Men Tips

posted by Walhein on Aug 7

We have all been there. A date that went wrong, a night out where we hoped to meets someone and couldn’t or the attraction towards a colleague we could not bring across. It can be incredibly hard to have success with women. Or it can be incredibly easy.

I will give you three success secrets I used on a regular basis that skyrocketed my success with the opposite sex. Don’t worry, no silly outfits or magic tricks are required for those. You don’t have to become a jerk either. Be your natural self and attract the woman you want.

Tip number 1 - the power of silence

When we are with a woman or try to meet one we are most often busy with thinking what to say to her. I want to suggest something else. Try to talk less and instead introduce some pregnant pauses. This trick will block you forever from landing in the friend zone. Here is why.

Tactful pauses have a multitude of benefits. First of all they make you appear less nervous and more confident. Someone that is nervous usually tries to hide his nervousness by talking. If you don’t talk you automatically appear more secure. Women adore confident men.

The next benefit is that you need to say less and get her to say more. The more she talks the more energy she has to invest in the interaction. Having energy invested in the interaction makes it harder for her to leave and convinces her subconsciously that she is interest in you. Why else would she tell you so much about her?

The third benefit is that you create sexual tension by pausing. Most people get very uncomfortable when they meet a stranger and the conversation stops for no apparent reason. If the stranger starts smiling instead of saying something the tension gets even more intense. It is immediately obvious to the woman that this man has a sexual interest in her.

Tip number 2 - the gate to her soul

It has been said so often and still so many guys are not harnessing the power of good eye contact. Sadly our society has taught us that it is impolite to have eye contact with someone for a longer period of time. Don’t stare, parents tell their children. But you want a bit of staring in romantic interaction.

The “taboo” of staring again creates sexual tension. The woman starts wondering why this guys is looking so intensely at her. Don’t mistake this for staring at certain body parts though. You want to look straight in to her eyes as if you were reaching for her soul. It makes it immediately clear that you have romantic intentions.

Don’t make it a stare down though. Break the eye contact with a smile by looking sideways, not down. Looking down signals submission, looking sideways shows that you are not defeated but know how to behave.

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posted by Walhein on Aug 7

Men that are having big success share certain things. No, it is not their sex drive I am talking about here. A lot of very lonely men have that as well. I am not talking about physical characteristics either. A lot of ugly men are never alone while some good looking guys seem to be condemned to be single forever. I will tell you here about the mindset of the best pick up artists and ways you can install them in you.

Not caring about the outcome

Guys that are having one girl after the next are never the ones that stay quiet in the corner. They go out and chat up the ladies and many of them. They have realized that despite skills success with women is a numbers game. You can not get them all but the more you try the more you will get.

Realizing this you can stop to worry about what she will think about you or if you will succeed in seducing her or not. Even if you fail - the next chance is always around the corner. There are so many single women out there that want to meet the right guy that it is not worth it to worry too much if you do not make it with one particular one.

Install this mindset by watching how many beautiful women are out there and by talking to more than just one girl when going out. You will be automatically be more relaxed, confident and as a consequence successful.

Being generally interested

Women can smell it a mile a way when one guy tries to pick them up. Most women do not appreciate it when they are just meant to be used for sex. They crave to be wanted for who they are. If you are generally interest in people it comes across as friendly and non threatening.

Further more does this mindset help you to take more chances. If you are interest in people in general you don’t care about the looks of the woman but what kind of person she is. This provides you with opportunities of maybe being introduced by her to her good looking friends.

Firm belief in feminine sex drive

Most men believe they have to trick women somehow into having sex with them. Pickup artists know that women want sex way more than they want it. The problem is only that women have to be fearful of the social consequences of openly expressing their sex drive. A woman that does that is socially punished by being called a slut and her standing is shuttered.

Master seducers thus know that their job is not to make women horny but to create opportunities for them to live out their inherent sexual drive. They need to take the responsibility so that the woman can enjoy the sex guilt free and without having to worry about her social standing.

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posted by Walhein on Aug 7

Have you ever wondered why that date you had went terribly wrong? Or why the woman just did not want to answer your calls afterwards? Probably you made on of the 5 mistakes that keeps the majority of guys from enjoying true success with women.

It is funny to think that even though there are so many things that go wrong most of them don’t. The reason is that we inherently know how to attract the opposite sex. What is stopping us is the conditioning we receive from the media and peers that tells us to act otherwise and thereby destroys out natural seduction instincts.

Mistake number one - don’t state your interest
This is one of the saddest mistakes I see almost all men do. Somehow we have been conditioned not to directly express our interest in a woman. Instead we should just be friendly and show our interest by our actions. Directly coming out is seen as aggressive and too dangerous to ourselves since it opens us to rejection.

But women like clarity. They know anyways why the guy is being so niche to them. He just wants sex they assume. How can they think otherwise if you have never told them what you like about them? And how can they not be surprised if you suddenly start touching them after not doing that at all during the first 2,3,4 or even more meetings you had together.

Mistake number two - being too nice

He’s a nice guy. It has almost become an insult among women. We all want decent people around us but a nice guy is often seen as a liar who is just too insecure to express his true desires. Instead of saying what he wants and risking rejection he just does whatever the woman want from him. He is not a challenge but boring.

I’m not advising to reject every one of her suggestions or to argue. Just stand up when your opinion differs from her. It shows that you are an individual and not just a follower of the masses. You will look more interesting and less boring immediately plus you avoid any lying that could get back at you later on.

Mistake number three - chasing her too hard

First let me make one thing clear. When I talk about chasing her too hard I do not mean that you end up like a stalker, following her every step and calling her twenty or more times a day. We all know that this is sick behavior that will get us in trouble at best. What I mean here is showing the woman that she won.

Women like to be chased. We all crave to be desired by someone since it improves our self worth but women also want to be challenged. They do not want a guy that is totally in love with her after just seeing her. The rewards just feel a lot sweeter if you worked a bit for them. Give her the chance to do so.

Do not call her everyday but let her call you as well. Let her miss you. Don’t be available all the time but have a life which is at least as important as she is to you.

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