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posted by BuddyF on Jan 7

Women are fascinating and mysterious creatures to most men and for men who frequently get turned down by women they lack the understanding of what makes women so special and unique. The real problem however, is that they do not know how to get women too see how special and unique they are as well.

I know how you feel guys and I know that it can make you angry and upset, even leaving you failing like a failure. All because you have not yet gotten the results you wanted and learned how to seduce women. There is no reason why guys from 18 to 80 have to settle for getting less than they want from a woman. You can avoid being placed in the friend zone, you can be honest and get girlfriends you can even be frugal with your money and get all the action you desire.

Find what makes them interested in you

To learn how to seduce women, men have to understand how women think. Men actually have slightly less pressure on their shoulders when it comes too arousing women. When dating men, women do not place as high a level of importance on looks. In fact, you have probably seen this phenomenon a thousand times. You are out at a club and see a gorgeous tall thin model looking girl walking by. On her arm is a short, stubby guy and you were left thinking how did he end up with her? Easy, he asked her out! If you asked a woman to rate her top five most attractive traits about a guy, looks probably would not even make the cut for most of these girls.

Another factor to keep in mind is that looks or attractiveness is completely subjective. Some other guys Cinderella can look like Cinderella’s ugly step sister to you. To broaden your appeal to more women learn to work your best features. Bright white smiles, open honest faces and unique eyes are easy for a woman to spot. Ripped abs or toned arms can easily be shown to their best advantage with the right clothing.

What makes them mad about you

Ever had a great first date with a woman, where you both laughed and talked throughout the night, just casually talking about topics of interest too you? Ever followed that up with a nightmare of a second date? The difference between the first and second date are like night and day. As you start to get more honest with each other, you relax your guard and start to reveal more about yourself. Of course, some guys do not know when to pull back. If you want to learn how to seduce women, it is important that you learn what information should be held back!

Expressing your opinions about politics and social issues is one thing, becoming abrasive when a woman disagrees with you is completely different. If you are the type of guy who reacts this way save yourself some drama and don’t bring up subjects that push your trigger buttons or hers.

What arouses them about you

All guys can turn on the charm to up a woman’s sexual fever and this charm can be used when learning how to seduce women. The best way to do this is by flirting! Flirting is harmless fun; making it a great way to come on to a woman you just meet. How successful a guys flirting is depends on the “vibe” he gives off. The vibe is your entire package, your presence, attitude and the way you conduct yourself.

Some guys can just seem to hit a switch and turn on the charm to get the girl laughing and in the mood. Other guys vibe makes them come off edgy, nervous, scared or just plain desperate, and guys you never want to appear desperate to a woman. A desperate guy is either sure to get turned down, or end up with a girl who will lead him around like a puppy.

Guys who are capable or rolling with the punches also arouse women. Guys who get too settled and stuck in a routine are no fun to be around. If you want to seduce women, be spontaneous, excite her interest in your mind and your body and keep the mystery by never letting her get too close.

To really learn how to seduce women you have to be willing to face girls and deal with your own insecurities. Their is a reason why nice guys don’t get the girl, they do not know how to tell if a girl likes them and never seem to figure out what women want. If this describes your dating experiences maybe its time, you make a change.

Buddy Franklin is a dating advice guru. He recommends: How to Seduce Women, How to tell if a Girl likes you, What Women Want

posted by BuddyF on Jan 7

When it comes to dating and sex men, body language can help you pick up women without using verbal language. In fact, body language is one of the most important gifts guys need when trying to get women interested in them. Body languages among men and women share many similarities in that they are both used to communicate thoughts that you probably would not say aloud to a woman you just meet. Studying body languages can help you learn what message a woman is trying to send you and save you a lot of time and trouble when dating.

Nonverbal communication is the primary form of communication; before you say a word to a woman, you already have made some impression on her because of your body language. If you see a woman in a sexy outfit, who smiles and flirted her body language is drawing her into you. However, a woman who sits with her arms crossed a frown on her face and gives off an icy vibe can easily repel a guy from finding her attractive.

Noticing Bad Body Languages

Just as women use body language to get guys attention men can use their body language to make sure they are turning a woman on instead of off. Let me explain this in a little more detail. You go out to an event where there are many pretty women all around for socializing. In your own opinion, you are an average guy and this negative self-doubt causes you to act a little shy and nervous when approaching or talking with girls.

To avoid detection you slouch against a wall or slouch when sitting down being careful to shrink into the surroundings and take up as little space as possible. You find a woman and stare pointedly in her direction daring her too look back at you. When she does look, your nerves start to get the better of you and you give her a blank stare or you get a nervous look in your eyes and look away. Body languages like these do not attract women, in fact you are sending out several crossed signals. By constantly staring at her you made her feel uncomfortable and then by looking away and frowning you come across as indecisive, not really sure of what you want.

Creating Good Body Languages

Guys you are the only person who can change your body language. A primary reason for having bad body language among men is fear. Fear is a waste of time and energy, in no way does fear help you too meet women or get her too sleep with you. To overcome your fears try thinking of what could go wrong when you approach a woman. Maybe she says yes and maybe you are turned down, it really is that simple.

Guys who are led by fear think that being turned down is personal, guys it is not about you! Most of the time if a woman rejects your approach she is already in another relationship or you did not pay enough attention to her body language signals. Never get mad or become hostile if a woman does not want to give you her number, insults are always a bad idea. The best way to handle the situation is to smile, thank her for her time and apologize if you disturbed her. Keep your body language friendly and approachable.

This trick is not only about the girl who rejected you; other women are probably watching this exchange. In fact, her female friends are probably listening right now! Even if the girl you wants turns you down, a friend of hers or another girl can see how you handled the rejection and decide to offer you her number.

Use Your Body Language When Creating a First Impression

Increasing effective body languages, between you and women you like helps in making a better first impression. The next time you head out for a night; make sure you are confident about how you appear. Your clothing does not have too be new, or expensive. In fact, some of the most popular guys adopt a grungy style or bad boy look. What really works however is adopting a clothing style that you feel confident wearing out in public. The clothes do not make the man but they can definitely help a man get laid.

Make your first impression memorable by being sure to act like a man who thinks he can score with women. The next time you head out for a night on the town be sure to make your presence felt. Either standing or sitting be sure to spread yourself out a bit keeping your legs a little apart, shake off any nerves you have too avoid and have some fun, using body languages to hit on women.

Buddy Franklin is a dating advice guru. He recommends: Body Languages, Body Language Sexual, Examples of Body Language

posted by BuddyF on Jan 7

There is not a lot of difference guys between being confident and being cocky except for one major difference. You cannot shake the arrogance of a cocky guy he has absolute faith in himself and believes there is no women that if he wants and makes an effort at pursuing he cannot eventually get.

Confident guys do have some good qualities as well. Confident guys have a sense of who they are and do not cave in to become what a woman wants of him. Confident guys also are able to get along easily with woman and have something interesting and worthwhile too say. However, is a confident guy able to get the women he really wants? Confident guys can walk up to decent looking girls and hit on them but even confident guys tend to shy away from hitting on the “cream of the crop” women who look like they should be gracing the cover of some magazine, dating celebrities or the head cheerleader for a basketball team.

If you are a confident guy who is happy in your dating relationships then maybe this does not apply to you but think about it for a minute. Have you ever seem a beautiful woman and because of the way she looked you actually walked away instead of approaching? If so, you could pick up a few lessons from the cocky guy.

To make my point let me clarify what I mean when I say confident. There are really two levels of confident guys. The first level applies to guys who are completely confident, they tend to be alphas and dominate male types. These guys have picked up a trait or two from the cocky guy to help them get women.

Then there are guys who do not have full confidence in themselves. Their confidence levels actually fluctuate up and down. With rising confidence when he feels secure and comfortable around decent looking girls and average or shy guys. His confidence them plummets when he is faced with stunning beautiful women or when he finds himself outside of his comfort zone. If you are the type of guy whose confidence levels are never steady then learning what makes cocky guys date worthy can help you get the hottest babes.

Cocky guys always play to win

Woman may call cocky guys abrasive, rude or jerks, but they still keep calling them. When a cocky guy finds a woman he wants he does not feel fear, because even though a cocky guy believes he can get any woman he wants he is naturally able to attract so many different types of woman he is not willing to waste his time pursuing after any one woman.

Cocky guys know they are the best

If you want to date the best-looking women and get better sex then realize that you are the best at what you offer. You do not have to make this complicated, it just means that you believe that every time you enter a room you are the guy who has exactly what every woman in the room wants and needs, if you lead with this attitude approaching a woman, no matter how spectacular looking she is will not be a problem for you.

Cocky guys laughs off the mistakes

What makes cocky guys able to stay focused is their ability to shrug off the small pitfalls that can devastate a guy with too little confidence. A guy that is truly happy with himself and his dating options can laugh at themselves relax and have fun without caring if someone tries to make fun of them, because they know it is just jealousy talking.

Cocky guys are honest with everyone

You might try to tell yourself that the reason you choose not to approach an attractive girl is that you were not that interested, but deep down you know the truth. You doubted your own ability to get her attracted too you. A cocky guy may be blunt but he does not lie to himself or to girls, if he is dating several girls they know it, and are okay with it.

Cocky guys are not influenced by society

Even though cocky guys are the one who get the bad reputation they are not the ones who tend to cave to society pressures, but confident guys do. Confident guys allow society to set their standards of how they are supposed to act and the type of girls they should be seen with. Cocky guys however, do whatever makes them feel good.

Buddy Franklin is a dating advice guru. He recommends: How to be Cocky and Funny, Cocky, How to be Arrogant

posted by BuddyF on Jan 7

Understanding body language and being able to use it when needed is one of the most important skills a guy needs if he wants to impress a woman, get a girlfriend and hook up. Shy guys, nice guys and average guys who constantly are lead around by their emotions have trouble knowing how to turn women on with their body language. Thankfully, body language is one of the easiest dating skills to improve upon.

Bad Body Language

Before understanding body language, you need something to compare it too, take this example of a shy guy trying to pick up a girl he meets at a party using bad body language. The girl is beautiful with sculpted features, long legs, long blonde hair and a perfect size eight shape. She just happens to be his perfect type, making the guy even more nervous and he does not take the time to think he just reacts. Walking right over to her, he interrupts her in the middle of talking to several of her friends and blurts out that he finds her pretty. Then he pauses. He was so anxious to let the girl know he found her attractive he did not have any room left in his brain. No place in his thinking process to ask for the girl’s phone number, strike up a casual conversation or even send out a single signal of his attraction before he walked over.

As you can imagine the girl does not respond well, she looks at him and maybe smiles or fidgets waiting for him to make a response. Realizing his blunder the guy still stands there frozen just staring at her. She begins to feel uncomfortable and she and her friends all leave the room to get away from him. What this guy did not understand is that body language is the lead in to approaching a woman.

Good Body Language

Understanding body language when you try and hit on girls is essential and you start by making eye contact. There is nothing wrong with a little practice so consider working on attractive body language by standing in front of the mirror. Look at your eyes in the mirror and try to see how you appear to the girl you are tying to pick up. Smile with your eyes to keep from coming off as cold or too intense. You can learn this trick by thinking about something pleasurable as you look at a girl.

If you are trying to connect with one woman making eye contact with her and then turning your head and trying to hit on another girl while still in her line of vision is not a smart move! The point of making eye contact is to have her believing you think she is the hottest girl in the room. If you are going to hit on several women at the same location make sure they are not seated so they can see you flirting with other guys while you are still trying to hook up with them.

Now that you are understanding body language from the neck up you can tackle the rest of your body! It is called body language for a reason, your entire body really can be used to attract and hit on women. Look in the mirror and pay attention to how you hold yourself, guys who stand up with their feet a little spread apart come on as secure in their own skin. If you have your shoulders hunched, arms folded, frown or slump as you stand, fix that posture, it does nothing but kill a woman’s interest.

The walk is also important for attraction. Guys who pace rapidly look too aggressive or frantic, guys who walk too slow come across as boring and predictable. Make your walk a little unique, develop a natural stride that feels good and comfortable too you, try to be smooth when you walk, opposed to having jerky body movements and starting and stopping a lot as you walk. Both show signs of a guy suffering from a bad case of nerves.

You can arouse a woman just by understanding body language, using it to get her turned on before you even approach her. Licking your lips is a great way to have a woman thinking about kissing you or having sex with you. You do not have to be suggestive; a simple lick of the lips can have her thinking about you. As well as using your hands, women can tell how confident a guy is by where he places his hands. Keep from fidgeting with your hands to keep from coming off as nervous.

Buddy Franklin is a dating advice guru. He recommends: Body Language Attraction , Flirting Body Language, Understanding Body Language

posted by BuddyF on Jan 7

Guys if you are sick and tired of hanging around in the background and watching as much less deserving guys get the girls you know are meant for you then make some changes. From now on there is No more Mr. nice guy and no more waiting around for the perfect woman to fall into your lap. I do think your perfect woman exists but you have to get out and start attracting women to find her. There are hundreds of little tips and tricks that can work to help you attract girls, but we do not have to go into information overload. Here are seven suggestions you can start off with.

Surround yourself with beautiful women

All good things come in more than one package, and beautiful women tend to surround themselves with other beautiful women. This is great for you if you meet a girl and went out on a date but you both mutually decide there was no sexual chemistry. She can then become your introduction to all her attractive female friends. The beautiful girl who married your brother or the hot chick who is best friends with your sister are both ways of getting an invitation into the arms of pretty women.

Smile

Smiles are one of the simplest ways of attracting women and there are actually lots of different types of smiles to choose from. Go stand in front of a mirror and smile based on different emotions such as happiness, aroused, and embarrassed. You will quickly realize that your smile can turn a girl on or put a halt to a budding attraction. Smile in front of the mirror using the smile you want to use when dating women. Make sure, when you are out with women that you put on your best smile.

Pay attention

Staying focused is a way of attracting women that really should be commonplace to men. Somehow, in all the excitement of asking out a woman and going on dates this method gets a little lost in the shuffle. If you want women to be attracted to you listen to what they have to say. A guy who can remember what a woman said or did on their first date together, is not sappy. He is smart enough to know that this information can get her into his bed and keep her satisfied with him.

Never be the same

Smiling constantly at a woman one day and spending hours with her talking about every possible topic then not calling her for several days puts a woman on edge. She does not know if she has some how done something to turn you off and by the time you actually call or show up she will be ready to give you the power of the relationship and do what you want in order to keep you coming around.

Try on another image

Tired of being the same old predicable guy? Well the girls you are dating do not find it that attractive either. What does work is being the man of mystery. There is nothing wrong with learning a little bit more about the bad boy and player to decide if either method will help you get women. You can also increase your dating success by changing your routine, changing your hair, cologne and style of dress. All help girls see you in a different light. Try this method out by going back to the same club after updating your style don’t be surprised if you now are able to approach and attract girls who turned you down before.

Be a tease

Flirting and smiling are really in a dead heat when it comes to the most effective and important aspect of attracting women. Flirting however, wins a few extra points because flirting involves touching. When you touch a woman, you allow the sparks of sexual desire to flow back and forth between you. Remember the skin is the largest organ in the human body and a touch anywhere feels good. Since you have not yet gotten the pleasure of taking the relationship to a sexual level, touch her hand, arms, checks and hair any part of the body you can get away with touching.

Start Leading Others Around You

If you want too really connect with women and have them flocking around you become a leader. Attracting women is simple for these guys because women want a man who can take charge, allowing her to follow your lead. Leaders are cocky, guys who walk with an assertive stride and are confident that women will want to date them.

Buddy Franklin is a dating advice guru. He recommends: Attracting Women, Attraction Tips, How to Attract Hot Women