Men Tips

posted by ChrisChew on Oct 27

Flirting with girls using body language is a very subtle and an exciting game when you are anticipating the results and then you get it. You probably already know some of the body languages girls use to flirt with men like tossing her hair and pursing her lips while gazing or glancing at you.

However, do you know that girls are also looking at body signals from men as well and this is where the guys can display flirting signals which are picked up by women either conciously or subconciously. Whatever way, it works!

You see, if men make the right moves and send the right flirting body language, then it does not matter much how we look or how much money we have because our body language communication will make women chemically and emotionally attracted to us! Yes, flirting with your body language flirting can get you great results!

The Eye Contact - Most men will usually look away when the girl they are interested in glance their way. That is why they are the losers in the dating and flirting game. Girls are attracted to men who are confident and self assured, so when you look away, that is the body language of an insecured man.

Nothing shows confidence like meeting a girl’s eyes confidently and holding your gaze steadily. This shows strength and courage on your part. When she sees you gazing at her with full eye contact, then look down and smile, you know you’ve got it made and the time to approach her is now.

If she looks away from you but doesn’t smile, approach her anyway. This is because by the fact that she met your eyes for a second or two shows interest on her part too. So why not give it a shot!

Head Drop Flirt - The Head Drop is a flirting technique used after the assured eye contact. It is done when she met your gaze and then you drop your head to one side and put on a half smile as if to say, “Come and get me!”. Please don’t say that out loud or it will be a very corny pick up line that is sure to backfire. Just think of it and act it out in your body language.

Open Body Language - The truth is that many men stand or sit with their arms crossed, their legs close together and their faces anxious and nervous when meeting beautiful women for the first time. If you are one of those guys, then your body language is telling her that she is not welcomed.

Why not welcome the girl you like into your world. Have your arms open and simply lean back, place your legs apart and relax, your demeanour warm and inviting. Never project the body closed body language that tells her to stay away from you because you are a closed and uptight man although you are not.

Lean Away From Her - Now that you have approached and is talking to her while seated, show her your interest with confidence by leaning away. Leaning away is a very powerful trait of a confident man, the self assured posture of the alpha male.

This posture forces her to lean towards you and thus putting you in the position of the dominant male. It also communicates signals to her that she has to earn your interest and that you are not going to just give it away. You know what, these kind of confident alpha male body language flirt really drive girls wild over you!

Of course, when things are going smoothly and you are starting to develop some sort of bonding with her, then you want to lean towards her now and then. From here, you may want to take your flirting to another higher level.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at his sites at How To Become Alpha Male and Male Sexual Enhancement

posted by inkbottle on Oct 27

Looking to buy something for the man in your life? For the man who has everything? It’s hard to go wrong with a couple great looking mens scarves gift wrapped and placed under the tree!

Mens scarves are a popular look this season… they can turn any wardrobe, from casual to professional, into a POWER outfit that simply oozes masculinity. Plus there’s the whole practical side of these men’s scarves too! If you get caught in a snowstorm, your neck will be toasty warm!

Unlike women’s scarves, mens scarves are not the kind you’d wear indoors. A man’s tie fills that decorative role, whereas women use scarves in a similar way…particularly in a professional setting.

But, outdoors is where the men can add a scarf to really make his outfit stand out. When winter comes, throwing a vividly colored pumpkin orange or forest green scarf around his neck, pairing it with a long, black, wool trench coat, can create a powerfully handsome look. It’s professional, stylish, and practical all at the same time.

In this case, keep patterns and checks to a minimum: preferably not at all. However, if you do decide to get something with patterns or checks, be sure to get ones that are small: tiny checks and very tight plaids or very narrow lines. For instance a herringbone style looks very nice and its the kind of pattern that’s difficult to see. Also, don’t get colors that are bright and big and bold. Keep them subtle.

One advantage to buying a scarf for the professional man is how easy it is to find scarves that match because popular business suits are typically dark blue or black and the coats they wear are typically darker, too. Pumpkin orange, scarlet red, or forest green look fantastic against these darker coats. However, if your man has a tan, beige, light brown, or camel?? coat, consider a darker scarf. Mens scarves of chocolate brown pair against these coats look really good.

We’ve just shown you some professional options so far so far but there are casual options, too. And these scarves can have a little more freedom when it comes to patterns. Here are some ideas:

If your man has a dark leather jacket, pair it with a long, knitted beige or off-white scarf for the ace pilot look. A dark brown suede jacket can look amazing when pair with a brightly colored loose-knit scarf with bold orange and yellow stripes. A blue jean jacket looks great when paired with a brown cashmere or pashmina scarf.

Tips: When buying mens scarves, avoid fringes on professional scarves. Or, if you can’t avoid fringes, find ones with minimal fringes, if possible. Casual scarves are okay to have fringes but in general, try to first find scarves without. In general, professional scarves should have a tighter weave if they are knit while casual scarves can have a looser weave. However, if you are pairing the scarf with a knit sweater, try to get the opposite kind of weave.

Get your man a scarf this holiday season!

http://www.FashionScarvesandShawls.com has cashmere, silk and wool mens scarves that look great and masculine. Who says a man can’t wear a soft and warm cashmere scarf?