Archive for August, 2009

posted by gwhutton on Aug 19

Talking to a gorgeous woman can be the most intimidating thing a man can do. I’ve known soldiers that flew jet planes and could actually jump out of them on a regular basis, but were afraid to talk to a woman.

Even when they learned how to decode her body language, so they were fairly certain that it would be ok to go over and talk to her, they were still too shy and frozen by so called “approach-anxiety” to make an approach.

One of the reasons for approach anxiety is imagining a negative outcome. Instead of imagining all the wonderful things that can happen by approaching a beautiful woman, they instead imagine being publicly rejected in some horrible way.

What compounds this common problem is that most of this goes on underneath conscious awareness. All of the imaginings of a horrible future happen so quickly and unconsciously that all they feel is that sense of anxiety that seemingly comes immediatley after a desire to approach and start a conversation.

The simple way around this is to force yourself to imagine a positive outcome. Your brain is like any other muscle; it will do what you habitually train it to do.
If you let your brain go off on it’s own, it will go to the evolutionary programmed mode of self-preservation, making it difficult for you to approach.

Here’s how to change that. When you see a woman, imagine every step of the conversation, in as full and rich detail as you can, and imagine it going perfect, so she leaves with you, and you two have a wild and passionate night of wonderful expressive sex.

Imagine how she responds to your initial icebreaker, imagine her laughing at all your jokes, and imagine her looking at you with that gaze that women reserve only for those special guys in their life.

Imagine how she responds when you touch her arm or shoulder lightly. Imagine how she playful puts her hand on your thigh while you are sitting next to you. Imagine how she looks up at you with those innocent and slightly nervous eyes as you let her into your apartment for the first time.

Whatever you imagine on a regular basis, your brain will start to do automatically. The more you do this, the quicker it will work. And if you practice regularly, going out, finding an attractive woman, and then taking the time to imagine all the wonderful things you’d like to happen, it will become automatic.

Before you know it, approaching and starting conversations with gorgeous women will be automatic. You will enjoy it and look forward to it. And then you can really put your seductive skills to use, and seduce her in that special way that gives her a lifetime of wonderful memories.

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of this opportunity. You’ll find out just how easy that is when you visit
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posted by fvandy on Aug 19

When you think of weightlifting, I’ll bet that you conjure up an image of Arnold Schwarzenegger.

Perhaps you think of a young man with ripped abdominal muscles in a swimsuit at the beach. Most likely, you do not picture yourself as having firm muscles and looking good. It is possible! Have you ever watched The Biggest Loser? It can be done!

Lifting weights is an important activity for you to do to ensure the health of your body.

If you are over 35, might be thinking, I am too old to start this type of program. Wrong! It is even more important that you begin now if you haven’t!

Your body needs you to be a part of a weight resistance training program to help prevent muscle loss. It is a fact that around age 25, you begin to lose muscle mass. For every year that you do not lift weights, you lose 5-7 pounds of muscle. Most men gain an average of 5-7 pounds of fat each year as their metabolism slows down. Do you see the trade-off? You have just traded firm, lean muscle mass for flabby fat tissue. Your body will not be able to stay healthy by carrying out this action. It is time for a change!

You will be able to reduce the risk of many age related health issues, such as: osteoporosis, arthritis, high blood pressure, adult onset diabetes and heart disease. In many cases, after a weight lifting routine has begun, these health problems are actually reversed! Why not start today? If I could state no other benefits, these alone would be a great reason to hit the weights.

One of the most common surgeries in men over 50 is total joint replacement surgery, such as the knee or hip. It has been proven that a strength training routine, which includes weight lifting, reduces the need for total joint replacement surgery by increasing your muscle strength and preserving or stopping the deterioration of weight bearing joints.

It is very common for older people to fall and break or sprain a wrist or ankle. Weight training will strengthen your bones, reducing your risk of osteoporosis, and make you less likely to suffer an injury in the event of a fall. Also, if your bones and muscles are stronger, your balance will be improved and you will be less inclined to fall victim to these types of injuries. Your posture will be improved and you will stand tall and proud. You will project self-confidence in all that you do. I don’t know about you, but that is the way that I want to be seen!

A strength training routine is necessary to your good health. Before beginning one, meet with your physician to discuss your goals and receive a stamp of approval to begin lifting weights. Your physician will be able to answer any health related questions that you may have as well as give you a starting place when it comes to monitoring such issues as blood pressure and diabetes. After you have set your goals, find a location to work out. There are clubs and local park districts where you have equipment available as well as other people to help guide you through the process of strength training.

You may already have a set of weights in the basement that simply need to be dusted off. It really doesn’t matter where you choose to work out, the important thing is that you DO work out!

Why not continue into life strong and confident?
Change the opinions of others who think that older men are fat and lazy and weak. The image that you choose is up to you. You can do it!

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posted by gwhutton on Aug 18

If you’ve ever spoken to a woman, a beautiful woman, you know exactly how nerve wracking it can be. You stumble, mumble, and throw out some jokes hoping that she’ll laugh. And sometimes even if she does laugh, you can tell she is only being polite.

How many times have you gone out looking for some female companionship, maybe short term, maybe long term, only to have gone home empty handed?

How long have you been looking for that special someone, only to stammer and mumble and feel foolish whenever you’ve had the opportunity?

Seeing an opportunity for hooking up with a fantastic lady slip through your fingers can be extremely frustrating and depressing. I know. I’ve been there several times.

But you don’t have to live with your frustration and loneliness. You don’t have to go out and “hope” that you get lucky or that “something happens.”

Believe it or not, there are specific tools you can learn to not only know what to say and how to act during a conversation, but how to engineer the conversation and steer her emotional state to exactly where you want it to be.

Would you like to create strong feelings of emotional connection and unquenchable sexual desire? Would you like to talk to a beautiful woman and make her feel as though she’s known you for years and years, to he point where leaving with you (after twenty minutes of conversation or so) is the logical thing to do?

All these are possible when you learn the powerful skills of seduction. If you think seduction is a bad thing, think again. It usually has negative connotations when people think of selfish manipulation without concern for the outcome.

But when used for a win-win, positive outcome for you and for, seducing her is the most wonderful thing you can do for a woman. There’s a reason romance novels are such bestsellers. And there’s also a reason those recent high school vampire movies are so popular. Those high school vampires are every woman’s dream.

Strong, powerful, seductive.

So don’t shy away from learning powerful skills of seduction that can have her dripping with desire within minutes. Don’t be hesitant about asking for what you want in such away that she can’t help but to eagerly give it to you. Because the more confidently you can seduce her, the happier you’ll make her. And you want to make her happy, right?

Taking the first step is sometimes the hardest for some. Because you can
imagine what it will be like when you become successful, you can take advantage
of this opportunity. You’ll find out just how easy that is when you visit
Seduction Charisma

posted by gwhutton on Aug 18

When most guys think of seduction, they imagine some manipulative person that is only out to lie and mislead a poor girl into a sexual encounter, only to leave her embarrassed and shame ridden while he goes and brags to his buddies.

What most people don’t realize is that many girls secretly dream of being seduced. But it pays to realize the important caveat in their secret fantasy. They dream of being seduced, but by the right guy, and the right way.

And when they think in terms of this, they usually don’t even use the word “seduce.” They think in terms of meeting someone, and feeling that special emotional connection that allows her to express herself sexually within a safe context.

If you take a gander in the romance section next time you are in a bookstore, you’ll see how many different titles there are. And if you ever read one, you’ll quickly realize they are filled with women being seduced right and left by the men of their dreams. They just don’t use the word “seduction” explicitly. It is more of a male word than a female word.

Of course, to those that are experienced in this, that is exactly what happens when you successfully, and ethically seduce a girl. You create those powerful feelings of emotional connectedness that allows for bonding on a deep, subconscious level. Many women never experience this, and when you seduce her in the right way, what you are actually doing is giving her an experience she will cherish her whole life.

Naturally, these tools can easily be abused, and many times they are. Simply because you can learn skills that can conversationally lead a woman to think of incredibly powerful and unquenchable sexual desire for you within a few minutes doesn’t mean you should go and do this with every girl you come across in the supermarket.

But if you use these ethically, and use them with girls that you really have a strong desire to develop a lasting relationship with, you will be amazed at how successful you will be.

Never again will you have to worry about what to say, or how to respond to the famous tests that women throw out all the time. Never again will you go to a bar or a party and feel that deep anxiety that most guys feel when they think about approaching and starting a conversation with a beautiful woman.

You will have so much choice, and self-confidence when it comes to finding, attracting and seducing women that will scarcely remember what it used to be like to be alone on a Saturday night.

These skills are an essential part of every man’s toolbox, and if you don’t know them, don’t worry. Most guys don’t. But by making a strong decision to learn these skills, you will enter into a new phase of your life that will bring much more sexual pleasure than you’ve ever experienced before.

One of the secrets to life is realizing that by always learning new things, you will continue to open the doors to more and more opportunities, which will improve your life in ways you never dreamed possible.

Taking the first step is sometimes the hardest for some. Because you can
imagine what it will be like when you become successful, you can take advantage
of this opportunity. You’ll find out just how easy that is when you visit
Charisma Seduction Skills

posted by jhernandezlaw01 on Aug 18

In cases involving the delayed diagnosis of prostate cancer most people focus only on whether the physician made a mistake. But this is only the first issue that an attorney must address when evaluating a potential claim. The other issue is whether there was any harm to the patient as a result of the physician’s mistake, and if there was, was it the type of harm that would merit pursuing a claim.

It is usually easy to determine whether a physician had information, in the form of an elevated PSA test result or an abnormal digital examination, suggestive of possible prostate cancer. It is also usually fairly easy to determine the amount of delay. This is normally the difference between when the patient was diagnosed and when the physician first had the information about the abnormal PSA or digital examination results.

What may be more difficult to determine is the extent of the injury to the patient. Unless the PSA exceeds at least a 10.0 (anything above a 4.0 is considered high) or a bone scan reveals sign of metastasis, even if the cancer has a high Gleason score, most physicians would admit that it is impossible to determine the stage of the cancer without performing surgery. The examination of the specimen collected during the surgery determines whether the cancer had already spread beyond the prostate. Even with a PSA above a 10.0 it is still possible that the cancer is still contained and that surgery can be curative.

Consider a case where a physician performed a PSA blood test on his patient when the patient was 52 years old. The PSA level was 2.0 at that time. This level is generally considered to be well within the normal range. Two years later the physician repeated the PSA test on his patient. This time the result indicated a level of 4.2. This was marked as high in the report provided by the lab that conducted the blood analysis. The physician saw the patient four times over the next two and a half years without ever informing his patient of the abnormal test result or performing a follow-up PSA test. It was more than three years after the abnormal test result that the physician finally performed another PSA test. At this point the results indicated a PSA level of 5.25.

This was the first time the physician informed his patient of the prior elevated level. At this time, the physician referred the patient to a urologist. A biopsy revealed that he had cancer. Surgery revealed that the cancer had already spread to the seminal vesicles and there was evidence of vascular as well as perineal invasion. Given that the cancer had already began spreading beyond the prostate the surgery was not curative. The patient thus underwent hormone therapy. His PSA levels then began to rise post-operatively. This is indicates a poor prognosis making it unlikely that the patient will survive five years beyond the surgery.

The law firm that handled this matter reported that the medical malpractice claim on behalf of the patient and his wife was settled for $550,000. The patient was 60 years old at the time of the settlement. The agreement left the possibility of a wrongful death claim should the patient not survive beyond the applicable statute of limitations.

As this case illustrates, the nature of the injury to the patient was not known until the results of the surgery were reviewed and showed that the cancer had, in fact, already begun spreading outside the prostate. And it was not until the patient
s PSA levels began to rise post-operatively that the true extent of the injury was know. At that point the attorney is in a position to be able to fully evaluate the patient’s claim. Notice that the law firm in this case limited the settlement only to the patient’s medical malpractice claim.

Understanding the inevitable meaning of the post-surgical rise in the PSA they made certain to leave the possibility of a wrongful death claim open. Of course whether there will later be a wrongful death claim that can be pursued will depend on several factors including whether the patient dies as a result of the cancer or of some other cause and whether it happens during the time frame permitted by the applicable statutes of limitations and statute of repose.

Joseph Hernandez is an Attorney focused on catastrophic injury and medical malpractice cases. To learn more about advanced prostate cancer cases visit his website at http://www.prostatecancerlaw.com.