Men Tips

posted by pcorral on May 18

One of the funniest lines I have ever heard in a movie is in the Three Amigo’s when a maiden who is captured by banditos is asked, as she is being lead to the gang leaders el Guapo’s bedroom:
“Do you know what foreplay is?”
“No” she answers
“Good, neither does el Guapo.”

Absolutely hilarious in a movie, downright pathetic in real life! As we have mentioned in past articles, women enjoy the entire act of sex, often enjoying foreplay more than intercourse itself! While most macho posturing by men suggests that we loathe foreplay, anticipation, and sexual tension it is of course, bull! So since we are all enlightened men who actually enjoy the act of sex (and not just getting our rocks off) and care about the women we share our beds with taking the same pleasure in sex: here is just a few tips to ensure you’re a great lover for her.

Number one is to move slowly. With rare exception it simply takes a bit longer and is more complicated for a women to become aroused. Hold her and rub her through her clothes. Run a few bases on the couch before you take to the bedroom and start ripping off her clothes in record time turbo!

Taking it slow can be a great way to tease her and get her as excited as you are. The principle of taking two steps forward and one step back applies to foreplay just as it does in the seduction process. Don’t try to take off an article of clothing all at once. Undo one button, then go back to kissing and caressing her, come back after a little while and undo another button. The same could be said about kissing her entire body. Don’t just go for it, kiss and caress, make her think you are about to do it, then do something else and come back later. Anticipation is half the fun.

You also don’t want to pay all your attention on the obvious areas of her body. Appreciate her entire body, by holding your bodies close, caressing and kissing all over, not just her breast, lips and between her legs. How about her stomach, hips, legs, neck, ears, and hair!

Make her feel like she is seducing you by showing that you are barely able to hold yourself back. Let her hear and feel you breath faster near her ears, give her a gentle bite and kiss on the neck, and run your hand through her hair and give it a gentle pull.

One thing I have found during any stage of sex that heightens the intensity and intimacy is eye contact. This is so often neglected because we close our eyes when we kiss. In the act of foreplay or intercourse look her in her eyes. You will set yourself apart from other men just by doing this. The experience will become more intimate and hot for both of you.

Your touch can very from a light caress to commanding embrace. Be gentle for the most part when touching women to make her feel good. However, women want you to take the lead in bed and a firm embrace while maneuvering her body in bed will send shivers up her spine.

Ok, this is just a primer, but these few tips will set you apart from 99% of those poor fools having seizures on top of women expecting them to be satisfied. So keep reading and learning through experience!

Many more articles about how to attract more quality women into your life are available at:
www.gentlemansdossier.com

posted by pcorral on May 18

So you’ve managed to capture a woman’s imagination, maybe you’ve even been on a date. So when do you make your move? How do you take an emotional connection to a physical level? This can be a tuff transition for most guys because it feels entirely too bold. When and how do I go in for the first kiss? How can I make her comfortable being held close to me? How can we move towards sex in a way that is not too bold or awkward? If you have these kinds of questions, you are getting ahead of yourself.

The first thing to remember is that physical escalation is gradual and natural. This means it starts almost immediately after meeting and builds slowly! Your first contact with her should be casual and non-sexual. Social touching may be a hand on the small of the back or shoulder when maneuvering around her in crowded places. You may reach over standing at her side and give her one of those little side hugs to say she’s awesome for agreeing with something you said. These are all brief and casual examples that you can use seconds after meeting her.

After some light social touching you can start building up to more personal touching. This is when you have built some attraction and rapport. An easy place to start is wrapping her arm around yours promenade style or holding her hand to walk some were to talk, or to the bar or show her something. Progressing to putting your arm around her or having her sit on your lap is easier and natural now.

If you have arrived at this point comfortably she is comfortable with light flirty touching. From here on you have to think about taking two steps forward and one step back. What this means is building anticipation and chemistry. Give her a seductive look in the eyes for a moment. Sweep her hair out of her face but don’t go in for the kiss, then go back to normal conversation for a while. Take the time for a few of these subtle touches and she will indicate that she is ready to be kissed.

Remember these principles of anticipation and sexual tension when progressing towards sex. Your touch will progress with your emotional connection. A few ideas would be: running your hands up the back of her head and hair, grip her hair pulling it very gently, then release and take your hand back like nothing happened.

Progressing smoothly to this point sets you up to kiss her and take it to the next level. Now there are several principles to go with the basic progression example I have mentioned here. I have already hinted at one, the progression of your touch should be congruent with your progression of emotion. This should be enough to get you started. So keep learning more about how to the best lover she’s ever had, through reading more and experience.

Many more articles about how to attract more quality women into your life are available at:
www.gentlemansdossier.com