Men Tips

posted by directinc on Dec 19

So you want to know how to attract women. And you want to know how to attract women the right way, not the way everyone says ’should work.’

Strangely, the first step is not something new to do, but things you should stop doing. See, if you want to know how to attract women, you must first get rid of your attraction killers.

Understand this: it’s not that most guys don’t attract women. It’s that they kill the attraction almost as soon as it starts, and they don’t even know what happened.

Unfortunately, there has been a cultural shift in this country over the past 30 years, and men have stopped acting like men, and started acting like whiney little boys. Instead of exhibiting personal authority (THE biggest secret when it comes to how to attract women), most men look to the woman to lead in the relationship’ they treat her as ‘mommy’ and not as wife or girlfriend.

Women can’t stand this. What they want is man who will take the lead, a man who will say, ‘hey, let’s go here,’ instead of ‘I dunno, what do you want to do.’ This is a huge turn off to women, and as soon as man does that, it kills the attraction.

What else kills the attraction? Oh, I could go on forever, but here are a few big killers, and we’ll start with the biggest one: being a ‘nice guy.’
The media and society have conditioned men to believe that women are attracted to the proverbial ‘nice guy’,the lovable, dorky pushover, the soft, sensitive lump who exists only to please her and do her bidding. This is NOT how to attract women. If you’ve ever tried the nice guy route, you know where you end up- -in the safe friend zone.

But hey, we’re just getting started here. Want to drive away a woman for good? Be eagerly available, shower her with compliments, buy her gifts and let her know you’re ‘there for her.’

Lookit, women ’should’ be attracted to men like this. But they’re not. Instead they’re attracted to men with a profound sense of personal authority, men who are sarcastic, politically incorrect, excel at innuendo, and are maddeningly unavailable.

Whether this is right or wrong doesn’t matter. It’s the world we live in, and if you as a man want to know how to attract women, the secret is actually very simple: stop doing the things that kill attraction (the things society and the media tell you to do) and start doing what works. You’ll be amazed at how easy it suddenly is to attract women.

You’ll finally know how to meet women, attract women, and pick up women, having power and control over your dating live. Go to www.WomenApproachYou.com to discover these dating secrets

posted by directinc on Dec 19

So let’s say you’re a man. And you want to know how to pick up women. And maybe you’ve read a few books about it, even seen some of those goofy how to pick up women e-books for sale.

But most of it seems like BS to you, and the whole how to pick up women idea sounds pretty high-schoolish to you. After all, you’re a man, and you’d probably like to meet a woman for a real relationship with some fun adventures along the way.

Should you learn how to pick up women? No. What you should learn is how to create attraction with women, which is a vastly different skill. See, when you learn the skill of attraction (and it IS a skill learnable by any man), women will actually start to approach you first for a date, no matter your looks, age or income.

Women can actually sense a man who’s mastered the skill of attraction’you just give off a certain ‘vibe’ they pick up on. Not so much with guys who spend all their time trying to learn how to pick up women, they give off a different vibe, a more desperate one.

Understand this: women WANT to feel attraction around men. They want to feel chills in their spine, want to feel butterflies in their stomach. And when you make them feel that wonderful feeling of attraction (what women call ‘chemistry’) they will do anything to be with you.

But when you try to pick up women, all of that changes. In that case, women feel objectified, like they’re pawns in a game, or a way for lesser men to keep score with their lesser buddies.

So, how to pick up women is out, and learning the skill of attraction is in. Strangely, attraction is a simple skill to learn, although it appears to be difficult because no one, nowhere teaches it.
Attraction comes down to this: engaging in a certain set of male behavior that creates attraction, and avoiding those behaviors that kill it.

What creates attraction? A naughty, funny, sarcastic, teasing persona, that switches over to strength, authority, and seriousness. What kills attraction? Whining, jealousy, possessiveness, sensitivity, being a nice guy, being a pushover, being available, trying to win a woman’s favor with compliments and gifts and so on and so forth.

If you really want to attract women, forget the whole how to pick up women thing, that’s for choads and losers. Do what MEN do, learn the skill of attraction, and put it to use wherever you go.

You’ll finally know how to meet women, attract women, and pick up women, having power and control over your dating live. Go to www.WomenApproachYou.com to discover these dating secrets

posted by infomktjv on Dec 19

Men aren’t likely to understand that when a woman gives him her phone number that is it more than a simple acquiescence to his request, but an invitation to call her and usually and invitation to ask her out. So why on earth guys think that it is cool and shows her who wears the pants when he lets two or three weeks pass before actually calling.

By making sure that she knows that “you’re busy” and that you will get around to calling her on your time, you have given her the time she needs to cycle through a wide array of misconceptions to realize that she doesn’t need your sorry ass to call. Two to three weeks is a disrespectful amount of time to let slide by before using her phone number.

If you have managed to get her number after a very brief interlude, like a five minute conversation over the melons at the grocery store, two weeks is long enough for her to actually forget who you are when you finally call. Just because you want her to know that you’re busy you go and wait long enough that you have to jog her memory in order to get her to talk to you. At that point, after you embarrass yourself explaining who you are, she has already written you off and that tiny little spark of attraction that got her to hand over her phone number initially has been replaced with the understanding that you are irresponsible. She isn’t interested any longer.

If it was more than just a brief exchange that got her phone number in your hands and you went and waited two to three weeks before getting in touch with her, she went through a period the week before where she felt stupid and rather unattractive because obviously the exchange meant more to her then it did to you. Her feelings may or may not have been hurt, but she felt stupid and she has talked herself out of needing any kind of contact from a guy who can’t even be bothered to follow up his phone call promises.

But you wanted to get it across to her that you were busy. You didn’t want her to know that you have been hanging on your couch every night watching last years’ reruns on television waiting for enough time to pass before you could safely call her. While you were banging around on the couch did you consider the fact that you had said that you would give her a call. That sort of implied the next time you were around you would think of her. But hey, two’s a crowd on that bargain basement couch of yours anyway, right?

If you need to send the signal about how busy you are and how you don’t need to charge right to a phone when you finally score a phone number, then show her for day one and day. By day three or four you need to pick up that phone and call and let her know that you’re interested. It’s really that simple. She wouldn’t have given you her number if she didn’t want to hear from you again, soon.

Women don’t like to be forced into carrying the burden of the load in a relationship. If you drive it more than four days past her emotional response is one of having to carry the relationship. She isn’t into it and isn’t into you. So warm that couch cushion back up because once you have blown it, you have to get back to being busy.

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