Archive for July, 2008

posted by paid_survey on Jul 25

I know that many men have a hard time meeting the perfect woman. In my case I had a picture in my mind for a long time about my perfect woman. By letting the universe work out the details I was finally able to match a real woman to this picture. You may want to try doing the same. Of course when I met the lady of my dreams it was in Thailand. Let me tell you why Thai women can make the perfect brides for western men.

As you may or may not know, Thai women are very accepting and laid back, have gracious personalities and are quite relaxed about most everything. This is just the way Thai culture is, thanks to their Buddhist tempered teachings they live with a very simple and uncluttered attitude towards life. They enjoy life and try to live in the present in all ways.

Because of this simple approach to life Thai’s have a way of making everyone around them feel relaxed too and it’s no surprise that Thailand is known as the Land of Smiles. Better yet, many Thai ladies and Thai girls really want to meet and form relationships with western men. To Thai girls we are seen as mysterious, exotic and fascinating. Add to that the fact that Thai’s prize white skin very highly and you’ll find that it’s easy as pie to meet a Thai girl.

I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve had these beautiful Thai girls approach me and want to learn more about me. They are very straightforward and open and if you’re not careful you may find yourself overwhelmed. It’s really amazing even after over a dozen trips and countless months spent in Thailand it never ceases to amaze me.

Even though I am married, when we go out with my wife’s friends it’s inevitable that I get asked which girl in the group I prefer. Even my wife wants to know! It’s amazing that they are so open and unselfconscious about discussing this especially with what we men are used to from western ladies.

If you begin talking with some Thai ladies you’ll soon see exactly what I mean about their attraction to western men. And by going to visit Thailand you can see it for yourself first hand. It will be a huge awakening for you to what exists outside your own sheltered world at home, trust me. And trust me too when I tell you that it’s easier than you think to meet a beautiful, gracious and sensitive Thai woman.

You can learn more about meeting and dating thai girls at the authors blog. He also shares what he’s learned about Thai dating and Thai love over the past decade.

posted by infomktjv on Jul 21

Men are most definitely the “fixers.” Women tend to want to change men and men tend to want to “fix” women. From a distance, it is actually almost comical. However, if both partners back up a minute, stop fixing and changing and trying to manipulate all these grand little changes they would rather see, so much more productive time would come out of even the bad moments.

If you believe that you can fix you partner’s problems then you most definitely think you have the power of super human capabilities. You just can’t. Not really. You might have the power to make it better for awhile or tolerable, but you really do not have the power to change the world to make your partner happy. On the flip side, you can’t fix your mate, either. Chances are pretty good that they aren’t even broken. If you are thinking that you can fix them however, you are sending out the message that you believe that they are broken, and this leads to a very unhealthy relationship.

Fixing you partner’s problems or addressing the everyday flaws that we were all saddled with is all in the power of the individual. If someone wants to change, they will. If they don’t, well then, good luck. That is human nature and that is the most honest we can be with ourselves. Let’s say your partner is upset. Stop fixing and just listen. Listen with complete attention. Stop multitasking and just listen. Repeat phrases and clarify as necessary to make sure you are really getting it, and then simply ask them what they want to do about it.

If you have been fixing your partner for awhile, your response might not be appreciated the first few times. However, you have the capability to just explain that you feel they are competent enough to find a solution. In just that one moment, you have two incredibly important things in your relationship. You have truly heard what is in your partner’s heart and you have allowed them to take responsibility for their own actions, which makes them so much less victim”like it’s not even funny.

Women do need to have a partner in the house and don’t need to be turned into the house maid. If there is one element that you really can fix it is helping her out more so that she can put a higher priority on things outside of housework and chores. For men, there will always be a battle of the sexes when it comes to doing chores.

Men haven’t been nurtured in their youth to be the most obsessive home makers. But what matters is the way you both feel at the end of the day. And I can attest personally to the fact that if you help out instead of “fixing” there is more time and more energy left when it is time for the lights to go out. That usually means that there is more time for a little fun at bed time.

The best relationships out there are ones that are based on mutual respect. When partners respect both the spoken word and the home front tasks, couples tend to be able to really communicate better and live together better than ever before. Long gone are the happy home maker days and here are the new age equality days.

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posted by bpt123 on Jul 19

You are among millions of men that have the desire to make their penises bigger. Male penile enlargement products are widely advertised for purchase through magazines (even the Car & Driver magazine has one!), TV (Enzyte and Smiling Bob), spam e-mails, and of course, the internet.

After reading this article you’ll know how to make your penis bigger naturally at home without the help of these products, although they are highly recommended (more on why below.)

How to Make Your Penis Bigger Naturally

They call it the ‘Ultimate penis enlargement exercise.’ It has been used for centuries by tribesmen. Now it’s one of the most popular penis enlargement exercises to both thicken and lengthen the penis.

It is the Jelq.

The jelq works by breaking down the blood chamber cells in the penis (which make up most of the size of the penis) and allowing more blood to flow into these cells, which results in a bigger penis.

Below you’ll find how to do this exercise at home.
Keep in mind not to do this every day. Your penis needs rest from exercise and to recover.

Warm-up before the exercise by completely covering the penis using a warm wet towel.

Don’t forget lubrication. Baby Oil, Jojoba oil and any healthy oil product will do fine.

How to Jelq

1. Form an “O” with your thumb and index finger. Start with your right hand.

2. Grip the base of your penis. You’ll need to grip your base with enough pressure so that you feel a little uncomfortable.

3. Start milking towards the head of your penis while maintaining the same grip pressure.

4. Just before you reach the penis head, release the hand and use the other hand to do the exact same motion.

5. Keep alternating hands in this fashion. Make sure you’re always gripping your penis, either with your left or right hand.

6. Perform a total of 50 strokes.

You’ll see amazing results if you do this exercise once every 2 days. Most men are actually surprised this works.

How enlargement pills can help you.

It is true that penis enlargement pills are total scams - when they claim they can help you gain 1-3 inches.

It is physiologically impossible to gain even an inch just by taking pills daily. This is why many Enzyte users complained about the product!

These pills work only if they’re used along exercise programs that physically work the blood chambers in the penis.

Jelqing once every 2 days while taking enlargement pills will help you gain 1 or 2 inches in a few weeks.

Discover how to make your penis bigger at http://www.biggerpenistips.com

posted by bpt123 on Jul 18

Why is this almost-magical herb called horny goat weed?

The legend says that a few thousand years ago, a Chinese goat farmer noticed that his goats became more promiscuous when he fed them a particular herb. This herb was later identified as Epimedium, and it was nicknamed Horny Goat Weed back then.

No matter how it got discovered, horny goat weed is so famous and effective for increasing erectile function among men. It is so popular because it’s a natural alternative to chemical drugs like Viagra, Cialis and Levitra that actually works.

1000s of men have started to use horny goat weed to cure their erection problems due to its cheap prices compared to expensive doses of Viagra.

If you are suffering from lack of erectile function, you probably are thinking of taking an erectile dysfunction drug. Before you move on, below are 3 reasons why you may consider horny goat weed, and why 1000s of other men are changing to horny goat weed.

1. Helps increase testosterone levels naturally

Horny goat weed increases testosterone naturally, which doesn’t just increase your sexual performance and health but also your overall wellness.

Keep in mind those PDE5 inhibitors like Viagra, Cialis and Levitra (and the hundreds of generic versions of the same thing that exist) do not offer the ability to increase your testosterone levels.

Increasing testosterone levels can help you achieve a new level of sexual performance, increased sperm volume and libido.

2. Increases nitric oxide levels

Viagra and other prescription ED drugs take increases in nitric oxide to work. That’s their fundamental mechanism. What horny goat weed does is the same, but without the side effects that are associated with those drugs.

The nitric oxide levels decline as we age; therefore we need to focus on maintaining healthy levels of nitric oxide to keep our erectile function.

3. Boost psychological emotions

You might be surprised to know that a significant number of erectile dysfunction patients suffer from the problem because of psychological reasons.

High levels of stress can cause sex drive to fall, which literally kills erectile function.

The ingredients in horny goat weed products (Epimedium) has been known to elevate mood levels and help your body relax, which allows blood to flow more naturally and increasing erectile function.

Don’t forget there are literally dozens of horny goat weed products that simple don’t work as advertised. Many of these contain “filler ingredients” which are simply useless ingredients used to make up for the weight of the pills, to pass product authenticity regulations.

Discover to boost sexual performance with horny goat weed at http://www.horny-goat-weed-pills.com

posted by dschaefer on Jul 18

What do you see when you look in the mirror in the mornings? A skinny body devoid of all muscle? Do you look like a long distance runner that has not had a good meal in a long time? Are you fed up with the laughs at the beach and pool when you take off your shirt? No worry, you can start making a difference today through a simple, but effective weight lifting program. Follow these steps and you will be on your way to a stronger, more muscular body.

First let’s talk about where you are at now. There are many young men who have a difficult time building their muscles. Sometimes it is due to genetics. Sometimes it is a hormone issue. No matter what the challenge is skinny guys must take a different path to building lean muscle mass. These guys must use a somewhat different weight lifting strategy than those who have been blessed with great genes and can build muscle quickly.

You are doing the right thing by doing your homework on weight lifting and how it can help you make the transition from a skinny pushover to a ripped, muscular stud.

Here are the steps for you to follow to develop that lean muscle mass that will have the ladies lining up to be with you. My friend Vince Delmonte calls them the No-Nonsense Steps to Muscle Building.

GET IN AND GET OUT!

Get in the gym do your workout, then get out. Weight lifting burns a huge amount of calories, so as a muscle-challenged young man you need all the calories you can get. You won’t grow lean muscle if you are constantly burning up your calories. Remember Get In and Get Out; no exceptions!

You need your rest, young man. Muscle growth takes place when you are resting, particularly when you are a very skinny person.

We need to get one thing straight. I am not telling you to become a couch potato between workouts. That would be self-defeating to your plan. You cannot keep doing set after set of grueling weight lifting and expect to build muscles that you will be proud to show off on South Beach.

If you are going to put on serious muscle mass you have to have big workouts with heavier weights. You have to be pushing yourself constantly. You are not strength training here; you are body, or more correctly, you are muscle building. You need to be working to your maximum each and every workout, then get out of the gym and get some rest. Let your muscles recover after you have broken them down.

FOCUS ON COMPOUND LIFTS

As a thin man with understated muscles, you do not need to be doing any exercises that isolate specific muscles. You will have plenty of time to work on those exercises once you have packed on some quality muscle.

So focus on doing compound weight lifting exercises like squats, military press, bench press, deadlifts and rows. These will work several muscles at the same time and give you more return on your invested time. Stay away from doing things like bicep curls, tricep kickbacks, leg extensions, chest flys and other exercises that work specific muscles. These isolation exercises take time and burn lots of calories that skinny guys cannot afford to burn.

Build your bulk first, then you will have plenty of mass to chisel into that neatly-defined hunk of a man you want to be. Focus on a full body workout program and steer clear of the five-day split programs. With this plan, you will begin to see new muscle mass developing all over your body in a few months.

LIMIT YOUR CARDIO WORK

What? Limit cardio work?

I know you do not want to become fat, but that is really not something you need to be concerned about with your high-metabolism, skinny body. Cardio burns far too many calories that you need to use to build solid muscle. Doing cardio exercises is not going to help you acomplish your ultimate goal of growing your muscle mass.

It is fine to do some cardio work to maintain your overall fitness, but limit it to a few twenty minute workouts each week. You are not training for a marathon here, so your cardio workouts need to light to moderate in intensity. Use your hard-core intensity in the the weight room only.

By the way, the main problem most overweight people have has nothing to do with their lack of cardio exrecise, but has everything to do with their poor eating habits. So if you eat a healthy, well-balanced diet and become a beast in the weight room you will not have to worry about becoming fat. Muscle, baby, that is the name of game!

GET PLENTY OF REST

So far, you have learned how to get your muscle- building machine going; you know what you need to work on in the gym and you know what to avoid, now you need to rest. Those intense workouts and the proper nutition are going to pay huge dividends, but ONLY if you give your body time to recover.

You have to get lots of quality sleep to allow for your muscles to repair and rebuild themselves. You do not want to do all of that work in the gym and not get the full results you expect. Rest is truly the key to building solid muscle mass. Remember you tear down the muscle in the weight room so it can rebuild itself bigger and better than before.

You do not have to say goodbye to your social life completely, but too much late night drinking and partying will undermine your muscle-building efforts very quickly. Simply put, you need your rest young man, so chill out and go to sleep to wake up with bulging muscles. Okay, it is not that easy, but the rest is an important part of the process.

PROPER TECHNIQUE MATTERS

We have all seen the guys in the gym slinging their barbells up and down, backwards and forwards using the momentum of the weight to get it above his head or to his side. That will not get you anything, but a bad back and deflated mental attitude when the results do not come.

Technique in weightlifting really matters. Having proper form will get you measurable gains faster and help you to avoid injuries. No form; No results! If you are not sure what the proper form for each exercise is you need to find a good weight training book or seek advice from an experienced trainer who can help you.

And that leads me to my final point.

FIND A MENTOR

Going from a skinny kid who gets pushed around a lot to a totally ripped hard-body takes time, effort and focus. You probably are going to need someone to guide you that has been where you are now and has accomplished what you want to do. A mentor can make the process easier and more productive.

When I was a skinny little guy I did not want another skinny cardio geek trying to tell me how to build serious muscle mass. What did he know about muscle building? His body was devoid of muscle from what I could tell.

I found a buff hard-body guy that understood what I was going through and really wanted to help me. My mentor helped me to stay focused and motivated during those days I was trying to avoid working out.

He challenged me and showed me things that I would have never have know without his guidance. A mentor who is an experienced, muscle-building gym rat will save you lots of time and effort in your process to get that ripped body.

Put that skinny, muscle-less body behind you by taking some very simple, but effective steps. Get in the gym, workout hard by doing compound lifts and using proper technique. Limit your cardio work so you do not burn precious calories, then get out of the gym. Rest those hard worked muscles by getting lots of quality sleep. And maximize your results by finding a mentor who has been there and done that.

Following these steps over the next few months will having you looking into the mirror to see a ripped, well-muscled physique looking back at you.

Deborah Schaefer is the publisher of http://MassiveMuscleBuilding.smmsite.com
Growing up extremely skinny herself, Deborah has been inspired to help others build lean muscle mass drug and supplement free through weightlifting and proper diet.