Men Tips

Men have a lot of conflicting opinions these days when it comes to giving women compliments. Some men love to flatter women about their beauty and cant understand why it never creates attraction. Other men become bitter because women don’t jump into their arms when they tell her she’s beautiful. Even more guys don’t give women compliments in an effort to differentiate themselves from other men who have hit on her. What if I told you their all right and all wrong at the same time?

If that last statement confuses you, you have a problem. Think about how many times women hear guys say, “you are beautiful” in their lifetime. This compliment means nothing to them; in fact, beautiful women hear this so often they may become annoyed. The problem is three fold, first she hears the typical compliments from every other guy she meets, two, complimenting a women on her looks often comes across as needy and desperate, and last but certainly not least, women want to feel they are desirable for something else other than their looks.

Luckily for you we are not just presenting the problem here, but the solution as well. We are men and of course we adore women above almost all else. Some times it can be difficult not to tell a women she’s amazing in one respect or another. You can give a woman a compliment but the catch is that you can compliment her on almost anything other than her looks. The attitude you should have about women is that beauty is a common thing, what make a woman worthy of your praise are her qualities as an individual.

To make this concept a little easier for you we can cover a few ideas. A woman hears she is beautiful constantly but how many men do you think have complimented her on her style or being well dressed? Not many if any men have said to her “I like your style” or “I think you’re the best dressed women here.” Just remember to stay away from complimenting specific items she is wearing because she may think your gay. Some other examples of great compliments are her energy or attitude, her sense of humor or quick wit, her taste in music, movie, etc., and how she carries herself.

You should see that these are genuine compliments about who she is as an individual. This kind of complement will make her feel good the way you intended. You will also notice that it takes more observation and true appreciation on your part. Are you up to it?

Now there is one last thing to remember when complimenting any women. Your delivery is just as important as the words themselves. Most men sound insecure or in ah of a women when they compliment her, often looking at her like a puppy dog begging for a treat. Your compliments should be delivered in a matter of fact kind of tone. This means you are simply expressing an observation and you are indifferent as to how she reacts to your comment. This will communicate an attitude of confidence and security with yourself.

As you can see it is possible to make women feel good by complimenting them without looking needy or shallow. As with many aspects of our interactions with women the underlying attitude or context of the interaction is more important than the exact words you use. So keep reading and learning through experience.

This article and many others is from the article archives of a periodical dedicated to improving men’s dating and sex lives, with knowledge from the worlds top experts atwww.gentlemansdossier.com

Most men work up an anxiety when approaching a woman.

Once you know what works and what doesn’t, you will find that your anxiety will drop and success is on the way.

Ask yourself how many women that you have targeted to become your date that ultimately becomes your friend? Sometimes it seems that the harder you try, the more they are repelled from you.

If you believe that one day all of a sudden, a beautiful woman will just drop in your arms, it’s just a dream, that’s it! Nothing but a dream! You must take action to make things happen; it doesn’t just happen on its own.

Ask yourself if you’re a man who has the right attitude? What are your reactions around women?

From speaking to hundreds of men, I have found that being a nice guy doesn’t always work, because the woman you were trying to attract ends up being just your friend. However, having said that, you don’t have to become a bastard as well.

You must realize that you must add the Mr Nice guy with what she is ultimately seeking, whether it is romance, sexiness, playfulness, excitement, or eroticism. This you must find out. Period.

So don’t give up on being Mr Nice just because it hasn’t yielded the results you desire. You just need to find out what are the needs of that particular woman you are trying to attract and meet those needs.

This does not mean that you become someone that you are not and then feel very uncomfortable about it. What it does mean is stepping up and becoming a bigger person than what you have been in the past. A kind of self improvement if it may.

To successfully date, you must put your best foot forward if you desire the results. Doing things differently than you may have in the past does not mean that you are not true to yourself. Some may say ‘this is who I am, if she doesn’t like it, then so be it’. Ask yourself, if you were looking in as a third party, would you go out with yourself? Don’t ever feel that you are manipulating and being someone that you’re not, all you are doing is improving yourself.

Think about the woman who tries to attract men everyday. They always try to look there best by applying a face full of make up, with their nails done etc. I’m sure that they don’t do this if they were just going to spend a night at home by themselves would they? They are not being deceptive or trying to become another person, all they are doing is trying to show the best of themselves to others.

Men should also do the same. There is no shame in improving yourself and showing the best you have to offer.

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