posted by Walhein on Aug 8
Nightclubs and bars are the best and the worst place to pickup women at the same time. On the one hand women are dressed up and look the best they can. And if you go to the right location there are a lot of them. On the other hand everyone hits on them. The nightlife is the most competitive field there is to meet women. Everyone hits on them and they have their defenses high up.
But if you do it the right way you can still score. The good thing is that most men have no clue whatsoever how to seduce women in clubs. They are happy go lucky in case they score. The woman was probably out to get some and the guy was good looking enough that she accepted him. With the right techniques looks don’t matter anymore. Even if she is not in the mood to meet anyone you will probably get at least her phone number.
Don’t overdo it
The first thing should be obvious but a lot of guys still screw it up. Don’t get too drunk. If you are having problems standing straight the smartest thing you say will not be taken serious because it is obvious that you aren’t sober. If you can still stand straight but your thinking is blurred you don’t stand a chance either. The environment is too competitive to enjoy consistent success with women if you don’t have your wits together.
A bit of alcohol is fine. We are all out to party and alcohol is expected as a means to do so. Most people become more relaxed after one or two drinks and have an easier time socializing. Why not take advantage of this? Just know your limits and stop before you get affected in any negative way.
Be fun
Have you ever met someone who was doing nothing but complaining and whining? Did you ever want to see that person again? See. No one wants to have unhappy persons in their life, especially when you are in an environment that is all about having a good time. Remember the song ‘Girls just want to have fun’. If you are the fun, you are in a very good position.
In order to be fun you should have a high energy vibe. Stand straight, talk loud, have a big smile, be touchy and treat the women like they were your bratty little sisters. Don’t take anyone, not even yourself serious. Make it obvious that you are the party and they can join in if they want to.
Multi tasking
As stated before nightclubs and bars are packed with good looking women. Often we have a hard time deciding which one to pick. Don’t make you life harder and talk to all of them. Approach, make a brief conversation and than jump to the next group. Yes, it should be clearly visible to the girls that you have options and are not afraid to talk to everyone.
If you do this you can created a competition among the girls. They will all want to be with you just for beating the others girls by the punch. They will be nicer and more open to you. Additionally once you opened a group it is extremely easy to come back to them. s
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