Men Tips

posted by ShawnJay on Jan 8

Who else wants to be the guy that EVERY woman wants? To be honest, it isn’t that complicated. Heck, it is pretty simple! The challenge is making a real commitment to be this kind of man. This is where most of my clients fall short (sadly). It is your drive to be that sexy man, your determination to be at the top of the heap that is going to get you the women. Yes, I know, there ARE some guys who have always been good with women without much effort. It just seems to be in their blood, right?

Well, that is probably true, but if you are reading this I highly doubt that you are one of them!

But you know what? That is absolutely fine. Because neither was I. And I am doing MORE than fine now
So you want to learn how to be that guy which every woman craves? Listen carefully, here they are…

1. Raise the Vibe

Most guys do not make a valuable contribution to the overall vibe of a social experience. They are keep the vibe at the same level, or they even bring it down a couple notches.

The first thing you need to do is ALWAYS raise the vibe in your group. When I say “vibe”, I am speaking about the overall level of enjoyment. It is kind of awkward to explain, but you should be able to feel it.

It’s like your one friend who is always getting the group laughing and just enjoying the moment. Accept when he leaves, you usually do as well because it will not be nearly as much fun without him there.

THAT is the guy you want to be. Again, you are just going to have to feel this one. The key is to remember that you MUST be raising the vibe. Once you have this power, women will be clinging to you. Literally.

2. Lead Them

This is another trait women find irresistible. If you talk to ANY woman and they will (assuming they honestly answer) tell you that they go after the leaders in the group. Sure, it is always fun to be the guy that always “goes with the flow”. You never need to worry about anything when others are making the decisions. But this will not attract women. At least not the ones you probably want.

You need to be an outright leader of your group. YOU need to choose what you guys do. Decide which clubs to go to, decide where to eat. You need to be the one with the plan.

For example, if you are at a lounge, YOU need to guide your group to a place to sit. Do not wait for one of your friends to do it for you.

If you can do these two things consistently, I guarantee women will notice. And not only will they notice, they will be the ones to initiate contact. Have fun with it!

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posted by ShawnJay on Jan 8

Believe it or not, there are certain things that the majority of women get turned on by. Sure, every woman is unique. But there is something within their hard wiring which causes them to be attracted to certain traits.

We COULD go into the nature versus nurture debate right now, but I have better things to do :-). If you are interested in learning some of the most common traits which turn on women, I think you will want to stick around for a little bit. It may be the best thing you do all week!

How to Make a Girl Want You

1. Don’t get attached

A common mistake which men make is getting too attached to situations and their outcomes. Now THIS trait is in OUR biological hard wiring. It stemmed from when were crawling around on all fours looking for food. In the earlier stages of our evolution we HAD to be attached to every single outcome.

If we were not, that usually meant starvation of no mates.

Things are obviously much different these days. However, our hard wiring hasn’t totally caught up to our technological advancements.

You need to fight this urge when it comes to seduction. You need to be aware of the fact that there are millions of sexy women out there. If it doesn’t work out with one, you essentially have a limitless supply to move on to.

If you DO get too attached to your outcomes, the women will notice it. They will see it as a silent desperation which is NEVER something you want to convey.

2. Be a Challenge

Intrigue is a very powerful tool in seduction. If you get her curious about you, all you have to do is keeping feeding the fire and you will have her.

So how do you invoke curiosity within those sexy women you want so badly?

It is as simple as challenging her. What I mean is that you cannot do what all the other average men are doing.

STOP offering to buy women drinks! This is THE worst thing you can do when trying to make a powerful first impression. Remember, just because every other guy is doing it does not mean it is the RIGHT thing to do. In fact, if every other guy is doing it - it is most likely the WRONG thing to do :-).

Instead, why not challenge her? Ask HER to buy YOU a drink!

I do this regularly. Now, do not expect her to actually buy one for you! That isn’t the point. The point is that you have gotten her curious about you.

She is thinking something along the lines of “who does this guy think he is?! Well, maybe I should find out since all these other guys are boring the heck out of me…”

That is what some of us in the seduction world call a “hook”. Once you have her hooked, you have gotten the hard part out of the way. Now it is just about feeding the fire :-).

If you can be in situations with women without attachment AND you can challenge her, you have the tools to make ANY woman want you. Enjoy

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posted by BuddyF on Jan 8

How to meet women, this is one of those questions that I am asked all the time and I give the same advice to every type of guy I encounter. It does not matter if I am asked this question by players, lonely shy guys or older guys who have just started dating again the same advice applies and it never varies. If you want to meet women walk out your front door! It truly is that simple guys, meaning almost any social setting or place you go allows you the chance to go meet women.

Find age appropriate locations

There are locations that work better than others do and when looking to meet women in public sometimes the best approach is determining what time of women you are looking to meet so you do not end up wasting your time. For example if you are a young guy younger than 25 the best place to meet women is college related activities. You probably already know about campus parties, but you can also walk up to a pretty girl in class and ask if you can borrow her notes. Make sure to attend school sporting events and join social clubs for exposure to more girls.

Cater to your own interest

Maybe the reason you need to know how to meet women is that even though you are able to locate lots of local girls you waste a lot of time finding out that you are not compatible. To locate women who are more suited you have to stop visiting the same places and interacting with the same type of girls.

Guys you can go online to find a woman who matches up with your exact requirements. Maybe your goal is to locate women who do not mind the fact that you keep exotic pets in your home, or to date a girl that has your same political views. Maybe you even want to know how to meet women who share the same passions for sports, have the same taste in cuisine or have the same religious background. If this is what you are looking for your best bet is too start looking online. You can set up your preferences at online dating sites to only include women who live within your local area and fit your requirements.

Stop ignoring perfectly acceptable women

It is so funny to me when I go out with Jack a friend of mine who is shy with meeting and approaching women. I have observed him as he wanders around at a party before gathering up the courage to walk up to a woman. It is like watching a blind bat stumble around in the dark. No matter how many women there are in a room he will always focus on the girl who is probably the least attainable, she is the prettiest and most popular lady around. She is sitting far away from Jake, too far away to make eye contact work and a large group of people surrounds her.

Jake will walk by tons of eligible and pretty girls on his way to approach the girl he thinks he wants. Pretty girls who try to make eye contact with him and smile in his direction hoping he will notice them. Jake never notices though, eventually he will walk close enough to see the girl he desires but he still will not actually talk to her and now that she is close enougth to make eye contact with Jake lets his nerves get the better of him and he makes sure to keep from attracting her attention.

Jake could have gotten much better results by following up on any of the warm leads he had gotten. Instead, he wasted his night walking over to a girl he did not even have the courage to speak too yet not a smart way of learning how to meet women. When I asked Jake why he had ignored all the pick up signs girls had given him as he walked by he told me those girls were just not his type. Guys you should never dismiss a woman if you want to learn how to date, especially a pretty girl who is actually hitting on you for a change.

Before Jake can ever get the courage to walk up to the most attractive and popular girl in the room he has to develop some self-confidence and what better way to do this then by actually talking and dating girls who find him attractive. Even if you know a girl is not the “one” for you, the more you allow yourself to date and learn how to meet women the faster you improve. Soon you will be able to approach the most popular girl in the room and walk away with her phone number.

Buddy Franklin is a dating advice guru. He recommends: How to Meet Women, Meet Single Women, Meet Local Women

posted by BuddyF on Jan 8

Men I want you to sit back and think about the question I am about to ask you for a minute. This is one of the most important dating questions anyone will ever propose too you and you must know the answer if you want to learn how to attract women. Just let the question kind of sit back and marinate on you for a few minutes before you even think of your answer. Have I peaked your interest yet guys? All right, I am through teasing, here is the question.

What makes you different from every other single guy looking to meet women?

This question was probably not what you were expecting guys but it really is important that you know the answer. If you still have trouble answering this question let me give you another hint.

What do you do better than any other guy in the dating world can?

By now, you should have caught the repeated use of the word “you” and you have finally figured out the answer! Just being you is what makes you dateable. Of course, you have always been you, so you may think there is nothing special to my advice and you wonder how can you use this information to learn how to attract women.

To be better at dating you do not have to change the essence of yourself guys. You just need to lean to tweak your image, a way to always put your best foot forward when approaching women. Trust me guys, the process is not that difficult to master. When you think about all the tweezing, tweaking, plucking, fluffing, shaving and other tortures women go through to look attractive to men it really puts this in perspective.

The hottest women are really the elite in dating. Girls who can truly choose among all types of men and shy or average guys tend to think they have no chance with this girl. The truth is by learning how to increase your presence in a room, you can learn to have beautiful women start to notice you before you make eye contact or flirt.

Guys once you learn how to attract women you can also learn how to keep women focused on you instead of other guys. If you are the type of guy who cannot stand in front of the mirror naked for a few seconds, you are going to have trouble dating no matter what kind of girl you end up with.

To attract women men have to be prepared to pass the big exam and there is no more time for review guys. By doing nothing you doom yourself to a lonely dating existence. You can however, pass the dating test with honors and get as much female companionship and sex as you want. Here are two super simple tips to help every guy learn how to attract women fast!

Avoid mistakes

Have you ever been talking to a girl or out on a date and called her by the wrong name? I have! Immediately after I did their was a long awkward pause in the conversation as she worked up her anger. If I had been able to interject before she got angry, I could have made a joke about my error and convinced her I was only teasing in the first place.

If I made the same mistake now I would not tense up and look guilty. Instead, I would just tell the girl that the name I had called her by was the name of my favorite relative and she had so many of the same great qualities. This save would not only erase the mistake it would score me bonus points for the compliment.

Not being perfect is its own reward

Guys who never act natural when out on a date with a woman cannot expect her to keep coming back around. There is really no need to hide your flaws or try to act perfect. If you want to learn how to attract women, you can start by accepting your flaws. Women are naturally programmed to “mother” and a guy with flaws is an attraction because she wants to be the girl to fix him.

Guys should also not be afraid to come on too strong if they want to learn how to attract women. Once you start showing interest in a woman, holding back can make you look like you have lost interest. Let the real you shine through a little at a time. Do not be afraid to raise your voice a little to make your point or to show her something no other guy can. Feel free to stop hanging around in the background! Instead, push the limits and surprise her, you might even surprise yourself along the way.

Buddy Franklin is a dating advice guru. He recommends: Attracting Women, Attraction Tips, How to Attract Women

posted by BuddyF on Jan 8

Pick up artist have been considered somewhat controversial ever since they became a part of popular culture. Traditionally the secrets of pick up artists have been well hidden, only revealed to trusted men chosen to join the club. Now TV shows, books and web sites have begin to feature man described as “professional” pick up artist. These guys often lie and deceive, using any means necessary to get women into bed. You however do not have to become an actor, give yourself a nickname, join a club or lie in order to get a woman’s attention.

Pick up artist are very successful at dating several girls at once but most guys are only looking to date one girl at a time. In fact, most guys are just looking to get up the courage to ask out a friend they have known for years, or too ask out the stranger they keep seeing at the post office. Some guys are just looking for a little dating courage. The courage to walk into a club, spot the hottest girl in the room and ask her out without feeling embarrassment or becoming a public spectacle. If you want to know how to hit on a woman without being a pick up artist, consider these tips:

You are only as good as you think you are

This tip really boils down to how men act when trying to approach women. For example, if a guy walks over to a girl is too nervous to make eye contact and becomes tongue-tied around her he only makes himself look unprepared. Though you may have read a book or watched a TV show that said differently, women are not looking for millionaires or celebrities to date. Plenty of women want a regular guy. These women however, will find it hard to see who you are if you hide behind your nerves.

Selfishness goes a long way

If you don’t think about your needs and putting them first who else will? I do not mean that women are any more selfish than man, or that to get a girl you have to act like an arrogant jerk. What I am trying to convey is that you have to try to create a balance. When it comes to dating you have to make sure your needs are being fulfilled. If you meet a girl you like but you are miserable in the relationship because you only go to places she likes and she is making all the decisions in the relationship. Assert your independence and stand up for yourself, women will only have the power in a relationship when you give it away.

Looks are not as important as style

Looks, fashion and style, these three words have very different meanings but are easy for men to confuse. Looks are about a mans physical appeal, his body type, muscle tone, smile and hair cut are assets women often find attractive. Fashion typically applies to a certain clothing style or way of dressing, such as business or casual attire.

Style however, is by far the most important. Style is not just about wearing clothing, it is about a complete look. Successful pickup artists have their own developed sense of style. Rock stars and rappers are another great example of men who have their style polished and are easy to spot. They show their style in the way they walk, talk, their clothing choices and their overall attitude. To get the success pick up artist experience learn how to be stylish instead of a guy who worries about spending money on the newest fashion.

Being charming means being confident

What’s your definition of charming? If it has anything to do with simply smiling and making small talk with women, you have it wrong. Pick up artist know that being charming means effortlessly coming off as a guy who is interested in what others have to say around him. A charming guy makes friends with women and men without effort. He makes others feel comfortable around him.

If you lack charm, it is an easy characteristic to learn. You can start being charming with women by being sincere. If you are hitting on a woman, make it obvious that you find her attractive. Compliment her on how she looks, be courteous and listen when she talks to you.

The best thing about pick up artist techniques guys is there is no learning curve. Read over these tips, practice over them before you head out for the night and don’t be surprised when women willing give you their phone numbers or invite you back to their place.

Buddy Franklin is a dating advice guru. He recommends: Pick Up Artist, Pick Up Artists, Web Sites For Men