Men Tips

To become a master seducer, you must have a plan. For everything in life, if you start without a nice and elaborated plan, you are planning your failure. For seducing women, its no different. So in this article i will share several killer tips to serve as a guideline to impress and hopefully date that wonderful women you are attracted to.

1. Make sure you have supreme confidende: Without confidence, man becomes a weak creature. It just seems something is lacking. You become boring, tedious and sometimes weird. Its within our genes. Why do you think that the most successful people on the world are very confident in their actions? Because confidence leads to success. Do you see any millionaire acting like a nerd or shy guy? Hell no! Because they know that a confident and positive attitude attract more success.

2.Dont focus on your weaknesses: Dont every bring of the subject of your weaknesses. Everybody is good and bad at something, but in the beginning of the seduction game, make sure you only show your strong points. Nobody needs to know about your physical imperfections or something like that. For some reason, some men believe that talking about some physical imperfection is good make a woman laugh, and they are right, but she will be laughing at you, not with you.

3. Keep a organized record: If you want to have success with women, you must analyze and catalog every situation you have with women. Keep a record of all your dates and set daily, weekly and monthly goals. Being organized and setting golas is a know factor to improve any ability. To seduce women is no different. If you have a organized record of all your dates, you will be able to test different approaches and see the one that is more successful.

4. Follow your estabilished plan: Making a plan is good. But following it is even better. I must stress it. You must actually follow your plan, and test new approaches. If you decide to test a new technique, test it for a few days until you have enough records to make a trusted decision. Dont just stop because its becoming hard or just for procrastination. You must take action otherwise failure will be your friend.

I hope you liked these guidelines. These are simple but very powerful. I always follow them and they have helped me tremendously in my game with women.Follow them and definitly you will be next to your goal of seducing women and finally have the love life you always dreamed of.

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Are you thinking of how to add more spice to your love life and perhaps even considering getting some erection pills? Wait a minute. Before you whip out your credit card for those erection enhancer pills, looka the size of your penis and then ask yourself whether you really need the pills at all. The size of a flaccid penis is usually between 5-10 cm long and it can grow by another 3 cm when fully erect. If the size of your fully erect penis does not vary significantly from your flaccid penis size, then most likely you will need erection pills.

Your erection hardness is a really sensitive issue for you. The fear and need to satisfy one’s partner makes anybody conscious of the size of their erect penis. The average erect penis stands at a size between 5 to 7 inches long. Many guys are going after erection pills as a way to deal with their dissatisfaction with their erection size. To make matters worse, these days it seems that the media are seeing to it that no man would ever be satisfied with the quality of their erection.

Everyday, personal email inboxes are flooded with a thousand of spam adverts about erection pills, boasting that the erection pills can dramatically enlarge the size of the erect penis, both in terms of length and width. Instant results are equally advertised, which is one feature about erection pills that really attract consumers. In essence, such claims of instant effect is the unique selling point of such erection pills when compared to other solutions like exercises and devices.

Besides helping a man to attain harder erections, an erection pill do have other benefits as well. These include a more sustainable erection, higher libido, better and more sperm and semen production. Overall, taking erection pills increases men’s self-confidence in the bedroom.You can’t deny that as your self confidence grows, so does your erection hardness. It may seem strange but it is true that if you feel better about your penis, it will help you do better in bed too.

Even though erection pills are made of herbal ingredients, they can still be harmful to you if you have a medical condition. Deperation about their erection hardness can sometimes blind us. Some guy rush into buying erection pills without first understanding what they contain and how they work and worse still, without even knowing about their own health conditions. Often these people fall in the hands of medical imposters that populate the Internet.

So if you are set on getting erection pills, please do your own homework and at least consult your doctor about your medical condition first.

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Say we have a couple that have been dating for a year or so. They are monogamous, he says he loves her, she loves him. He knows he doesn’t want to lose her. She cannot imagine her life without him in it. They have great sex, good times, long intimate conversations.

So one day she says: “Honey, I think we should get married.” Suddenly, he starts stuttering, backstepping and having trouble breathing. He eventually chokes out those dreaded four words that are the killers of progress: “I’m not ready yet!”

What is the problem here?

What is it that you guys are waiting for?

Women get fed up with this wishy-washy stuff! A gal needs to know where she stands with you! She wants to know if it is going to be worth her time to wait for you to get ready or not. She needs to know if you are getting ready to commit, working on getting ready to commit, or if she should just leave you in the dust trying to figure it out ALL BY YOURSELF.

Author Shere Hite, in her book Women and Love reports that most women felt that men were not giving as much as they are getting in their relationships. Guys, you must know you have it good! You talk, you cuddle, you sex it up, bask in the warmth of her love. You enjoy this immensely.

The way women see it though, you want to enjoy the benefits of a committed relationship without the responsibility and obligations. That ain’t cool. When a woman feels used and taken for granted, bad things happen. (Remember Angela Basset’s Porsche and Armani suit flambe in the movie “Waiting to Exhale?”)

Ladies have to take responsibility early on for finding out where your man’s head is. Do not be afraid to be direct and state your desires for more. Sit down with your guy and calmly ask him “what does commitment mean to you?” “When a woman tells you that she wants a commitment, what is it that you start thinking about?” “Why do you get scared?” You also need to ask “where do you see this relationship going?”

He should have some really good answers to those questions. You both need to discuss what you want from life and a relationship to determine if continuing the relationship makes sense.

One word of warning however… do not ask these questions prematurely, i.e. after dating only a few weeks. He barely knows you, so pressing him for a long-term commitment under those circumstances would be inappropriate, make you appear to be desperate, and pretty much guarantee he will bolt and run.

One study I read concluded that a man knows within 5 minutes of meeting a woman if he wants to get to know her better. My own opinion is that a man knows within six months of dating if he could marry you or not. If the answer after a few months is YOU ARE NOT THE ONE, why keep messing around with each other for months and even years?!

Should you ask him where he sees the relationship going, and he tells you to your face that he doesn’t want a commitment or isn’t thinking about getting married now or ever, BELIEVE HIM and move on!

If you know that you need a commitment from him and he starts to hem and haw, gives you weak tired excuses, mentions feeling “trapped,” or starts telling you about his other women, then you know it is time to go girlfriend!

Why He Avoids Committing to You

Some guys won’t commit because in actuality, they are looking for Ms. Perfect, not Ms. Real. Real women have a tendency to disappoint, frustrate and sometimes hurt feelings by doing or saying things they are not “supposed” to say or do.

So when a guy meets a beautiful woman he may initially decide she is Ms. Perfect. Later when she shows her human flaws he deems her to be “unworthy.” He may begin to constantly nag and complain about things that you need to “work on” before he will consider you as good enough to marry. In this case it probably means that he does want to give a commitment, BUT NOT TO YOU. Again, it is time to hit the road girl!

Likewise, a man that is married to or living with someone else is not available for a commitment. A man that considers himself a “player” and has lots of different women “in rotation” is another high risk for heartbreak. This guy is still playing the field and hasn’t yet met the woman that he feels he can commit to or wants to settle down with. Bad news for a future in both cases.

Another scenario to consider is a couple that have been dating happily for years and years. However, you wake up one morning and realize that he is no closer to marriage now than he was 2 years after you started dating! You should move on to find someone that wants what you want sooner rather than later or never.

Valid excuses are generally those that have a timeframe around them. These might be a man that wants to wait “for a year until I finish this training/school and get a good job,” or “wait two years until I get my degree and get a full time job making at least $65K.”

Slightly older men might want to feel that they are positioned to properly support a wife and children, and will want to put marriage off until they have “something to offer,” maybe a promotion, or a beautiful home in the suburbs to put you and his future children in, or until his children from an early marriage are over 18 and he is through with child support payments.

If you love him, then wait patiently and don’t bug him. This guy is coming around and wants to give you the commitment you seek. He just needs time to accomplish his goals so he feels like a man with something to offer his woman.

With a true understanding of exactly where your man is coming from you’ll know whether he is Mr. Right or just Mr. Right Now. You can then determine your next move with confidence and in your own best interest.

(c) 2008 Deborrah Cooper. Deborrah has authored dozens of relationship articles and advice columns on Ask HeartBeat!, which focuses on modern relationships for teens and adults. Her dating guide Sucka Free Love! provides street-smart, hilarious insight into the toughest issues facing singles today. Check out The Sucka Free Dating Radio Talk Show on Wednesday night at 8:00 pm PST.