Men Tips

posted by pdelray on Jan 28

There are millions of men who struggle with a low sperm fluid amount, and many of those men are searching for ways to increase semen volume. There are many reasons that a man may want to man up his ejaculate amount, but the top two reasons are either they think it will improve their sex life or they want to improve their chances of impregnating a woman. Other reasons are to improve feelings of confidence and manliness, as well as sexual power.

An increase in semen volume really can enhance the sexual experiences that a man has, because the more fluid he has to ejaculate, the more powerful and pleasurable the muscle contractions during orgasm will be. There are some commonly known ways to increase semen volume such as eating a healthy diet, exercising and drinking enough fluids, and taking herbal supplements. There are even more unanswered questions that many men may have, and a few of them are listed here.

One of the most important things for men to understand is that there are some factors that contribute to seminal fluid amounts that they can control and there are other factors that they cannot have any control over. First of all, the two largest factors that a man has absolutely no control over, no matter how hard he may try, are age and heredity. These are two things that if it is in the cards that your family has a history of low semen volume and you are 96 years old, chances are pretty good that no matter what you do, you will probably not be able to increase semen volume much. Fortunately, however, there are other things that can affect volume that men do have some control over.

The biggest factors on a mans ejaculate amount are health, diet, exercise, rest, and relaxation. Smoking cigarettes, drinking alcohol, and using drugs are all things that can decrease your fluid, so dont set yourself up for failure by getting drunk every night then getting upset because your fluid amount is not increasing. Be sure to drink plenty of fluids, though. Your body cannot make fluid if you are not giving it enough fluids to work with.

There are some ingredients that can be found in foods that are thought to help increase semen volume. Amino acids are some of the most common ones. Those such as l arginine and l lysine, zinc, and the Horny Goat Weed Plant all have shown to positively affect semen output. Stay away from diuretics like coffee, tea, soda, and anything else with large amounts of caffeine. These ingredients pull fluid out of the body, which can cause dehydration. Dehydration is a factor that can cause adverse results for you if you are trying to increase semen volume.

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posted by infomktjv on Jan 28

My hair is messy and when you look at me you might think I look rather irresponsible. You can categorize me as many different personality types, but for the most part people stick me in either the artistic category or the rebellious bad boy category. That means that when they shove me into such a category they are making judgments about me that aren’t true.

I am not irresponsible. In fact, I am much more responsible than most people I know. I am rebellious with an artistic nature but I am not in any way shape or form a “bad boy.” Women find me very attentive, both in and out of bed. What’s my point? That women are going to judge you and they are going to be wrong.

Women (just as often as men) make judgments based on appearance and what we do for a living more often than how we conduct ourselves until they reach a particular level of intimacy with us.

They make assumptions about how well we might please them in the kitchen as well as in the bedroom and sometimes they are spot on and others times they are about as far from the horse’s rear end as they are making of themselves. It happens and we can’t control it. What we can do, however, is refuse to play into their judgments and maintain our personalities despite their obvious disappointment.

I met a woman once who assumed (based on my looks) that I would not be able to please her. She called me up about a month later and asked if my invitation was still open to take her out? It turns out that she knew a woman that I had been very intimate with and she had a conversation with her about me and realized she had made a mistake. When I found this out, I stopped seeing her not because she made a judgment, but because she lied about her reasons for wanting to see me again as well as those for not wanting to date me in the first place.

We live in a world filled with judgment and we each have to decide exactly how much of it we can allow into our lives. In some cases, allowing any into our lives is hurtful but unavoidable. One of my friends is forever having to explain that he is not gay because he is strikingly thin and has shaggy hair.

When women judge you by your appearance or your job, you have to be prepared to know how you want to respond. You can either call them on it, tell them that they are wrong, or you can change your behavior to match their assumptions. Doing the latter turns you into a liar. You can get plenty of women without lying and those women are going to be a way better experience for you. Don’t let judgment based on you categorical stereotype determine how you are going to act. You are not made up of a stereotype. You are made up of content. How you choose to display that content is a personal choice.

You can dress yourself up any way you want to. You can walk out of your house every single day acting like you are the player of the century or you can go for that entire metro-sexual look if it pleases you. You can cover up your insecurities with loud and outrageous vehicles and you can prep it up and hike and sail with the rich boys that you never were. But at the end of the day, at the end of your experience, when you strip down naked, you are still who you are and no amount of trendy dress is going to change that.

I believe we present to the world what we want them to see. I believe that if we want women to think we are fast and furious even though we haven’t gotten laid in two years that we will put it out there like that. That’s fine as long as we know that when people are making assumptions that are a natural leap from what we are presenting that we really can’t get bent out of shape about it.

Your image is part of who you are but it doesn’t make you who you are. You can’t become a better person by choosing a better image. And if you have no image at all, you aren’t presenting anything about yourself to the world which is a whole other issue.

Images and stereotypes are part of our world. It can be a whole lot of fun to catch someone making an assumption about us and being able to show them something otherwise. If you keep running into the same judgment, check in and try to find how you are presenting that image to the world if it bothers you. If it doesn’t then keep on moving. Because there is definitely a woman out there who is loving the image but who is into the naked version way more.

The return is also true. We make judgments about women all the time. A few times I passed over a woman initially because I really didn’t think she was going to be all that sexually interesting. I loved finding out exactly how wrong I was and exactly how her image didn’t hold her back one bit.

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posted by mathewg on Jan 27

It’s nice to see that there has been more of an emphasis lately from men who desire to find the right ways to satisfy a woman sexually! Not that they’ve never cared in the past but it does seem as though as the years go on, men are finally coming to the realization that they aren’t alone in the bed and that pleasuring a woman is crucial in maintaining a great sexual relationship! Women have told me that these 5 things listed, if implemented the right way, will make your woman crazy for more every time!

Here is what women said:

1. We need you to last longer in bed. Women take longer than men, in fact, an average of 8 minutes longer, to reach the point of orgasm and all too often men are finishing way before that 8 minutes is up! If you find you are getting off before your woman does a majority of the time, perhaps it is time you look into exercises that can help you regain control of your orgasm. There are also vitamins and lotions that have been developed to help lengthen sexual stamina and are available for purchase online and even over the counter in your local pharmacy.

2. We crave a decent amount of foreplay. Woman need this time before sex in order to get their senses aroused and her vagina lubricated and ready for actually penetration! Without the proper amount of arousal time sex can even prove to be painful, and there is no way we are going to get off if it does not feel good! Foreplay is also a great way to get her closer to orgasm if you are the type of guy that needs to work on his stamina. It buys you time.

3. Locate our clitoris and then pay attention to it! The clit is where most if not all of the stimulation should be applied in order to get her off. Most of the nerve endings that supply us with that awesome sensation of climax are located in that area. If it’s being neglected, it is a sure fire way to prevent us from achieving orgasm. Performing oral sex is one of the safest bets to use when concentrating on her orgasm, do it and do it often!

4. Talk dirty to us. We love it. It turns us on to hear that you only desire to please us! Tell us what you’re going to do to us and that your sole purpose at that moment is to ensure that we feel like the goddess that we are! You know how much you guys like it, we’re on the same level.

5. Ask us what it is specifically that we desire from you in bed! Every person is different when it comes to sex and how they like it. The only true way to find out what your woman needs from you is to ask, and vice versa for you. We’re all adults here and I can tell you that even by you just asking her what it is she likes, she’ll be turned on by your curiosity and desire to please.

It doesn’t take an Adonis to satisfy a woman sexually, it just takes a little curiosity, effort and education. Apply any or all of the 5 things I’ve just listed and you’ll not only surprise your woman with your new found knowledge, you’ll also peak her curiosity as to what it is that turns YOU on the most. That could prove to make things truly interesting from here on out!

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posted by Datepad on Jan 27

Ah, the almighty penis. If you have one, you probably think that you know everything there is to know about it. After all, you spent plenty of time alone studying it when you were 15. And 16. And 17. And beyond. You’re close friends, and you probably think there’s nothing your penis would hide from you; it tells you all its secrets.

But that’s not necessarily true. There may be a thing or two that you don’t know about your penis. And while you probably do know most of the important stuff (like how to use it and protect it from harm), there are some things about your penis –things that may affect its health or how it performs– that you may not know. What to improve your education and get to know your penis a bit better? Read on for a few interesting facts.

1. Circumcision can be reversed. You probably think of circumcision as an irreversible procedure– and one that you’re probably glad you were too young to remember. But it’s not. For those that want to reverse circumcision, doctors can slowly –over the course of years– pull skin from the shaft up to cover the penis, creating a brand new foreskin.

2. Smoking shortens him. You probably think that that daily pack of cigarettes will only affect your lungs and your overall lifespan, right? Wrong. Actually, smoking cigarettes can also affect the size of your penis (specifically, the size of your erection). Smoking cigarettes reduces blood flow all over the body– including to the penis. And since erections are all about blood flow, the poor blood flow resulting from cigarette smoking can reduce the size of your erections by up to a half-inch.

3. Bigger penis means higher fertility. While a larger penis does nothing to change a man’s sperm count or mobility, it does help him to conceive more easily than a smaller-penised man. How? The longer a penis is, the better sperm displacement you’ll get. Now that’s something to brag about on your internet dating profile, right?

4. Prostate exams are for more than just cancer prevention. Prostate cancer is one of those “killers” that men are warned by their doctors to watch out for. But prostate exams aren’t any fun, and saving your life might not be enough motivation to get one. Saving your sex life, however, could be. An enlarged prostate gland is a common cause of both premature ejaculation and impotence– giving you another good reason to go get yourself checked out.

5. That thing you’ve always wondered about? It’s possible. Yes, it actually is possible for a man to pleasure himself orally. But not for most. Only about one in every 400 men has enough flexibility to do it. And each and every one of them probably has.

6. There are two penis “categories.” For 79 percent of men out there, their penis drastically changes size when they experience an erection. For the other 21 percent, it doesn’t; their penis appears large when flaccid, but grows very little when erect. See plenty of guys boasting 6″ penises when soft on their internet dating profiles or walking around the locker room with an enviable-looking penis? They’re probably “show-ers” rather than “growers.”

7. Orgasms are brainless. Think you can use your mind to control when to come? You can’t. That order is actually controlled by the spinal cord rather than the brain. It’s part of the same automatic nervous system that’s in charge of your keeping your heart beating.

8. Arousal is involuntary. Ask any man who’s spent hours hiding a teenaged erection behind his backpack, and he’ll be able to confirm that this is true. But it’s more true than you might think. Because arousal, orgasm, and all of that is controlled by the nervous system, the mind has very little control over when it chooses to have an erection– even if what the mind is thinking does have an effect on it. Because psychological stress also affects the nervous system, it has a great effect on arousal and erections. Too much stress has the same effect on your penis as a cold shower– and it’s an effect that’s completely involuntary.

9. It’s possible to break your penis. While the penis has no bones, there is such a thing as a penile fracture. When it happens, you’ll hear a crack or pop, just like with a broken bone, and the penis will turn black and blue. It’s very painful, and often results from rough or careless sex.

10. You circumcised? Most men aren’t. Of all of the men in the world aged 15 or older, only 30 percent are circumcised, and 70 percent of those men are circumcised for religious reasons (they’re of Jewish or Muslim origins). The U.S. has the highest number of non-religious circumcised men in the world, with 75 percent of non-Jewish or -Muslim men circumcised. In the rest of the English-speaking world that number is much lower, with 20% in the United Kingdom, 30% in Canada, and only 6% in Australia.

This article was written by Shawn Wilson, a member of the customer support team at Datepad, where internet dating is always free. Datepad has a massive directory of informative dating articles along with a great list of dating site reviews on their dating blog.

posted by mathewg on Jan 26

Premature ejaculation is a true medical problem, now taken seriously. Men that have premature ejaculation want to know how to last longer during sex, but it is more than just for the pleasure.

Men with healthy sex lives suffer less from stress related diseases, have less anxiety, sleep better at night, have fewer headaches, higher incomes and are more confident. Premature ejaculation affects fertility because it often occurs before complete penetration. Premature ejaculation stresses a marriage as each partner keeps their silence, even though the secret screams aloud as they approach the bedroom.

The causes of it may be psychological or biological. It can be primary, starting as soon as sexual activity began, or secondary, starting after normal sexuality and later in life. Because the study of premature ejaculation is relatively new, and reasons for the problem are varied, there is no one sure cure answer for how to last longer during sex. There is a variety of methods to help the problem.

1. Practice makes perfect. The use of body knowledge is important for those wishing to prolong their climax. Masturbation to learn the cues that signal the onset of a climax can be helpful to relearn patterns of intimacy. Once you assimilate the cues, you use techniques to keep the level of excitement high, without crossing the threshold.

2. Quit worrying. That is easy to say but hard to put in practice. Premature ejaculation actually occurs more frequently the more that you worry or think about it. Change the focus onto your partners needs and keep the problem out of your brain. Take your time and enjoy the exploration of her body and watch for her signs. She’ll let you know when she is ready.

3. Exercise helps. Kegel exercises give additional control to the man. The exercise starts with stopping urination mid stream. This gives you a feel where the muscles are and what you need to do to control them. These same muscles also can stop premature ejaculation. Once you learn the procedure, you can practice anywhere.

4. Herbal supplements or SSRI’s slow the process. Recently scientists discovered that certain medications increased the production of serotonin faster than the body used it. These drugs, SSRI’s or selective serotonin re-uptake inhibitors, are often powerful antidepressants. The same process occurs with herbal supplements. Herbal supplements act as co-enzymes to create the serotonin in the brain. The serotonin, a neurotransmitter, aids the body in slowing down the climax.

5. Use a lotion potion. These lotions desensitize the penis. Removing some of the sensitivity reduces the quick and heightened sexual urge and slows down the body to last longer during sex.

If you are sincere in your quest to find out how to last longer during sex, you might try one or all of the suggestions, but not all at once. If one doesn’t work for you, move on to the next. Premature ejaculation is a real problem that until recently remained silent. New avenues are available if you seek to solve the problem. Doctors are now recognizing the magnitude of the problem of premature ejaculation and more are aware of solutions than ever before.

It was discovered in the 1970’s that certain prescription drugs can help men last longer, however, most men do not want to take a prescription. Finally, there is a safe, all-natural, herbal supplement that can help men last longer in bed and stop premature ejaculation. For more information, visit ControlYourOrgasms.com