posted by jackparis on Jul 23
Do you ever find that you meet a girl, everything’s perfect for the first 6 months to a year, then it all starts going downhill? You’re both the same people you were when you first met, so why the sudden change?
It would seem that you’ve discovered the end of ‘the honeymoon period’. Almost every relationship goes through that blissful stage at the beginning: when you have sex all the time, are blind to each other’s flaws and only want to please each other. As you gradually get used to each other, the irritating habits become more apparent and are no longer endearing like they once were; you find yourself less insatiable and begin to take each other for granted. For many lust driven relationships, this can mark the beginning of the end - but it doesn’t have to be that way.
When you start noticing these signs, it’s time to pick up your game. We can promise you that your girl has noticed the signs too, though she probably hasn’t mentioned it. Try to make a conscious effort to continue the romance; a rose here, a love note there. A small gesture can go a long way. And whatever you do, never forget her birthday, your anniversary or Valentines day! Write down the dates in your diary NOW, and make a fuss of her.
You also need to make sure that your expectations are realistic. She might seem perfect at first and a vixen in the bedroom, but the initial passion will die down. She is not likely to be able to maintain a sex drive as high as a London escort, so don’t demand a marathon every time. Lazy morning sex or an afternoon quickie can be just as hot, and spontaneity is even better to keep the passion alive in your relationship.
Don’t forget to compliment your girl. If you’ve noticed that she looks nice, tell her so. If you love that black lacey underwear she has on, tell her. It will make her feel good about herself and more attracted to you. Some of these points may seem obvious, but you’d be amazed at how easy it is to forget the fundamentals.
Another important aspect of keeping your woman happy is to support her decisions. Whether she’s considering a career change, a drastic haircut or a new diet, try to let her know that you’re behind her whatever she decides. If you don’t agree with her choice, make your opinion known but don’t withdraw your support. If you apply all of these points, you should be on your way to a happy, content relationship.
Jack Paris Writes about Men’s Health and Issues in London, from girls to london escorts to cars and all me’s issues
