Men Tips

posted by akalloh on Dec 26

Both a man and the woman need to be healthy in order to produce a child. When a couple cannot conceive a child in a span of one year, they might be having infertility problems. According to research, infertility affects 10% (or about 6.1 million) Americans in the reproductive age. Contrary to myth, infertility is not always a “woman’s problem.” A third of the cases are actually due to male infertility factors.

Infertility in men may be caused by many factors such as low sperm count (or nothing at all), ejaculation problems, or “abnormal” sperm, which is said to be malformed and have a short life span.

Generally, your fertility is based upon your general health. If you live a healthy lifestyle, there is a high probability that your sperm will also be healthy. There are quite a number of threats that may affect male fertility. Nicotine, alcohol and drugs (e.g., marijuana and cocaine) are on the top of the list. According to studies, smoking drastically decreases the sperm count and overall health of sperm cells.

Poor diet (malnutrition) can also contribute to male infertility, including deficiency in vitamin C and zinc in your diet. Some diseases (e.g., tuberculosis, fevers, anemia, and mumps in adulthood) and infections are also suspect. These are infections of the reproductive system such as epididymitis, orchitis, and prostatitis. Some sexually transmitted disease such as chlamydia or gonorrhea also damages the spermatic ducts. You also risk transmitting your disease to your partner causing her to be infertile.

Some medications are also believed to be causes of male infertility. This include cancer-treating agents (e.g., chemotheraphy), anti-fungal medication (ketoconazole), antidiarrheal drug (sulfasalazine), Azulfidine (a drug used to treat ulcerative colitis), and some groups of antibiotics (nitrofurans and macrolides). Likewise, the use of anabolic steroids is also known to cause testicular shrinkage and infertility.

Other threats to male fertility also include testosterone deficiency, trauma or injury to the testes, structural abnormality or blockage in the vas deferens, and varicocele, a varicose vein in the testicle that produces too much heat harming and killing sperm.

Some are also connected to your lifestyle, like excessive stress, overly intense exercise (may lower your sperm count by producing higher levels of adrenal steroid hormones, which lower the amount of testosterone in the body), tight underwear or jogging pants, hot tubs, saunas, or anything that raises the temperature of your scrotum, including overheated vehicles and hot work environments, and exposure to environmental hazards such as pesticides, lead, paint, mercury, benzene, boron, radiation (x-ray), radioactive substances, and heavy metals.

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posted by akalloh on Dec 22

Making use of a penis pump is one of the most common ways men attempt to obtain a larger penis. A penis pump is a simple device with a hollow tube where you can put your penis. It has a handle, which sucks blood into the penis by creating a vacuum. The blood then gets caught in the penis by means of a rubber ring placed around the base. This ring allows your penis to maintain its erection so you can make love without losing the erection.

By creating a vacuum-type seal around the penis by pulling blood to the surface, it engorges your member and makes it appear larger. The sensations can be pleasant at first, but your penis will eventually return to its former size. Men who suffer from chronic insulin dependent diabetes or circulatory disorders generally can use these pumps. Men afflicted with these conditions have such poor blood circulation due to their sugar metabolism that they can’t get enough blood flowing into the area. With the suction created by the pump, the penis’s skin and underlying tissues are being stretch. The ring clamps off the blood flow and consequently traps the blood in the penis, making it look thicker and capable of sustaining erection. With the clamp firmly in place, men then can have sex with their partners. However, once you take the clamp off, the erection goes away.

Penis pumps show their greatest benefit when the penis is already erect or when you still have not achieved a full erection. The enlargement effect however is not long lasting and will disappear quickly once pumping ceases or if you remove the ring that keeps the blood pumped into the penis. Having said all these, penis pumps do not cause your penis to grow; they can only help you achieve fuller and harder erections temporarily.

Despite the obvious benefit one gains from using a penis pump, many men and their partners don’t like the device because the erection it produces is not “normal”. Some pump users complain that their penis feels numb or that it becomes discolored, misshapen, and cold to the touch. Other couples are uneasy about the interruption of intimacy it brings to lovemaking. In addition, some men find that the constriction ring at the base of the penis causes mild discomfort upon ejaculation.

Penis pumps can be dangerous if used improperly. Take caution when using one and ensure that whatever pump you use has a reliable pressure gauge and that you follow the instructions closely. Furthermore, using the wrong kind of vacuum pump and using it too often can burst blood vessels in the penis, peel skin, cause general pain, and soreness. They also tend to thin out the penis, making it very weak and reducing the duration of erections. There are some cases of penis pumps even deforming the penis. Some men have found out that after using a penis pump for a period of time, the only way they would be able to obtain an erection is with the pump.

The major problems associated with pumps are:

1. The results are rarely permanent since you’re simply sucking blood into your penis. The penis is not actually strengthened nor does it increase in length or girth.

2. You run the risk of getting lymph blisters on the glands of your penis from the device that you’re putting over it.

3. You take the risk of bleeding from ruptured capillaries. Sucking a lot of blood abruptly into your penis can rupture some penile blood vessels.

4. You run the risk of temporary impotence because of forcing blood to your penis.

Although pumps do work temporarily (usually for about half an hour) this is unsuitable for spontaneous occasions and these devices have been known to leave scars, bruises and in some cases gangrene, causing much pain to the penis. Pumps work by placing a tube over your penis and then pumping the air out of the tube. This temporarily swells the penis, but does not increase the blood capacity in the cells of the penis, which is crucial in achieving permanent size gains.

After learning all of these disadvantages, you need to think twice before you consider using a penis pump to help you sustain an erection. Your best bet to a full-sized penis would be to exercise and keep your blood flowing healthily.

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posted by directinc on Dec 19

So you want to know how to attract women. And you want to know how to attract women the right way, not the way everyone says ’should work.’

Strangely, the first step is not something new to do, but things you should stop doing. See, if you want to know how to attract women, you must first get rid of your attraction killers.

Understand this: it’s not that most guys don’t attract women. It’s that they kill the attraction almost as soon as it starts, and they don’t even know what happened.

Unfortunately, there has been a cultural shift in this country over the past 30 years, and men have stopped acting like men, and started acting like whiney little boys. Instead of exhibiting personal authority (THE biggest secret when it comes to how to attract women), most men look to the woman to lead in the relationship’ they treat her as ‘mommy’ and not as wife or girlfriend.

Women can’t stand this. What they want is man who will take the lead, a man who will say, ‘hey, let’s go here,’ instead of ‘I dunno, what do you want to do.’ This is a huge turn off to women, and as soon as man does that, it kills the attraction.

What else kills the attraction? Oh, I could go on forever, but here are a few big killers, and we’ll start with the biggest one: being a ‘nice guy.’
The media and society have conditioned men to believe that women are attracted to the proverbial ‘nice guy’,the lovable, dorky pushover, the soft, sensitive lump who exists only to please her and do her bidding. This is NOT how to attract women. If you’ve ever tried the nice guy route, you know where you end up- -in the safe friend zone.

But hey, we’re just getting started here. Want to drive away a woman for good? Be eagerly available, shower her with compliments, buy her gifts and let her know you’re ‘there for her.’

Lookit, women ’should’ be attracted to men like this. But they’re not. Instead they’re attracted to men with a profound sense of personal authority, men who are sarcastic, politically incorrect, excel at innuendo, and are maddeningly unavailable.

Whether this is right or wrong doesn’t matter. It’s the world we live in, and if you as a man want to know how to attract women, the secret is actually very simple: stop doing the things that kill attraction (the things society and the media tell you to do) and start doing what works. You’ll be amazed at how easy it suddenly is to attract women.

You’ll finally know how to meet women, attract women, and pick up women, having power and control over your dating live. Go to www.WomenApproachYou.com to discover these dating secrets

posted by directinc on Dec 19

So let’s say you’re a man. And you want to know how to pick up women. And maybe you’ve read a few books about it, even seen some of those goofy how to pick up women e-books for sale.

But most of it seems like BS to you, and the whole how to pick up women idea sounds pretty high-schoolish to you. After all, you’re a man, and you’d probably like to meet a woman for a real relationship with some fun adventures along the way.

Should you learn how to pick up women? No. What you should learn is how to create attraction with women, which is a vastly different skill. See, when you learn the skill of attraction (and it IS a skill learnable by any man), women will actually start to approach you first for a date, no matter your looks, age or income.

Women can actually sense a man who’s mastered the skill of attraction’you just give off a certain ‘vibe’ they pick up on. Not so much with guys who spend all their time trying to learn how to pick up women, they give off a different vibe, a more desperate one.

Understand this: women WANT to feel attraction around men. They want to feel chills in their spine, want to feel butterflies in their stomach. And when you make them feel that wonderful feeling of attraction (what women call ‘chemistry’) they will do anything to be with you.

But when you try to pick up women, all of that changes. In that case, women feel objectified, like they’re pawns in a game, or a way for lesser men to keep score with their lesser buddies.

So, how to pick up women is out, and learning the skill of attraction is in. Strangely, attraction is a simple skill to learn, although it appears to be difficult because no one, nowhere teaches it.
Attraction comes down to this: engaging in a certain set of male behavior that creates attraction, and avoiding those behaviors that kill it.

What creates attraction? A naughty, funny, sarcastic, teasing persona, that switches over to strength, authority, and seriousness. What kills attraction? Whining, jealousy, possessiveness, sensitivity, being a nice guy, being a pushover, being available, trying to win a woman’s favor with compliments and gifts and so on and so forth.

If you really want to attract women, forget the whole how to pick up women thing, that’s for choads and losers. Do what MEN do, learn the skill of attraction, and put it to use wherever you go.

You’ll finally know how to meet women, attract women, and pick up women, having power and control over your dating live. Go to www.WomenApproachYou.com to discover these dating secrets

posted by infomktjv on Dec 19

Men aren’t likely to understand that when a woman gives him her phone number that is it more than a simple acquiescence to his request, but an invitation to call her and usually and invitation to ask her out. So why on earth guys think that it is cool and shows her who wears the pants when he lets two or three weeks pass before actually calling.

By making sure that she knows that “you’re busy” and that you will get around to calling her on your time, you have given her the time she needs to cycle through a wide array of misconceptions to realize that she doesn’t need your sorry ass to call. Two to three weeks is a disrespectful amount of time to let slide by before using her phone number.

If you have managed to get her number after a very brief interlude, like a five minute conversation over the melons at the grocery store, two weeks is long enough for her to actually forget who you are when you finally call. Just because you want her to know that you’re busy you go and wait long enough that you have to jog her memory in order to get her to talk to you. At that point, after you embarrass yourself explaining who you are, she has already written you off and that tiny little spark of attraction that got her to hand over her phone number initially has been replaced with the understanding that you are irresponsible. She isn’t interested any longer.

If it was more than just a brief exchange that got her phone number in your hands and you went and waited two to three weeks before getting in touch with her, she went through a period the week before where she felt stupid and rather unattractive because obviously the exchange meant more to her then it did to you. Her feelings may or may not have been hurt, but she felt stupid and she has talked herself out of needing any kind of contact from a guy who can’t even be bothered to follow up his phone call promises.

But you wanted to get it across to her that you were busy. You didn’t want her to know that you have been hanging on your couch every night watching last years’ reruns on television waiting for enough time to pass before you could safely call her. While you were banging around on the couch did you consider the fact that you had said that you would give her a call. That sort of implied the next time you were around you would think of her. But hey, two’s a crowd on that bargain basement couch of yours anyway, right?

If you need to send the signal about how busy you are and how you don’t need to charge right to a phone when you finally score a phone number, then show her for day one and day. By day three or four you need to pick up that phone and call and let her know that you’re interested. It’s really that simple. She wouldn’t have given you her number if she didn’t want to hear from you again, soon.

Women don’t like to be forced into carrying the burden of the load in a relationship. If you drive it more than four days past her emotional response is one of having to carry the relationship. She isn’t into it and isn’t into you. So warm that couch cushion back up because once you have blown it, you have to get back to being busy.

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