posted by Harlan on Mar 19
There is something naturally wonderful about women. They may naturally posses a grace that most men will not allow themselves to experience. Yet all men, except triple X factors, have at least a touch of feminine essence within their nature, allowing them to balance their character and help them to understand women.
In nature there are very few straight lines, and rigidity usually cracks. Mother Nature doesn’t march, she dances, strong in her gentleness and rich in her grace. The true strength of nature is in being able to bend and sway with the wind, to be soft, and flow with the environment. Notice how gently the clouds capture the mountain in a subtle embrace, creating radiance with the sunlight and the shadows of the trees.
A woman can be subtle and warm, touching the gentle being within you, if you are able to be there, with her, able to be vulnerable to her touch. By opening the doors of your inner perception, a subtle light can bloom within the two of you that will glow as one, creating an awareness of the love, which is the eternal light of God, hidden within us all, waiting to be kindled with the strength of surrender.
Drop your armor at the door of your beloved’s offering of tenderness. Be honest with her, and with yourself. This vulnerability is the only way one can truly experience the depth of love a woman has to offer.
When you touch a woman, listen. Listen with your hands, gently, relax your attitude, put your libido on hold, and listen, with your whole being. Let your hands feel what her being is telling you, through her body. This is the essence of “Making Love With” a woman, rather than “Just Having Sex”, and is like experiencing poetry as it manifests itself in the unfolding moment, like a flower opening to the warmth of the morning sun.
Women are the poetry of life. To hold you’re beloved in your arms, to feel her warmth, to breath in her natural fragrance, the essence of her being, to melt together into a pool of unfathomable bliss, this is truly a religious experience. To share the joy of oneness with another in order to find who we are as individuals, at peace, without any armor or hidden agendas. In order to honor ourselves we must honor the divine being within our beloved.
Openness, honesty and understanding of who we are, and the acceptance of the same in others, creates a natural comfort that makes life a romantic dance. Look into your beloved’s eyes, relax your mind, and let her see who you really are. In the mirror of her eyes you may find a person you can both live with.
Harlan Hughes is the creator and owner of Maui Zen Villa Spa on Maui. Harlan and his wife Judy share their Private Japanese Bath House with others wanting a Massage on Maui. Couples especially love this Spa on Maui for a romantic get away. You can visit Zen Villa while listen to the waterfall and relaxing music by going to http://www.mauizenvillaspa.com
