Men Tips

posted by infomktjv on May 20

Men are very direct. Men say what they mean, and mean what they say. Women are the polar opposites. Women are very indirect in both their actions and words.

Thus I have seen some men be very direct in their flirting. They go up to the women they would like to date and blurt out how beautiful she is and that he would love to have a date with her.

How do you think most women will respond to that? They will think you are not only lame, but shallow. To state that you would like to go out on a date with her the moment you walk up to her without even getting to know each other means you probably want one thing, SEX. This is why most men fail. They treat flirting like everything else they do in life by being far too direct.

Flirting is a most natural way for a women to get what they want in life. They flirt in the workplace to get what they want, even though most never really admit to it. They also usually got what they wanted in school with the male teachers and the boys because of their flirting power.

Women like to know that they have this power to make men fall over themselves for them. Contrary to popular belief, women do not want men to like them based solely on their looks. They know of course that looks do help; however, they do want men to like or love them on many levels including their sexuality, charm, intellectual capability, personality etc.

Women love it when men flirt with them. It brings out the playfulness they seek in a man. When they know you’re flirting with them, they literally imagine how sexy you could make them feel if they were in a relationship with you.

Women know that a fun and playful man will always keep the romance sexy and alive in both the bedroom and out. A man who is too serious and always treats himself like a high class business executive will usually bore the hell out of women because they can never be playful and pamper their women like women would like.

Flirting is a great tool to feel out a situation with women and find out if she’s receptive to you. A big advantage of flirting for men is that a man’s ego is thus never on the line when they are flirting as they did not really make any direct engagements which could be either rejective or humiliating.

The main aim of using flirting to your full advantage is to make the woman you want, wanting to see you again.

It also gives men and women an ego boost from time to time and to know they still have that vitally important sexual energy that is inside them that can be unleashed at will.

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posted by infomktjv on May 20

The old saying, ‘The Knight In Shining Armor’ still exists today like it did in the medieval times. Only difference is that we’re no longer on a horse and wearing our metal. These days it’s more of a male chivalry which we all men should show if we want to attract our woman. Women are always looking for their knight in shining armor all the time. It is in them to want to be rescued. So whenever there is a chance to help a woman in need, never hesitate. Just do it!

We may not be attracted to the woman we help, but you never know if there is another woman around the corner watching your good deeds. What is important is that this has to be real, a habit you gradually develop over time. You really should not do it just to attract a woman. The more you give, the more you get back. Just don’t expect it right away or else you’ll be disappointed.

So in future when ever you see a woman who either, needs help or rescue from a situation, go for it. Rescuing a woman is one of the surest ways to win their heart. Whether it’s from another man or an embarrassing situation, find a way to save the day and very likely you’ve immediately also found a way to her heart.

Woman unconsciously also like to see that you have good relationships with other women around your age because it shows that you are also liked by other women. She’ll find this attractive.

Never approach a woman too directly and stare down at her as she’ll begin to find you too intimidating or even creepy. An indirect approach is best. Try to also stay away from the usual pick-up lines such as the weather, buying her a drink etc.

You are much better off relating to her on some level. Try to find a common interest.

Its best to therefore approach women as a friend or casual acquaintance as this gives you the best chance to get to know her a little bit more and quickly find a common ground of interest. This can then be further developed into a full blown conversation. It also puts pressure off you trying to score on first attempt with expectations of a long lasting romance or a one night stand and then feeling stupid if you didn’t succeed.

Take your time, and continue practicing. This is the only way you’ll gain confidence over time. The more you do it, the more you’ll feel comfortable picking up women.

If you have found my article interesting, I have come across a site which is at the moment giving away a massive free Book titled Secrets To Dating Beautiful Women. I have personally found this one of the best books on the subject of Dating and Relationships and I highly recommend you read it. It’s a must read.
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posted by Fairfield on May 20

If you’re like a lot of women I know, you have a perennial problem: Gift ideas for men can be hard to find. Ties, tools, gadgets - there’s only so many times you can go there! Want to think outside the box? Well, if you’re taking good care of your skin, why not give the guy in your life the same? Birthdays, holidays, Father’s Day, Valentine’s Day, think skin care products - or think bigger, and spring for a cosmetic dermatology treatment! You have a wide range of choices for the man in your life.

But first, let’s get one thing out of the way. Times have changed. Men are finally catching up with women in getting this important truth: It’s OK to want to feel good about how you look! We’re not just talking about that current cliche, the “metrosexual” - though of course the downtown, corporate male professional certainly knows a well-groomed appearance gives him the edge. No, it’s becoming the norm for all kinds of men to be more conscious of the impression their appearance makes. Besides, who doesn’t want to take care of their skin, for health and comfort?

Now that we can all agree that microdermabrasion or a laser treatment doesn’t pose a threat to anyone’s gender identity, let’s take a look at some of the possibilities. Men have some special skin care challenges - and some of the very same concerns as their female friends.

One special challenge is shaving. For men this can cause ingrown hairs, which can be really painful, especially on the neck. Laser hair removal is an excellent solution, so if your guy suffers from this nuisance, a series of laser treatments would make a great gift. Lasers use pulses of light energy that targets the pigment in darker and coarser hair follicles, and destroys them. Unlike other methods, laser hair removal is painless, with no unpleasant side effects like scarring. Relief at last from those collars that chafe the ingrown hairs!

And then, something we all share, aging. Is there a man in your life whose skin is showing the years? Maybe it’s your dad, maybe it’s your life partner - but have no doubt, men aren’t any happier about sagging skin and age spots than women are! (As a cosmetic dermatologist, I hear about it - and you know I try the procedures and products on my own aging skin, too. I love the results, and the compliments!)

I have to recommend Fraxel laser treatments to repair and refresh aging or sun-damaged skin - it’s simply the best procedure out there. Be sure you ask for the genuine, latest-generation Fraxel laser, and choose a cosmetic dermatologist whose professional staff is trained in its use. This updated laser treatment targets damaged collagen cells in the middle skin layer, leaving the upper layer intact. It fades discoloration, shrinks enlarged pores, smoothes fine wrinkles - and stimulates healthy cells to produce new collagen, tightening and toning the skin. Or, for skin dulled by a layer of excess dead skin cells, microdermabrasion can uncover an energetic, youthful radiance.

One final word: Botox Cosmetic. It’s not just for women, and a lot of men already know it! Botox is safe and effective (you’ll want to be sure to work through a board-certified cosmetic dermatologist and be sure you’re getting the genuine product, manufactured exclusively by Allergan, a legitimate and reputable pharmaceutical company). This approved, purified form of the drug Botulinum toxin actually relaxes muscles when injected directly into them, targeting the problem area with no effects beyond a few millimeters around the injection site. Results are outstanding. Gone are the scowl and squint lines that make him look old!

So now that men are giving themselves permission to take care of themselves, the women who love them have a new range of gifting options. Why not give men’s skin care, to show you care?

James C. Fairfield, MD has established the oldest and most respected dermatology practice in the Delaware Valley. For more free cosmetic dermatology information and resources and to sign up for his free report, Erase the Years, visit his web site at http://www.cmderm.com