Men Tips

posted by mauricetate on Oct 31

The first benefit is for health reasons. Most men over 40 start to get an enlarged prostate gland. This is unusual, as most glands in the body shrink. The prostate gland is the only one in men that increases in size.

Male g spot massage is recommended by many doctors these days as a way of preventing prostate cancer. Men in some Asian countries do prostate massage as part of their lifestyle. Prostate cancer is less in these countries.

Most men are surprised to find out the prostate is the source of so much pleasure, contributing to an unparalleled type of orgasm.

On a well-detailed diagram of the male g spot, locate the prostate; it can be found in between the bladder and rectum. Due to its placement, the only way to come in contact with the prostate is through the anus. The
diagram of the male g spot will also show that the gland sits fairly close to the anal opening.

The placement of the prostate is close to the root of the penis, making it easy to simultaneously perform masturbation and g spot stimulation. For men who want to share the experience with their partner, it a good idea to share the diagram of the male g spot
with them as well. In order for a significant other to fully appreciate the power of the prostate, they need to understand exactly how to find it.

Any diagram of the male g spot will also show how closely it is located to the anal canal.
The prostate can’t be touched directly, but intense pleasure is still found by rubbing or stroking the area around the gland. With important sexual functions, the prostate is frequently found on a reproductive diagram of the male g spot.

An enlarged prostate also leads to some problems in urine flow for many older men. This is a drag as you will find it you talk to men with this issue.

Male g spot massage is though to increase the blood flow to the prostate area. The other thing about prostate massage it that it is very erotic for most men. Some men think they will turn gay from prostate massage but this is not so. Many men introduce prostate play to sex and they are totally straight.

The key to a pleasurable g spot massage is to totally relax the anus before any prostate play.

The next key is to use lots of lubrication on and in the anus. A lubricator that is a tube of some sort it the best way to achieve this.

The best way to learn prostate massage is by video or from a good newsletter on this topic.

Maurice Tate is a qualified sexologist who specializes with couples. Learn to find the Male G Spot Diagram and
Find The Male G Spot and Free Prostate Massage Guide.

posted by batoujitsu on Oct 31

Ever heard of arousal step-down techniques?

How about the PC muscle and Kegels?

If you’re like most guys, you probably haven’t. And as such, most men - unaware of the numerous ways they can boost their sexual skill and ‘lasting’ power - regularly produce mediocre performances in bed, leaving themselves disappointed and the women they’re with disillusioned and usually orgasmless. It’s a real shame.

In a poll, 93% of men asked, said they’d like to last longer in bed before ejaculating - but 100% of those men were unaware of how they could achieve such a seemingly impossible feat.

The truth is, it’s not impossible (or even difficult) to maximise your sexual performance and attain complete control over how long you boogie for and generally get on down with the ladies.

So, let’s take a look at one sexual method that’ll allow you massive control over your arousal levels and always give you the choice of when to cum or when to continue.

During sex, most men begin to lose control of themselves (in terms of ejaculation!) at around the 2 or 3 minute mark - which is usually midway through the first sexual position. And what a letdown ejaculating at this point would be! So, that’s usually the first point at which you’ll use this technique. It involves two steps. The first takes place in your mind - which is the root of many a male’s sexual performance troubles.

1. When you first feel those telltale sensations in your penis (the heightened sensitivity and energy that let you know that if you carry on doing what you’re doing you’ll soon explode) don’t panic! Too many men are pushed over the edge, right to ejaculation, because they mentally begin to panic when they feel they’re close to orgasm. Panic phrases rush through their heads, like: “Uh oh, I’m gonna blow!” and “Not again, this is going to be embarrassing.” Instead of letting these counter-productive thoughts fill your mind and quicken the onset of orgasm, instead calmly say in your head: “Okay, I’m close to ejaculating. Time to use an arousal step-down technique.” Then move onto step number two.

2. The most sensitive part of your penis is the top of the shaft and especially the head. To decrease its stimulation (without stopping the ‘action’) slowly and deeply thrust into your partner, as far as you can go and she can pleasurably take.

Then, gently grind your hips, wiggling your pubic bone (the hard area above your penis, about 8 inches down from your belly button) on her vagina. To her, this seems and feels like a wonderful stroke variation, which gives her external clitoral stimulation (the number one way to make any woman orgasm).

However, behind the scenes, it’s momentarily decreasing your stimulation, enabling you to last longer. This happens because when you plunge deep into her, your penis enters a wider area of her vagina, which lessens its contact and stimulation.

Then, to cap it off, you grind and wiggle, instead of thrusting in and out, which further decreases the intense sensations of sex. After 30 seconds or so, your arousal levels will have dropped enough for you to restart your thrusting.

By using this technique, you’re able to control your urge to pop without stopping sex and while giving your partner extra sexual stimulation. Now how much better a technique is that for tackling premature ejaculation when compared to what most people consider to be effective techniques? Things like: “Count backward from 100″ and “Think of dead puppies!”

Sex, as you well know, is all about fun. Using the 2-step technique above, you can fully enjoy the experience - without the worry of it all being over too soon!

For more premature ejaculation solutions, please visit the How To Last Longer Having Sex Blog at http://how-to-last-longer-having-sex.blogspot.com/

posted by crestes on Oct 29

If you are asking how do you make your penis larger today you need to be aware that penis enhancement has come a long way in delivering safe, effective methods.

There are many penis enhancement products all over the net so there is no reason whatsoever for anyone to settle for average when women of today are looking for something much more than that. There is lots of choice available for penis enlargement devices or enhancement products, all of them instantly available. Choosing one that suits you is something only you can decide.

So if your question is how do you make your penis larger in your own home the best way is to simply get down to some research about the various products on offer. In this market most of the programs of penis enhancement can be depended on to deliver something that is well made and researched. Safety standards today are closely monitored by watch-dog committees. Products that have been endorsed by doctors are probably the safest approach.

Penis enhancement products like pills are taken just like vitamin supplements. Applied products like patches are usually stuck onto the lower body and the active ingredients are absorbed into the blood stream.

Traction devices are one of the favorite methods today because they have proved themselves to be so effective and they are probably the best penis enhancement product currently available. This should be number one on your list. They work by stretching the penis along the length for a certain period of time every day. Eventually this encourages it to become permanently longer. Safely.

Secondly, in terms of speed and compatibility I would advise you to also get involved in a daily penis exercise routine. There are some very good ones on offer and the combination of a traction device and exercises give the best overall solution.

Penis enhancement products are not designed to just increase the length otherwise you might think that longer also means thinner! Well this is not the case. All of these products are specially designed to ensure that girth is also increased so that everything is nicely in proportion. Longer and bigger.

As you progress with your chosen program you will find that joining a forum is also very helpful. Lots of other like-minded people will also be asking how do you make your penis larger and discussing it will be very good to keep you focused. You can learn from their experiences and get inspired by their success.

The wise person might look for a package that offers all of these things under one roof (with one price!).

How do you make your penis larger? Come and learn about the best penis enhancement products and learn some revealing Penis Enlargement Facts

posted by batoujitsu on Oct 28

You cannot have sex without using at least one sexual position - that’s obvious, right? Most people, though, tend to use more than one. The average number of positions used per sex “session” is two. That may seem like a really low number, but considering 70% of men ejaculate before they or their are partner are satisfied, it’s not surprising so few positions are able to be used.

The key point that should be noted here, though, is not the number of positions the average couple use, but is instead a much broader principle: Sex, as a physical act, is fundamentally based around the use of different positions. Therefore, they are inherently linked to the performance of the male, each having a different effect on him and each bringing about a varied amount of satisfaction in the female.

Understanding that simple principle allows you, as a man, to latch onto a much more powerful and useable concept: Your sexual performance, arousal containment and general ability to perform impressively in bed can be directly controlled, improved and boosted by the effective choice and use of sex positions. That’s the topic of this article - so let’s wade right in.

The first thing to always bear in mind when you have sex is how each sex position you use will affect your arousal control - that is, your ability to maintain an erection and continue sex without interruptions and without ejaculating too soon. Certain positions, because of the way your body is posed, put stress on your legs, arms or other parts of your body. This stress, caused by maintaining the position while having sex, makes controlling your arousal and holding back from ejaculation much more difficult.

Contrary to popular belief, the missionary position does not offer you much control over your arousal - despite the fact you’re controlling the motion/action of intercourse. This is because, to properly maintain the missionary position, you have to support your body weight using a combination of your arms and legs. You’re essentially propping yourself up.

After a couple of minutes of propping and thrusting, the stress on your body’s muscles has often increased just enough to tip you over the edge, which causes you to suddenly lose control of your arousal levels and ejaculate too soon.

However, this doesn’t mean you should remove the missionary position from your love-making repertoire. What you should do, is simply be aware of the stresses it can cause and the effects those stresses can have on your ability to control your arousal levels. With this knowledge, you can choose to use the missionary position as the first one in your sex session - while you’re most in control and least tired overall.

Let’s take this principle of bodily stress and its resulting negative effects on your performance control further. Positions such as “woman on top” or “reverse woman on top” (her facing away from you, while sitting on you) offer you better control than positions in which you squat down or prop yourself up on an elbow or hand - regardless of the fact that she’s controlling the action.

Therefore, try using them nearer the end of your love-making session, when you’re the most physically fatigued and closest to ejaculating - these are the times when removing the stress caused by certain sex positions can prove crucial in allowing you to avoid premature ejaculation.

Finally, never underestimate the power of the “Spoons” position. “Spoons”, if you don’t already know, involves you lying on your side with your legs slightly bent, with the female pressed against your front, her legs slightly parted, her hips tilted to one side, and her knees bent. This position offers you massive control over your arousal levels. First, because you’re lying down and not forced to maintain an awkward pose (which eliminates the bodily stress principle just described).

Second, because you’re fully in control of the thrusting action, which means you can speed up or decrease the power, depth and frequency of the action. And, if those reasons weren’t enough, you’re in a great position to lean your head over her shoulder, slow down the rhythmic thrust of your hips (and therefore give yourself time to calm your arousal levels), and gently kiss and caress her neck and cheek.

Women love men who take control during sex through the use of different positions. They, however, don’t realise that sex positions give you, as a man, an alternative kind of control - in the form of reliable arousal containment and in the overall improvement of the length and quality of your sexual performance.

Always remember to use sex positions wisely!

For more tips on how to end premature ejaculation, please visit the How To Last Longer Having Sex Blog at http://how-to-last-longer-having-sex.blogspot.com/

posted by guldlock on Oct 26

Options. There are several surgical methods out there to perform phalloplasty and penile enhancement. There’s even a recent breakthrough involving laser tools to improve male cosmetic surgery results. But what are the risks? And what result can you expect? Here’s the story - dig in!

So how much length could really be gained from penile length enhancement through phalloplasty? Well this depends on the anatomy of the patient, but most procedures yield changes of about one to two inches. Unfortunately the outcome of the operations cannot be predicted prior to the actual operation. When it comes penile enlargement circumference can be increase by about 50 percent compared to the penis before surgery. Of course the patient can decide to have less than this number added! After lengthening procedures most surgeons plan a separate second stage fill.

After surgery you will not enjoy a lazy recovery period. No this is the time for training, which you will have to endure for about six months to achieve best phalloplasty results possible out of your male cosmetic surgery. That is right, you committing yourself to training after surgery will have effect on what your surgeon has tried to help you with using his scalpel.

Risks with surgery of this time is similar to that of circumcision; infections, loss of skin, scarring, skin irritation, change of sensation, bleeding. But also loss of penile function may be happen, although a less common problem a very serious one. These risks are important to have in mind. After surgery it is common to experience a variety of problems, some lasting only for a shorter time while others may have to be endured for a longer period after phalloplasty surgery. These symptoms include pain and swelling. It is also advised to avoid sexual activity completely for several weeks after surgery.

Normal price range for phalloplasty of the kind discussed earlier range from $1500 to $6000. Male cosmetic surgery is generally not covered by health insurance policies. From experience of procedures performed this far there is good reason to expect changes from penile enlargement to be permanent. Fat tissue injected will survive long term to the extent of about 80-90 percent of the amount. And since the tissue itself used to be part of your own body there is no risk of graft versus host diseases, and the procedure may be repeated later on to further improve results if considered necessary.

Hopefully this article on phalloplasty and penile enlargement has helped you with your own choice, or just information in general. Remember that even though informing yourself on the net is really good and preparing, nothing can substitute a consultation with a competent and understanding cosmetic surgeon.

Sarah Pauer is a part time writer and also a medical professional. You will find information on male cosmetic surgery nj and phalloplasty and penile enlargement.