Going Bald? There’s Hope, You Have Options; Hang In There


Posted in Men's Issues on September 19th, 2008 by tjmcgowan3

You’re in a bank. It’s Friday afternoon and there’s a long line at the teller’s window, and so you wait. And wait. You’re bored, and can’t wait to get out of there. You look around, and everybody looks like the way you feel. As you look around, something catches your eye.

You notice near the ceiling a round mirror. You look around some more and realize there are several of these mirrors spread throughout the bank. You guess there must be security cameras behind the mirrors.

As you return your glance back to the original mirror, you discover there appears to be a pale flesh-colored round ball resting on the rear top part of your head. You reach up to the top of your head, but feel or see no ball.

You look back up at the mirror. What is that? Is it some kind of security camera light behind the mirror that shines directly at your head? No, that can’t be it. Suddenly, it hits you like a speeding, runaway freight train. You know what the ball is. You’re horrified. Three of the worst words in the dictionary for a guy can now be permanently associated with you -’I'M GOING BALD!’

You become completely depressed. This is happening way too early to you. How did this happen? When did this start? How could you not have realized this earlier? How long have you actually been going bald? Why hasn’t anybody mentioned this to you earlier?

Your brain races to find the answer, but struggles mightily. Your dad had plenty of hair. It got gray, but women seemed to think he looked like Arnold Palmer. Your grandfather had plenty of hair too. It can’t be hereditary.

Well, what is the problem then? Stress? Everybody has got stress. If stress is the problem, you are doomed.
Maybe it could be caused by that cheap shampoo you are using. You vow never to buy another bottle of that shampoo ever again.

You remember a party you were at about a month earlier. You were sitting near a couple of attractive women, a blonde and a brunette, whom you did not know, but now some of the conversation you overheard is now coming back to your memory.

The blonde had said to the brunette, ” I wouldn’t go out with a cueball if he was the last man on earth.” The brunette said, “Why? Some of them are kind of cute.” The blonde replied, ” They do absolutely nothing for me. I’d rather go gay than go cueball.”

You are mortified. Deflated. Defeated. Numb. You are single and you love women, and just want a level playing field, one that gives you a chance. Now, you figure 75-90% of women won’t give you the time of day. The 10 - 25% that still will give you a shot probably look like Ugly Betty, Big Bertha, Elsa Lanchester, or the Wicked Witch of the East.

You assess your options and realize there are only five:
1) Go the toupe route.
2) Go the plug route, one plug at a time.
3) Go the do absolutely nothing route.
4) Go the find current hair-growing products
on the market route.
5) Go the Golden Gate Bridge route.

You quickly eliminate options 1,2, and 5. It’s down to option 3 or 4. You think to yourself, ‘Maybe Ugly Betty wouldn’t be so bad,’ but a voice in the back of your head says, ” You have got to be kidding me, Buckwheat, get serious.” It is then you realize option 4 is the way to go.

You vow to yourself to do your due diligence and learn as much as you can about hair-growing products. After you do your research, you find there are good hair-growing products on the market, and hope returns. It is not the end of the world. Life does go on, even with a draft on the top of your head.

T J McGowan is an American concerned about not only the physical aspect of hair loss, but also the mental anguish of hair loss for both men and women, and offers help for people with these concerns at the following site:
http://babalouie7.allinonehealth.com


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Techniques To Prevent Premature Ejaculation


Posted in Men's Issues on September 19th, 2008 by batoujitsu

One of the main reasons men suffer from premature ejaculation - which simply means reaching orgasm before they ideally want to when they have sex - is because they have a negative mindset. And it’s not surprising when you think about it. Our minds rule our bodies. If we are sad, we cry. If we are happy, we smile and walk confidently. And, yes, if we have the wrong mindset, we guys can climax too early during sex. Here’s how it works.

Let’s take an imaginary guy called James, who reaches orgasm too soon. He knows this and is very, very conscious of the fact that he wishes he could last longer and satisfy himself and his partners more. He’s been sexually active for a few years, it doesn’t really matter how long - the point is, he’s not happy with his performance. Fast forward to a sexual encounter.

Even before foreplay has begun - as soon as the opportunity or chance to have sex has arisen - in the back of his mind is the nagging thought, “This time I’d like to last longer than I have in the past, but will I ejaculate too soon?”. Already, either consciously or subconsciously, his performance is tainted with negative emotion. It’s providing extra pressure he really doesn’t need. Before sex he was thinking about foreplay, during foreplay he’s thinking about how he’s going to satisfy the female, and all the while at the back of his mind overshadowing his thoughts is that question, “Am I going to ejaculate too soon?”.

This technique focuses on bringing you into the present and avoiding the negative emotion that’s brought on by thinking about what has happened in the past, or what might happen the next time you have sex.

Totally aside from sex, you can witness how we operate on auto-pilot. Everyday, we’re taking ourselves out of the present and into the future when we really don’t need to. Walking down the street you’re thinking of work, at work you’re thinking about sex, during sex…well, we know what you’re thinking about during sex. The point is, to fully relax and focus and enjoy sex for long periods, you need to be in the present. Inadvertently thinking about what might happen - ejaculating too soon - takes your focus off what is actually happening: you’re moving up the stimulation scale. This in turn hampers your ability to identify how close you are to an orgasm, making its prevention impossible.

This technique has one simple goal: to increase your self-awareness and bring you back into the present during sex. It’s used during the plateau stage of sex, the hard part, where keeping control of yourself is the most important and difficult. What you need to do is, every now and then, ask yourself a couple of simple questions in your head. “Do I feel tense or relaxed?” and “How close am I to reaching orgasm?”. It’s really important you say the questions in your head and not just “think” them. Actually say each word.

The first question uses a simple psychological principle to relax you and bring you into the situation at hand. If, after asking yourself if you feel tense, you notice your shoulders are tight, or that you’re tensing your stomach when it’s not necessary, you don’t need to think of what to do next. Your shoulders automatically drop and your tense mid-section relaxes.

Asking yourself the second question, “How close am I to reaching orgasm?” is something you should be doing throughout sex - identifying where you are on the stimulation scale. This brings you into the present and focuses you, but actually saying the question in your head once in a while is doubly effective!

For more techniques to prevent premature ejaculation, please visit the How To Last Longer Having Sex Blog at http://how-to-last-longer-having-sex.blogspot.com/


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Some Facts On Penis Growth Pills They Don’t Want You To Know


Posted in Men's Issues on September 19th, 2008 by clickshop

There are so many methods that you can do to make your penis grow bigger and penis growth pills is one of the many hyped up options. When we talk about such penis pills, it is not only limited to a small scale of companies rather, it is a very big scale that we have to consider since a lot of them are now manufacturing these pills for the public’s use.

Most of these pills are composed of herbal ingredients that will make your testosterone multiply, thus increasing your libido and then hard erection will likely to happen. Actually, the term “penis growth pill” is a misnomer in that no pill, on its own, can ever make your penis grow. They can harden your erections and be good for your overall sexual health but beyond that, you need to so something extra.

So what can these so-called “penis growth pills” do for you? Here are some benefits you can look forward to :-

1. They can help strengthen your erections because of better blood flow. Containing ancient herbs that are long thought to be aphrodisiac for men, these pills nourish your sexual system for long term benefits.

2. They can increase your semen and sperm production. Many men have experienced an increase in semen and sperm output due to their intake of these pills. In fact, nowadays, even urologists recommend such pills to their clients who want to increase your chances of being a father.

3. They are good for your prostate . The prostate is a very important male organ which produces an alkaline substance that makes up the largest part of the seminal reproductive fluid (or semen). Some men have prostate problems (like cancer) in later life due to poor prostate health so it is important to take care of your prostate health.
4. They are good for your libido. The herbal ingredients are known to increase a man’s sex drive or libido.

Although such pills by themselves cannot give you a bigger penis, they are very helpful when used in conjunction with enlarging exercises and/or a penile stretcher. Just think of a body builder who needs both his protein pills as well as his bench presses and you will see the parallel here.

Having cleared up what such penis pills can or cannot do, it is time to decide whether you want to invest in them. If your sex life needs a helping hand, then you may want to consider them. Just remember to do your own research or due diligence before spending a dime on these penis growth pills.

Need more info? Then check out the #1 rated penis growth pill with exercises today - ProSolution Pills . Or read this review of the best penis pills on the market now .


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