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posted by ChrisChew on Nov 9

Are women attracted to only rich and good looking men? Most men with average looks and income would have asked this question to themselves at one time or another.

The probable reasons why you have thought about this question is because you must have seen :-

* Beautiful women dating men who are physically attractive such as having a handsome face with a near perfect alpha male.

* The rich and famous, such as wealthy rock stars or rich businessmen dating harems of beautiful women.

Because of th above reasons, most guys of average looks and wealth tend to draw the conclusion that girls fall only for men who are either good looking or rich or both wealthy and handsome.

Is this dating women mindset true? Now, if I am to tell you that having good looks and having lots of money do not matter in the dating game, then I will be telling you a big fib.

Hold on there a second. No need to be disappointed just yet. You see, even if you are not rich and handsome, because if you have your seduction skills honed to perfection, you will still be able to date many beautiful ladies. But firstly, there is no point in lying to yourself and pulling wool across your eyes by saying that having money and being good looking do not matter at all when attracting women.

Being good looking and wealthy can certainly give you a big advantage over the average Joes. Anyone who denies this fact is either resenting this truth in his heart or is so oblivious to the art of the dating game that he will not succeed anyway.

The money part is the easier one to overcome of the two issues. This is because most women are not attracted to wealthy people just because they are rich, unless you give them a reason to do so. Take for example, when a woman asks you about your occupation and you tell her that you are out of a job and is looking for a new job, then it is more likely that she will think of you as a less likely dating potential or even boyfriend material.

Now rephrase your answer and say that you have just gotten out of a senior management position and are in the process of going into a bigger career or starting a new business because of your expertise in your trade and your value to her will immediately soar.

Hey, you are not lying to her at all. You are just saying things differently by reframing your answer to give her a positive high value answer of your image in her mind.

This same principle also applies to the question of being good looking. For example, on a scale of 1 to 10, the numeral 10 being the best looking, then if other people consistently rank you between 7 or 8 but your confidence level is so low that you behave like a 3 or 4, then girls will perceive you as a 5 or 6.

The more handsome and good looking a man is, the more likely that he will be successful with women because he will be more confident in portraying his attractive attributes to women such as excellent social grace, confidence, good humor, casual attitude etc. In other words, his good looks naturally developed the dominant Alpha Male instinct in him.

So the idea here is that if you are 4-5 (average looking) but you punch above your weight and convinced yourself that you are 8-9 material, then you will start to behave like you are there because of your charisma, confidence and other attractive male attributes.

Now let’s say a good handsome man of 6 or 7 on the scale but thinks himself merely as 3 or 4 and thus perceived by women as a 5. Compare this man to yourself who is 3 or 4, but acts like a 8 or 9, your average perception with women will be 5-6 right? So you have overtaken this handsome man on the dating game, won’t you?

Whoever said that only rich handsome good looking men can get all the beautiful women is probably the one left high and dry in the dating game.

So if you perfect your art of seduction techniques, you can get the women you want even if you are not handsome and wealthy. Life is so good isn’t it?

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at Human Pheromones Sexual Attraction and Attractive Male Body Women Like

posted by akalloh on Nov 9

Ejaculation is the natural culmination of a sexual act on a man’s side, be it intercourse or masturbation. It’s the vehicle of pleasure that all of us men are looking for in sex, the ultimate goal of all courtship rituals and the imperative command of our instincts. There are many ways to achieve ejaculation, ways that we have learnt from necessity and out of curiosity.

However, not everything is as good as it looks. Sexual dysfunctions are more and more common in today’s world. There may be some truth to the statement that the rising number of psychological and physical dysfunctions are the price we’re paying for the lifestyles of urban sprawls and for the ongoing pollution of our planet. But regardless of how we got here, let’s discuss a certain sexual dysfunction called ‘delayed ejaculation’. The term refers to the inhibition of ejaculation, which is the unfortunate situation when a man cannot ejaculate for some reason or other.

The most common form of delayed ejaculation makes the man unable to ejaculate in the presence of the partner. If the man can ejaculate well enough alone, using self stimulation, then it stands to reason that the causes for this dysfunction are purely psychological. Most men suffering from this kind of hang-up either have deep religious backgrounds and have been taught that sex is sin or simply are not attracted enough to their partners. There are also cases when traumatic events have led to this dysfunction. Men who found out that their partners were having affairs or who have been caught themselves during illicit sex or masturbation may feel too traumatized to achieve ejaculation.

Other men, however, cannot achieve ejaculation while masturbating, despite the fact that they have normal sex lives with their partners. Some of the causes mentioned above also apply in this case, especially being caught masturbating or being hampered by a religious background. Most religions consider masturbation to be sinful and wasting and teach their members that such practice is to be avoided. Some go to great lengths to discourage masturbation and other forms of sex.

In such cases willpower is not enough to force the body to feel something that isn’t there and it’s not a good idea to force yourself anyway. It might work once or twice, but that’s about as far as this approach will take you. It’s far better to seek professional help than to suffer in silence. Therapists can suggest a way out of the problem by discussing the situation at length with both partners.

The basic idea of the treatment is to teach the two partners about sexual stimulation and response in order to help them understand their own needs. Instead of using willpower to force the mind, the partners should focus on their ability to create an intimate setting that would provide ideal stimulation and so solve the problem.

Men can certainly use this approach on their own, although the risk of failure is significant. There are little tricks everybody can use to bring sex closer to an ideal situation. Relaxation always helps, which means that candle-lit rooms, romantic dinners, a bit of alcohol and perhaps some porn could prove very helpful, if both partners agree on this approach. Avoid delicate issues in conversation and focus on having fun in a relaxed way. Hug and caress instead of rushing to the sex part and be sure to take your time.

Another thing that might help is to train your pubococcygeus muscle and bring it under your control. Being able to relax and tense that muscle at will is likely to help in some cases.

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posted by DanDeLaCruz on Nov 9

With the spread of different and affordable means of communication through the Internet, and the collapse of the Soviet Union, a new player has arisen in the age old custom of so called mail order brides. Every day, more and more men turn to romance tours, marriage agencies, international dating websites, and introduction services in an effort to meet, date, and even marry women from countries that formed the Soviet Union.

A few decades ago the mail order bride phenomenon was heavily concentrated to the South East Asian countries, although the trend always shifts with time. Today however, this trend has grown to include hundreds of marriage agencies that focus on Russia and other Soviet Republics.

International marriages and romances however do not come without pitfalls. There is an element of risk for either party involved. The woman many times finds herself isolated in a new foreign country, usually unable to speak the language, and may be more vulnerable to abuse due to these facts.

For the men, the risk is different but equally as damaging. Men take the risk that once married, his wife will quickly divorce him, in essence just using him as a quick ticket out of her old country. In either case, although risks are present, as with any worth while venture in life, the outcomes of cross cultural marriages are usually positive, and mutually beneficial. The men are usually looking for feminine foreign women, who haven’t lost touch with the essence femininity, and the women are looking for decent men, which many times may be hard to find, where they’re from.

A Brief History of Mail Order Brides:
The concept of arranged marriages is almost as old as marriage itself. Throughout history various civilizations and cultures have at one time or another advocated the arrangement of a marriage between a man and a woman through the medium of a matchmaker or some form of third party. It’s only within the last century or so that the term “mail order bride” has become part of the American lexicon.

The recent past tells us that the process of finding a partner or mate that lives far away, or even abroad is something that is deeply ingrained in the cultures of most developed western nations. If we look at America’s recent past we can find detailed accounts and examples of the pilgrims and settlers corresponding and writing to women who were back in Europe, because there weren’t enough women for the men to marry in the “new world”.

When settlers were moving west, due to the conditions, men outnumbered the women in the population. Men would correspond with marriage-minded women “back East,” become engaged and either marry their brides by proxy or marry immediately upon the woman’s arrival in the west. It is only within the past two or three decades that this practice has taken on a negative connotation, but at the same time gained popularity with men, due to many cultural changes taking place in developed western nations.

Russian Women: An Overview:
Life in the Soviet Union wasn’t easy, and perhaps it may have gotten even harder after the collapse. Economic conditions in Russia and the surrounding nations haven’t improved much since the collapse. The Russian culture is highly patriarchal, and in many cases Russian women are treated as second class citizens.

The ideal Russian woman is described as possessing “gentleness, sensitivity, maternal instincts and the capacity to love.” Which is what both and women tend to expect from women within the culture. With the Russian Revolution of 1917, one would think women’s roles would change, as Marx himself called for the integration of women into productive labor in order to emancipate them.

However, the main factor that drew women into the workforce was the exceptionally low wages paid by the state. There was no way a single working parent could afford to provide a minimum living standard for a family. Therefore both parents were forced to work in order to make ends meet. However, this did not change the status of women. Even though 90% of women were employed, and made up 52% of the national labor force,7 women still occupied very low places of prominence in Russian life.

Soviet propagandists have always highlighted the fact that 80% of its teachers and doctors are women. Westerners are ignorant of the fact that in Russia these jobs are among the least prestigious. As a former teacher, the author earned 450,000 rubles a month in 1996 while a street sweeper (another position dominated by women) earned almost 1 million rubles a month.

Employment and the government today still favors male workers even though they might be less qualified or reliable. As a result, women earn only 43% of men’s salaries. Due to this favoritism, women are more likely to be laid off; resulting in the fact that 75% of all unemployed in Russia are women. Russian women are forced to work full-time and then face the full-burden of domestic work at home.

Is it any wonder that Russian women see mail-order bride agencies as an opportunity to finally have a better life? With an American husband, Russian women not only gain the much-sought after goal of securing a husband but now also have the added bonus of an improved life.

But economic hardships and unfair treatment aren’t the only things driving Russian women to look abroad for love. It’s a known fact that Russia suffers from a drastic lack of eligible bachelors. First of all Russian men have the lowest life expectancy of any men on Earth.

Some estimates put the life expectancy of Russian men as low as 48 years. It is a well known problem for Russian women that there simply aren’t enough men to meed the demand from the overwhelming amounts of single women, and this only leads the Russian men that are left to take full advantage that the ratios are in their favor.

The numbers that were taken about fifteen years ago point out that there are 3,361,255 more women than men aged 15-64 in Russia. However this number has probably increased greatly over the past decade making the ratios that much more of an issue for single Russian women.

Dan DeLa Cruz is a traveler, author, and international dating coach. He is most well known as the author of the The Global Dating Revolution a guide to foreign women and brazilian women.