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So what do women look for in a guy?

I’ve been getting dozens of e-mails on this topic lately.

There are a gazillion different things that women say they want.

If you try to be everything and anything then you will fail miserably, not to mention the fact that it will take you a very long time time.

So how do you become the guy that women look for?

It’s a lot easier than you think.

Just focus on developing the handful of characteristics that will make you BECOME the guy that women naturally want.

Here are some of them in my experience:

1. Become a renaissance man

It’s time to rediscover and redefine yourself. Here’s a short description I found on the internet. A renaissance man is considered a man at the center of the universe, limitless in his capacities for development.

Do something new every single month. Do something adventurous, dangerous, or exciting and live to talk about it. Pick up a book every two weeks and read it. Make your life an open book. And don’t forget to make it an interesting book.

Make it a routine to continuously be learning.

Boredom is the enemy.

2. Dare to Dream

Another thing that women look for in a guy is ambition.

Ambition is a strong desire to achieve something in life. From experience, I can always tell the people who are ambitious from the ones that aren’t. It’s hard to explain over in text, but it’s sort of like a gut feeling. Lean more toward the energy that they give off.

I think this is one major factor for women who are looking for a commitment. Women crave men who are ambitious. They smell this quality a mile away. There are a lot of ways ambition can be conveyed. The most obvious one is the way one talks about life.

3. Self-assuredness

This is similar to being confident.

This is conveyed with the way you speak and carry yourself. How do you move through the world? Are you afraid to take up space in the world? Or are you comfortable in your own skin? Do you let bad criticisms get to you? Or do you accept them confidently?

A simple test would be a woman giving you a hard time about something you either wear or do, now how do you respond to it? Do you get all offended and convincing her that you’re a cool guy deep down inside? Or do you just accept it with a smile, say “thank you”, and move on to the next topic?

4. Keep em Guessing

Another thing that women look for in a guy is unpredictability.

Unpredictability is the spice of life. Being predictable takes the excitement out of a relationship or interaction. It’s not good to be too unpredictable either. It’s good to create a contrast in your personality. At times be romantic and shower her with attention and the next day treat her like one of your buddies.

It’s fun.

They get all excited when you do this.

5. Assertive, Firm and Strong

Do you assert your wishes on others? Do you make sure that you’ve got everything under control? Do you bargain your way into getting something you really want? Do you take a stand a support it fully?

6. Sex God

It is no secret that women love men that are great in bed. Women are sexual beings just like we are. They enjoy sex as much as we do. Sex releases endorphins and it relaxes the body. Women like men that can give them a wonderful experience. They also like men that know exactly how to press their buttons and provide satisfaction.

These are some of the most important characteristics you should work on to become a guy that women look
for.

Oliver Turner is the author of the book “Daytime Dating Secrets” and has help thousands of men meet more women and get many dates. His dating tips for men will help you become successful with women and dating. Get your free report “How to Meet More Women In Just 21 Days” at
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Erection problems or male impotence, affects about 2 per cent of the male population worldwide. The onset of male impotence may or may not be a symptom of something deeper but it is still a big concern for men who has it.

Why is male impotence such a big deal? The reason is that erection problems pose a threat to a man’s self-esteem. It can also affect relationships with friends, family, colleagues and most bed partners.

What causes erection problems or male impotence ?
Erection problems (or erectile dysfunction) can happen because of emotional or physical issues.

Emotional (psychological) causes

Approximately 30% of men with impotence suffer from psychological factors. For instance, stress, depression and loss of self-worth can affect a man’s ability to get a hard erection. These are not the only psychological factors but are some of the most common ones.

Physical (physiological) causes

70% of men with serious impotence usually has some kind of physical ailment or condition. Some of these are vascular diseases(hardening of arteries), unsuitable prescription drugs and fatigue. If you have such ailments, your blood will find it difficult to flow to the penis chambers. It will also not stay there long enough and in sufficient volume to cause a hard erection.

Most men’s erection problems can either be long-lasting or temporary. Whatever it is, it is an embarrassing issue for those who suffer from male impotence. The good news is that it erection problems can be easily prevented as there are now many different ways to cure male impotence. These cover both medical and non-medical solutions.

What are some methods to treat impotence or erection problems?

Medical cures for male impotence

1) Prescription medication is a common method. This is can be in the form of oral medication or an injection (into the penis). Viagra, for instance, have helped scores of men overcome male impotence but it also comes with nasty side effects like nausea and dizziness. Viagra is also incompatible with certain medications. Note that precription drugs must be taken about an hour before the sex act.

2) Surgery is another “cure” for impotence but this should really be a last resort because it is risky and expensive. Surgery to correct male impotence involves prosthetic implants. This is a pump inserted into the genital area that the user would have to pump before sex. Surgery normally has a long recuperation period.

Non-medical cures male erection problems

1) Therapy - is quite effective in cases of psychological-caused male impotence. It is not so effective physical cases. Therapy is normally carried out by a registered sex therapist or a mental health professional. While it is effective, sex therapy tends to be a long process. Because most men are too embarrassed to talk about their erection problems, this is often not a popular option for them.

2) Penis pumps - can also be used to treat erection problems. By inserting the penis into a tube and using a pump, you can cause an erection to occur. To keep the erection hard, a ring is rolled onto the base of the penis. The pump works but is very cumbersome and must be used each time before sex. It is only a temporary fix and does not address the real problem of male impotence.

3) Herbal erection supplements - perhaps the safest and easiest method is to take herbal erection supplements. These pills are made of plants and herbs chosen for their aphrodisiac properties. These special herbs and plants have been used for centuries in different parts of the world to treat male sexual problems with great success.

Herbal erection supplements are effective and they do not give you any nasty side effects like prescription drugs. Furthermore, you can stop taking them at any time you want without any consequences. The great thing about herbal erection supplements is that they tackle both the physical as well as the psychological factors of male impotence. This is because they increase your libido which will have a beneficial effect on your overall self esteem.

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Many men think that the only way to correct the problem of premature ejaculation is to try harder not to come while having sex with their partners. They’ll grit their teeth, think of their friend’s grandma, count backwards from 1000 - they’ll do whatever they can to distract themselves from the fact that they’re close to climaxing. The truth is, sometimes the best way to extend your sexual performance is to learn techniques that are designed to be used when you aren’t having sex. The “Blast” concept is one such technique.

You should try to perform this whole thing in the shower, because it can be a tad messy. Plus, any noise that’s created is masked by the sound of the falling water. It’s just nicer, to be honest - warm and convenient. It’s also a time that is scheduled in your daily life. So if you have a shower every morning, you can use this technique during it, at the same time every other day. This helps you to avoid forgetting to perform the technique.

Start by getting in the shower. Get lots of very warm eater cascading all over you. This will get your blood rushing through your system, which is good for the next step. Start to massage your penis. Use whatever technique you prefer for getting yourself up, but try to do it fairly quickly. Okay, you’re now going to blast it. Get a massive amount of lube in the palm of your right hand. Step forwards, so you’re not under the stream of the shower. Now grasp your penis using your dominant, lubed up hand and blast it. Jerk it hard and fast, focussing on the head of your penis. Really whack the hell out of it.

It sounds ridiculous, but it works, so what the hell. Keep going crazy on it. Tighten and tense your legs to increase the stimulation and sensations even more. You want to get damn close to coming in as short a space of time as humanly possible. You should be able to do it in less than 60 seconds. But as it’s your first time, don’t worry too much about the clock. As soon as you feel yourself approaching the point of no return, around the 9 mark on a scale of 1-10 of sexual stimulation, instantly stop jerking it. Now, if you struggle to get this close to the edge in under a minute or two, you should try doing the technique out of the shower, while lying on your bed. This way, you’re able to really stretch out your legs, which we all know will help you approach ejaculation quickly.

The point of this exercise is the following. You literally go crazy on your penis in the shortest amount of time possible, until you’re just about to come. This technique “teaches” your penis self-control in a highly effective way. It’s put through its paces in a really short space of time, just like when you have sex. You usually come too quickly. But during this technique, you have much more control. You simulate becoming completely aroused too quickly, then totally back off. You’re doing what you can’t really do when actually having sex - unless your partner is extremely understanding and not easily fazed.

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