Men Tips

posted by grungey10 on Sep 30

So what do women look for in a guy?

I’ve been getting dozens of e-mails on this topic lately.

There are a gazillion different things that women say they want.

If you try to be everything and anything then you will fail miserably, not to mention the fact that it will take you a very long time time.

So how do you become the guy that women look for?

It’s a lot easier than you think.

Just focus on developing the handful of characteristics that will make you BECOME the guy that women naturally want.

Here are some of them in my experience:

1. Become a renaissance man

It’s time to rediscover and redefine yourself. Here’s a short description I found on the internet. A renaissance man is considered a man at the center of the universe, limitless in his capacities for development.

Do something new every single month. Do something adventurous, dangerous, or exciting and live to talk about it. Pick up a book every two weeks and read it. Make your life an open book. And don’t forget to make it an interesting book.

Make it a routine to continuously be learning.

Boredom is the enemy.

2. Dare to Dream

Another thing that women look for in a guy is ambition.

Ambition is a strong desire to achieve something in life. From experience, I can always tell the people who are ambitious from the ones that aren’t. It’s hard to explain over in text, but it’s sort of like a gut feeling. Lean more toward the energy that they give off.

I think this is one major factor for women who are looking for a commitment. Women crave men who are ambitious. They smell this quality a mile away. There are a lot of ways ambition can be conveyed. The most obvious one is the way one talks about life.

3. Self-assuredness

This is similar to being confident.

This is conveyed with the way you speak and carry yourself. How do you move through the world? Are you afraid to take up space in the world? Or are you comfortable in your own skin? Do you let bad criticisms get to you? Or do you accept them confidently?

A simple test would be a woman giving you a hard time about something you either wear or do, now how do you respond to it? Do you get all offended and convincing her that you’re a cool guy deep down inside? Or do you just accept it with a smile, say “thank you”, and move on to the next topic?

4. Keep em Guessing

Another thing that women look for in a guy is unpredictability.

Unpredictability is the spice of life. Being predictable takes the excitement out of a relationship or interaction. It’s not good to be too unpredictable either. It’s good to create a contrast in your personality. At times be romantic and shower her with attention and the next day treat her like one of your buddies.

It’s fun.

They get all excited when you do this.

5. Assertive, Firm and Strong

Do you assert your wishes on others? Do you make sure that you’ve got everything under control? Do you bargain your way into getting something you really want? Do you take a stand a support it fully?

6. Sex God

It is no secret that women love men that are great in bed. Women are sexual beings just like we are. They enjoy sex as much as we do. Sex releases endorphins and it relaxes the body. Women like men that can give them a wonderful experience. They also like men that know exactly how to press their buttons and provide satisfaction.

These are some of the most important characteristics you should work on to become a guy that women look
for.

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posted by clickshop on Sep 30

Erection problems or male impotence, affects about 2 per cent of the male population worldwide. The onset of male impotence may or may not be a symptom of something deeper but it is still a big concern for men who has it.

Why is male impotence such a big deal? The reason is that erection problems pose a threat to a man’s self-esteem. It can also affect relationships with friends, family, colleagues and most bed partners.

What causes erection problems or male impotence ?
Erection problems (or erectile dysfunction) can happen because of emotional or physical issues.

Emotional (psychological) causes

Approximately 30% of men with impotence suffer from psychological factors. For instance, stress, depression and loss of self-worth can affect a man’s ability to get a hard erection. These are not the only psychological factors but are some of the most common ones.

Physical (physiological) causes

70% of men with serious impotence usually has some kind of physical ailment or condition. Some of these are vascular diseases(hardening of arteries), unsuitable prescription drugs and fatigue. If you have such ailments, your blood will find it difficult to flow to the penis chambers. It will also not stay there long enough and in sufficient volume to cause a hard erection.

Most men’s erection problems can either be long-lasting or temporary. Whatever it is, it is an embarrassing issue for those who suffer from male impotence. The good news is that it erection problems can be easily prevented as there are now many different ways to cure male impotence. These cover both medical and non-medical solutions.

What are some methods to treat impotence or erection problems?

Medical cures for male impotence

1) Prescription medication is a common method. This is can be in the form of oral medication or an injection (into the penis). Viagra, for instance, have helped scores of men overcome male impotence but it also comes with nasty side effects like nausea and dizziness. Viagra is also incompatible with certain medications. Note that precription drugs must be taken about an hour before the sex act.

2) Surgery is another “cure” for impotence but this should really be a last resort because it is risky and expensive. Surgery to correct male impotence involves prosthetic implants. This is a pump inserted into the genital area that the user would have to pump before sex. Surgery normally has a long recuperation period.

Non-medical cures male erection problems

1) Therapy - is quite effective in cases of psychological-caused male impotence. It is not so effective physical cases. Therapy is normally carried out by a registered sex therapist or a mental health professional. While it is effective, sex therapy tends to be a long process. Because most men are too embarrassed to talk about their erection problems, this is often not a popular option for them.

2) Penis pumps - can also be used to treat erection problems. By inserting the penis into a tube and using a pump, you can cause an erection to occur. To keep the erection hard, a ring is rolled onto the base of the penis. The pump works but is very cumbersome and must be used each time before sex. It is only a temporary fix and does not address the real problem of male impotence.

3) Herbal erection supplements - perhaps the safest and easiest method is to take herbal erection supplements. These pills are made of plants and herbs chosen for their aphrodisiac properties. These special herbs and plants have been used for centuries in different parts of the world to treat male sexual problems with great success.

Herbal erection supplements are effective and they do not give you any nasty side effects like prescription drugs. Furthermore, you can stop taking them at any time you want without any consequences. The great thing about herbal erection supplements is that they tackle both the physical as well as the psychological factors of male impotence. This is because they increase your libido which will have a beneficial effect on your overall self esteem.

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posted by batoujitsu on Sep 30

Many men think that the only way to correct the problem of premature ejaculation is to try harder not to come while having sex with their partners. They’ll grit their teeth, think of their friend’s grandma, count backwards from 1000 - they’ll do whatever they can to distract themselves from the fact that they’re close to climaxing. The truth is, sometimes the best way to extend your sexual performance is to learn techniques that are designed to be used when you aren’t having sex. The “Blast” concept is one such technique.

You should try to perform this whole thing in the shower, because it can be a tad messy. Plus, any noise that’s created is masked by the sound of the falling water. It’s just nicer, to be honest - warm and convenient. It’s also a time that is scheduled in your daily life. So if you have a shower every morning, you can use this technique during it, at the same time every other day. This helps you to avoid forgetting to perform the technique.

Start by getting in the shower. Get lots of very warm eater cascading all over you. This will get your blood rushing through your system, which is good for the next step. Start to massage your penis. Use whatever technique you prefer for getting yourself up, but try to do it fairly quickly. Okay, you’re now going to blast it. Get a massive amount of lube in the palm of your right hand. Step forwards, so you’re not under the stream of the shower. Now grasp your penis using your dominant, lubed up hand and blast it. Jerk it hard and fast, focussing on the head of your penis. Really whack the hell out of it.

It sounds ridiculous, but it works, so what the hell. Keep going crazy on it. Tighten and tense your legs to increase the stimulation and sensations even more. You want to get damn close to coming in as short a space of time as humanly possible. You should be able to do it in less than 60 seconds. But as it’s your first time, don’t worry too much about the clock. As soon as you feel yourself approaching the point of no return, around the 9 mark on a scale of 1-10 of sexual stimulation, instantly stop jerking it. Now, if you struggle to get this close to the edge in under a minute or two, you should try doing the technique out of the shower, while lying on your bed. This way, you’re able to really stretch out your legs, which we all know will help you approach ejaculation quickly.

The point of this exercise is the following. You literally go crazy on your penis in the shortest amount of time possible, until you’re just about to come. This technique “teaches” your penis self-control in a highly effective way. It’s put through its paces in a really short space of time, just like when you have sex. You usually come too quickly. But during this technique, you have much more control. You simulate becoming completely aroused too quickly, then totally back off. You’re doing what you can’t really do when actually having sex - unless your partner is extremely understanding and not easily fazed.

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posted by nplayfoot on Sep 29

Penis extenders are one option in the highly competitive natural male enhancement market. Penis extenders maybe the right option for you as penis extenders over a course of several months naturally extend the size of the penis in both the length and even girth. There are several options in this fast growing market and choosing the right one for you maybe difficult.

To help men everywhere rigorous testing took place on the most popular and successful penis extenders in the male enhancement market. The testing was thorough and involved several testers who over a four month period participated and filled in detailed records of their experiences and the results of four months of use of their penis extenders.

Each penis extender after the four month period was given a score out of hundred that took into account such parameters as ease of use, comfort when wearing the penis extending device to the most important reason for wearing the penis extender originally and that is o bring about an increase in penis size.

The results were fascinating some of the high end penis extenders that retailed at over $1000 dollars didn’t even come in the top three. The third place penis extender was one of the cheapest penis extenders on the market.

The Euro Extender SE (Special Edition)
Score 74/100

The Euro Extender comes in a variety of models but the best value for money was the Euro Extender Special Edition. It uses super silicone straps as a patented method of traction and has won awards for it design.

Testers found this penis stretcher to be easy to use. After the first couple of days it was commented on as hassle free part of the testers’ daily routine. The specially designed ring of plastic is placed around the base of the penis and a plastic and silicone holder is fastened around the penis head.

Then between the ring of plastic and the holder two metal rods are attached applying tension of between 1.5 and 3.5 lbs. The whole apparatus was easily adjustable to suit anyone’s needs and painless to increase as your penis extends through the use of this male enhancement product.

The Euro Extender SE works by the principle that if a certain part of the body is exposed to a constant, permanent stretch, the cells in this area begin to divide and multiply, thus increasing the tissue mass. The enlargement will consequently happen in both the length and width (girth) of the penis.

The Euro Extender SE can be worn day or night for as long or short periods as you feel comfortable (though for minimum of two hours a day is recommended). The testers wore the penis stretcher for 10 hours a day for four months.

The Euro Extender Special Edition offers great results and all the testers who used it were truly impressed by the results. In conclusion the Euro Extender Special Edition was successful in increasing both penis length and girth.

The second best penis extender is:-

The X4 Starter Kit
Score 82/100

The X4 Extender is one of the cheapest penis extenders on the market.Testers were simply amazed by this bit of kit. There is a X4 Gold Edition comes in several different options but the basic option proved as succesful in trials as more expensive options. It offers comfort and support and from the first use and is easy to put on and felt comfortable to wear. Testers remarked that he often forgot that he had the penis extender on!

With the second most effective penis extension device on the market, X4 Labs competitive advantage is their ability to provide unequivocal support and help users with their treatment programs. Each client is recognized and treated as a patient ensuring the most efficient treatment program available. The purchase of the X4 Labs wasn’t the end of the company’s involvement in ensuring the best results for you.

With a variety of men, regardless of social standing or walk of life, experiencing penile physical and psychological issues; the X4 Labs Penis Enlarger at an affordable price allows the product to be in the reach of all men. X4 Labs state of the art product is engineered to medical standards using all medical grade materials.

Participants found this product to give superior results from one of the cheapest priced penis extenders on the market with every tester said that they were satisfied with their results.

The X4 Starter Kit retails led to upto a 1.5 inch improvement in penis length of tester and was also successful in increasing girth of the entire test group (please note that most women find girth more important than length when looking the perfect penis).

Now For The Best Penis Extender On The Market
The Andropenis
Score 92/100

After the four month study the Andropenis was still working. The treatment can take up to 8 months. It was the highest scoring in testing in the comforts stakes with some of the testers using it for up to 12 hours a day (although this isn’t recommended they forgot they were wearing the Andropenis).

The Andropenis is a traction device used to enlarge the penis. This enlargement in penis size occurs due to the reaction capacity of tissues of the male member to experience cellular multiplication when they are subjected to a continuous force of traction (in other words using gentle force to pull the penis the Andropenis leads to an overall increase in penis size).

The principle of traction is used in plastic surgery for tissue expansion. The regeneration of new tissue is used to cover cutaneous defects, burns, and areas of hair loss. It is also used in orthopaedic surgery to enlarge the length of bones and phalanges.

In ancient cultures this principle of traction is used to enlarge different parts of the body, like the neck of the Giraffe women of the Paduang tribe in Burma, or the lips and ears of other African and Amazonian tribes. They attach prothesises or weights for elongation.

Forget about the science you should see the results. After one tester had finished the whole course (8 months) found his penis was 1.7 inches longer than previous. This has been a delight to his wife who loves the feel of my extra length and girth.

If you don’t believe the results then the makers of Andropenis offer three guarantees.

-A medical guarantee
Since it is approved by the Health Authorities of the European Union, and is registered at the Spanish Ministry of Health. It holds the CE Certification that classifies it as a Type 1 medical device, which excludes any side effect, both on the short and on the long term.

-A guarantee based on results.
If in 2 months you cannot get used to the device or the treatment, you do not like it or you have no satisfactory result, you will get your money back excluding expenses.

-A Scientific Guarantee
Since very prestigious urologists at the international level have carried out scientific studies that prove an effectiveness of 97.5% in all testing.

In conclusion

After looking into the Andropenis which has been a popular penis extender in Eastern Europe but is now finding a large following in the West it is found to be such a favourite for comfort and the overall increase in girth and length with less than 2% men who purchase the Andropenis looking for their money back.

The feed-back from men of all walks of life, every age, colour and background has been very positive. with many men’s partners saying positive comments for giving their men confidence in the bedroom and the women greater satisfaction.

Overall

There are so many different male enhancement options on the market it is hard to choose the right one for you. Penis extenders off the wearer a chance to over the course of a period of months to safely under go penis enlargement that is both safe and also provides life long results.

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posted by brianwelsch on Sep 29

Alcohol in this article pertains to the beverage that is often consumed by people as a social drink or a drink to drown sorrows in. There are many beverages that have different degrees of alcohol, ranging from the light alcohol drink to the drinks that can really do some damage to one’s body when drunk frequently. The impression of alcohol and impotence for many people is often not seen because many presume that alcohol causes the heart to pump faster and enhance one’s performance in bed.

In fact, there are many studies that show the positive effects of alcohol to the body. These studies that show the positive effects of alcohol may have omitted to state that consuming small amounts of alcohol can achieve the desired effects such as a healthy heart and better blood circulation. The amount of alcohol needed to achieve the desired results is equivalent to just a small wineglass of wine daily, not every for every meal. Alcohol in excess of this amount will not improve the condition of the heart nor bring more of the desired results.

Impotence, otherwise known as erectile dysfunction, is the inability of a man to maintain or achieve an erection long enough for successful intercourse. There are actually many different causes of this condition and one belief is that consumption of alcohol has an effect on one’s se drive or performance in bed. Alcohol and impotence are connected to each other through the reactions that our body has to alcohol, which is to say that different people react at different rates to substances introduced to our body.

Alcohol And Impotence: The Connection

The reality of alcohol and impotence is that alcohol does release the inhibitions of a person, thus peaking his sexual desire and loosening many inhibitions to the extent of being frank and aggressive. On the other hand, our body reacts to too much alcohol consumption by relaxing the muscles and tissues as well as other parts of the body. This fact highlights the connection between alcohol and impotence. Thus alcohol and impotence are very real factors to the performance of a person with regards to his or her sex life.

The question now is if the effect of frequent and prolonged alcohol consumption does deliver impotence. Studies show that long term and frequent alcohol consumption can indeed result to impotence even when the man is sober. This is due mainly to the damage that alcohol can wreak on the nervous system as well as the reduction of physical and mental health of an alcoholic.

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