Archive for June 3rd, 2008

posted by redgsr on Jun 3

Once thought of as a taboo to discuss outside of the bedroom, impotence is a problem that appears to be growing according to recent studies. In recent years more and more reports have flooded in from men who now feel comfortable with talking to their doctors. Male impotence, also known as erectile dysfunction or ED has been given the spotlight during the end of the last century since the FDA approved the Pfizer produced pill Viagra in 1998.

Other pills including Cialis and Levitra have given men even more quick options to deal with this once untreatable problem. Once the media picked up on these often called wonder pills, impotence quickly became a hot topic of conversation. No more was it a punch line to a bad joke as it had been in the past.

Men began to pour into their doctor’s offices around the world confiding their own personal battles with impotence. Since then there has been much learned and we can now medically state some of the most common causes. The question men want to know most of all is what can I do?

What we know for sure is that there can be any number of reasons as to why a man suffers from impotency. This can make diagnosis extremely difficult and self diagnosis nearly impossible. One of the main problems that men tend to have is being open enough to even admit that there is a problem in the first place. Consider for a moment the effects impotence may have on the often large male ego.

It can be devastating to say the least and many men tend to suffer alone rather than face perceived ridicule. This is why reports have grown, not because male impotence is a new phenomenon but because men can now feel more confident in telling their doctors. Unfortunately not all men can muster the strength to face impotency. In some cases this problem is even kept from their own worried spouses. In a society where boys don’t cry and size matters, can you really blame them though?

Anyone suffering impotence should seek medical advice as soon as possible because it could be a sign of a more serious problem. High blood pressure is a common cause as is prostate cancer for instance. Ignoring it could be a matter of life and death in some extreme cases. If you are already attending counseling you may want to speak with them about it.

Since there is already a level of discretion established you shouldn’t feel awkward in getting their advice. They may be able to recommend someone for you to see that could give you a more detailed opinion. Even though we know more about impotence than we have ever known the problem can’t be cured unless it’s reported. The answer may be as simple as a prescription of Cialis or may result in a treatment of another unknown aliment.

Regardless a visit to the doctor is the best way to go in determining what needs to be done. Don’t be stubborn and let this common problem continue to affect your life. You are not alone and treatments are available, but only through a qualified professional.

There are several pills that can combat your impotence problem such as Viagra, Cialis and Levitra.

posted by infomktjv on Jun 3

Men and women have some very obvious differences. In fact, many men and women are so different that they can’t even list five things that they have in common or react to the same way. In so many cases, we fail to see the actual physiological differences that play a decisive role in creating the issues between men and women.

One of the greatest physiological differences between men and women is the brain. We are actually so different from each other that it shows up on tests that measure brain activity and brain function. Women have the innate capacity to use both sides of the brain at the same time while men are restricted to using only one side at a time. This means that men tend to try to solve problems from one angle or the other (either verbally or via problem solving) but never at the same time.

This is in part why men like to try to just fix things, because if it is a problem that can be solved, his brain is actually telling him that’s the next best step. Women are more likely to try to ‘fix the problem’ while using verbal skills at the same time to try to emotionally understand the problem. It is absolutely fascinating to watch a man and a woman try to work through the same scenario in their own unique ways.

Men tend to look for the ‘right’ answer while women tend to want to go through an emotional process in order to arrive at an answer that works. In many cases, men and women have the exact same capacity for working out a problem, they just do it in ways that are so different from each other that they get stuck on the other’s process when trying to work it out together. Men would probably argue less if they just allowed women to go through their emotional process and come to a good conclusion while women would probably serve the situation better if they allowed men to see how they could fix it right. Two different methods have the same ability to end up at the identical conclusion.

When men and women fight and argue, often the woman becomes emotional and the man sees this as manipulative. It’s not cool to make her cry, right? However, if men could recognize that women are actually programmed to work through their feelings while solving a problem then they could eliminate the need to become defensive about her emotional reaction. Tears and angry behavior doesn’t indicate failure on your part. It indicates that her brain works differently and society has taught her she is allowed to her emotions. It is unfair of you to expect the same behavior out of her that you would deliver. Besides, it’s not her fault that society has told you not to have emotions.

As more biological testing becomes available, the differences between men and women are going to be reflected in much larger ways. Perhaps some day we will all be able to purchase the guidebook to the physiological differences of the opposite gender. This information is not yet available and won’t be for some time, but at least being able to acknowledge that the different styles of working through problems are not an intentional effort to annoy you should cut down on some of the arguing.

The real truth of the matter is that the differences between men and women are actually helpful. Our biological material comes from an inherent cultural need for survival in a prehistoric environment. Our lives have changed but our biological make up hasn’t changed with our technology. We can carry these differences into the twenty first century as a method of solving problems faster with less conflict. However, this dream starts with understanding the differences between the genders and making it clear that each gender has a strength and a weakness. Coming together to solve issues can actually be a great learning and living experience that bring us so much closer to each other.

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