girls don’t like this and might take a bad impression on you. So beware!

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posted by peteekizian on Nov 13

Whenever you are buying a gift for a male friend or family member you have to keep several things in mind. First, you have to keep in mind what kind of activities or hobbies that he likes to do. Next, you have to consider what kind of things you would like to encourage him to continue doing. (If you buy him a gift related to a particular hobby, he will take it as a sign that you approve). Third, you have to take a good hard look at what he has been wearing. Is this gift giving holiday or event the perfect opportunity to give him a gentle nudge toward proper dressing?

Even if you loathe your male friend’s clothing, you should never go extreme with your gift choice. Do not spend hundreds of dollars on a brand new suit for your friend if he wears nothing but tee shirts and jeans. Don’t buy vintage concert tees for a button down kind of guy. Neither will be very happy. Buy the types of items that you know will make your friend happy and you will both be happy.

Consider color choices as well. If you have never seen your friend in anything but dark and somber colors, this is not the time to buy him a sunny, yellow silk tie. Not only are you wasting your money on the gift, you are sending a message to the man in your life that says you do not respect who he is and what he stands for. Although they are seen as horribly cliched, a beautiful tie could actually be considered a good gift choice for the man who wears them.

Choosing a gift of fashion for a man who could really care less about what he looks like most of the time, can be a big risk and should only be done after careful consideration. Do not buy something that could be seen as an attack on his personal choices. Make sure that you buy a gift that would be appreciated as a warm expression of your feelings for a friend or family member and nothing more. On a related note, do not make a choice in gifts that could indicate your feelings are deeper than they really are. If you have any doubt about what to buy, consider checking with a gift consultant who can help you make good choices.

Finally, when you are buying a man’s gift of fashion, make sure that you do not go over your budget (which should be directly in proportion to your feelings for this person) nor should you automatically go to the low-end either. Do not buy just the first thing that you spot, but take your time and buy the item that will best fit the situation and the sentiment.

Let your gift recipient know that you were thinking about them personally, not just buying any old thing out of a sense of obligation, but because you truly do like them!

Simon Johnnson is the men’s fashion director for Executive Gift Shoppe. You can find everything there, from a unique credit card holder or wallet to a classic black leather wallet.