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Older men usually lament,”How can I have sex as often as I used to have when I was a 20 year old?” This is a very common question on male sexuality. The question to ask should be “How often did you have sex when you were in your 20s?”

You see, mail sexual stamina, skills and capacities differ greatly from one man to another. However, let’s just assume that you had some pretty good sexual stamina when you were in your 20s. Then the next question would be what kind of physical shape are you in now as compared to when you were full of sexual stamina decades ago?

This is because making is an aerobic activity and for most men in their 40s and beyond, they aren’t nearly as fit and active as they used to be and this state of physical fitness do have a large implication on your sexual performances.

Ok, let’s be relistic guys. If you are in your late thirties and beyond, your heart thumps like a jackhammer when climbing up a flight of stairs, then that is definitely going to affect your sexual prowess.

Even putting your low physical fitness level aside, there is another very serious reason why some older men can’t make love as long and as often as they used to do. The reason is lack of sexual arousal.

It is a fact that many older men, being able to continuously have sex like they did when they were much younger has a lot to do with how strong a level of arousal they can keep and maintain. As a general rule of the thumb, although not exclusively, older men, especially those men who are very well seasoned sexually need to have more sexual stimulation to achieve the same level of physical arousal they had in their early twenties, even though the desire to have frequent sex is still there.

So one of the first keys to have more sexual stamina is to make sure that you are in a good physical shape and that your sex partner knows how to keep you physically aroused and not just emotionally charged up.

Therefore the best suggestion here is to start an exercise program to improve your physical health and stamina. If you are overweight, then start to losing weight as obesity is also a major cause for poor sexual stamina and erectile dysfunction.

Furthermore, a good physical workout also increases your natural production of the hormone called testosterone which is also the hormone that is largely responsible for getting your penis hard and giving you better sexual stamina.

You see, every man has a certain level of physical arousal at which they function at their best sexually. That level of arousal is unique to each and every male and to each particular sexual activity. As mentioned earlier, having great sex is a very physical activity, but due to various reasons, usually socialization issues, erroneous beliefs, bad mental programing etc., most men come into a sexual encounter way too high on the arousal scale for their own good. Can you guess what some of the symptoms of hyper arousal in a sexual context are? Yup. Erectile dysfunction and pre-mature ejaculation.

So what can you do to improve and even increase your sexual stamina? Well, the first thing is to see your doctor to rule out anything dire that is wrong with your penis and sexual organ. Your doctor will also have to assess whether your impotency or sexual dysfunction is due to blood circulation problems like high blood pressure.

After having your medical checks done, then determine whether you are in a poor physical fitness state. If you are, go get some form of cardiovascular exercise on a regular basis that is enjoyable for you. Then while you are building up and increasing your sexual stamina, go and have sex alot. You can do that with natural male sexual penis enhacement pills that are made from natural herbs and thus are safe and do not require a doctor’s prescription to give you a gigantic boost to your sexual stamina.

Have fun, enjoy your new found sexual stamina. Way to go, Tiger.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at Testosterone To Increase Sex Drive and How To Have More Sex Appeal

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Many men go to the gym and workout with weights to look good and get a lean muscular body that they think women will find attractive.

The real mystery is what is the perfect male body that looks good to women and attracts the girls or even gay men if you prefer.

Most men too often make the mistake of working out in the gym to impress other guys by trying to be the strong alpha male. Of course, the 285 pound serious bodybuilder lifting the 150 pound barbells might be very impressive and even impressionable to other weightlifters and competitive bodybuilders, but do most women actually find this kind of male body attractive?

If your answer is a resounding no, then what are you doing lifting those weights day in and day out? What do you hope to achieve?

You see, there are many research that tells us that women in general are not attracted to heavily muscular guys as the girls prefer a well built guy whose physique is not excessively large like those of professional bodybuilders, but more like those of competitive male swimmers.

Now, if you think you can intuitively guess at your ideally perfect male body size, then you are probably wrong because there are also many research to show that most men typically overestimate the body size they think women will like by as much as 30 pounds! Wow, talking about the inflated male ego!

So if you cannot trust your own estimation, then how can you find out what kind of body you need to be building in order to be irresistibly attractive to women?

Well, no worries about that because there is a specific mathematical formulation for measuring the ideal male body shape and size that women will find most attractive and that will other men green with envy.

So by simply applying these specific body ratio measurements, you can also determine the most effective workout an ddiet program that will get you into this ideal male body shape. If you want to know about how you score in your present bodyshape and how to get the attractive male body, I have a detailed explanation and a free bodyshape calculator on my website.

Therefore it is time to forget about bodybuilding workouts with its endless goal of “getting bigger and larger muscles”, or weightlifting workouts designed to make you strong but shaped like a chunky stunted tree stump.

As superficial as this might sound, it is no secret that most of us guys want to look good and reap the rewards that our image concious society bestows upon good looking men and women.

Regardless of whether or not our society is right or wrong, it is the indisputable fact that more attractive people are treated better and given more privileges wherever they go. Of course you cannot change our society’s perceptions and mindsets, but you can change the way your body looks, right?

So why not take full advantage of the benefits of being one of the good looking people. Start working out with the specific purpose of building a better looking male physique and enjoy the irresistibily thrilling rewards that will surely come your way.

Hey guys, what are you waiting for. The girls are waiting for you!

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at Get Ideally Perfect Male Body and How To Be More Handsome Man

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When multiple physicians become involved in the treatment of a patient can be very important for them to relay critical diagnostic and recommended follow-up and treatment recommendation to the patient and to the other physicians. The importance of such communication is not negated simply because the patient does no return to one of the physician. A failure to do so may lead to an undiagnosed or untreated disease or condition. And it may constitute medical malpractice.

One such situation arose in the following case: Several doctors had an opportunity to diagnose their male patient’s prostate cancer while it was in its early stages. The patient first saw his primary care physician, a general practitioner, with urinary problems when he was 56 years old. The general practitioner concluded that the problems were not related to cancer although no testing was done to rule out cancer. Ten months later the patient consulted with a urologist who performed a digital examination on the prostate gland and ordered a PSA blood test. As it turned out this urologist was not an approved provider under the patient’s insurance and so the patient consulted with a second urologist.

The approved urologist also conducted a physical examination of the prostate but did not find any abnormalities and so concluded that the patient did not have cancer. The approved urologist did not order a PSA blood test. The one ordered by the first urologist came back and that urologist recommended a biopsy. Unfortunately, that recommended did not get communicated to the family doctor or the urologist approved by the insurance company.

As such the cancer went undiagnosed for two years at which time it had spread beyond the prostate. The physicians treating the patient’s cancer concluded that he likely had only one to five years to life as a result of the cancer’s spread. The law firm that handled this matter reported that they were able to achieve a settlement during jury selection at trial in the amount of $2,500,000 on behalf of the patient.

Here, neither the general practitioner nor the approved urologist ordered a PSA test to screen the patient for prostate cancer. An abnormally high result would have suggested the possibility of cancer. The general practitioner also failed to perform a digital examination to determine whether there was any palpable abnormality to the prostate gland. The second urologist conducted a digital examination but failed to pick up any abnormality of the gland. The second urologist thus relied on only one test - a test that is unreliable for two main reasons. First, the digital examination only allows access to part of the prostate. If there is an abnormality to the part of the gland that cannot be reached during the examination the abnormality will not be found. Second, the digital examination is only as good as the sensitivity of the physician conducting it to detect an abnormality.

As per the case, seeing multiple physicians can lead to multiple errors. The first was the general practitioner and the approved urologist not following the screening guidelines. The other was a communication error when the findings, suspicions, and recommendations of the urologist unapproved by the insurance company was not communicated to the patient or the other urologist. If the patient had been able to keep seeing the unapproved urologist the patient would have known that cancer was a possibility and that a follow up biopsy was in order. The result: multiple physicians consulted yet the diagnosis of prostate cancer delayed followed by a lawsuit.

Joseph Hernandez is an Attorney accepting medical malpractice cases. To learn more about advanced prostate cancer and how a cancer lawyer can help you please visit his website

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Most men have a lot of trouble getting an erection soon after they ejaculate. This could lead to frustration and other serious relationship problems.

All men want to satisfy their woman. But let’s face it, that’s not easy to do when your body will not cooperate. Imagine this situation: You strip down, you get a rock hard erection and start pounding away hard on your woman. After a few minutes you ejaculate. She has not even had a chance to achieve an orgasm. Your penis is totally numb. She tries her best to arouse you again, but nothing seems to work. Finally she gives up and rolls over and goes to sleep. You just lay there staring at the ceiling frustrated, wondering what the heck is wrong with you. Sound familiar? Then read on…

First let’s deal with the obvious. There really could be something physically wrong with you… Not enough sleep, anxiety or stress from work or other issues, low testosterone, etc… These issues are beyond the scope of this article. For more info about how to deal with these problems go to my website. So let’s assume that you don’t have any of these problems. In that case you’re solution may be something that you can fix almost immediately. What may be the problem is that you got aroused and ejaculated too quickly. Now I don’t mean premature ejaculation. I mean that you simply ejaculated much sooner than you should have.

What some men don’t realize is that foreplay is an important and critical part of effective love making. Foreplay helps to build up tension in your pelvic muscles. It also helps to give you stronger orgasms. It’s very easy to know if you have had enough foreplay. If your sperm simply dribbles out like a turned over bottle of syrup then you probably didn’t have enough foreplay.

Of course this is something that most women have no comprehension of. When you ejaculate, it should come shooting out with enough force to land on your chest, face, or even fly right over your head if you are lying down. Normally this is only possible if you have created a lot of tension by having a lot of foreplay.

Having enough foreplay to do this can be extremely difficult especially if your partner is ready to be drilled within 5 seconds of removing her panties. Also, you may not want to be bothered with all that foreplay and tension building, but this is a mistake. You need time. Lots of time before you enter your partner. Maybe even an hour or two! The benefit of this is not just a stronger ejaculation, but an increased chance of having a 2nd or 3rd round of sex shortly after you ejaculate.

Building all of that tension increased blood flow, and increases your arousal levels to the point at which they remain high, even after you ejaculate. And if you act quickly enough you can maintain that blood flow and arousal for much, much longer.

Now you may be wondering how in the world can you get your partner to wait nearly one or two hours before you mount her. The answer is simple. Take control and don’t allow her to get what she wants, when she wants it. Make her wait. Even if she begs you for it. An easy way to keep her waiting is to keep her panties on. Most women take the cue that if you take off her panties, you are ready for intercouse soon after. So delay that move for as long as possible.

For most women, once they get aroused, and have an orgasm, it’s quite easy for them to have more orgasms, and have them more frequently. But men are not built that way. If you are good at oral sex, or you use your finger or a toy to give her that initial orgasm, she will be immediately expecting you to penetrate her. She may even grab hold or jump on top of you.

I know this sounds crazy, but simply don’t let that happen. Don’t let her dictate when it is time to get busy. You have to be ready otherwise it will be over too soon and you won’t be ready to do anything else for another couple of hours or the next morning.

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The idea here is to find a way to achieve multiple erections within a short period of time. Now we need to talk about all of this from a woman’s perspective. Previously I said that you need anywhere from one to two hours of foreplay to build up enough tension to have multiple erections.

However, women do not and probably will not understand this. Their bodies are different from ours. Once they get aroused it simply continues to build. Women tend to think that a man’s arousal is similar to theirs. A woman’s entire body is basically an erogenous zone. The neck, back, lips, knees, arms, ankles, pretty much anywhere on her body can get her hot and ready.

And when you jump on her for the first time that night and start banging away it only intensifies it more for her. But as soon as you ejaculate, your penis gets soft and here is where all the trouble and confusion takes place. A woman that really cares about you isn’t going to get upset. She will try to help you by doing what she “thinks” will get you back into the mood. She may start kissing you on the lips, or neck or even suck on your nipples.

Unfortunately most women don’t understand that men have only one erogenous zone and that is the penis. Messing with any other part of your body, (and I’m specifically talking about immediately after your first orgasm), is a complete waste of time. Now before that first orgasm, you don’t need much help in getting an erection and touching you in other places can and probably will increase your arousal. This is the definition of foreplay. But this approach won’t work after you come the first time.

Before you have intercourse, you must build up enough tension, for a long period, otherwise both you and your woman are going to have to work twice as hard to get you back up again. Don’t let her waste time messing with any other part of your body. She simply needs to give you oral sex immediately and be prepared to keep giving it until you have built up enough tension. This does not necessarily mean that as soon as you get a semi-hard on that she should stop giving head and go for intercourse.

If you didn’t not build up any tension then she is going to have to work long and hard to build that tension back up. Her goal should be to bring you close to the point of another ejaculation before she stops giving head.

For a lot of women giving head is hard work and they get tired after a few minutes so I don’t recommend this approach. To make matters worse, her arousal may be completely gone by the time she’s finished giving you oral and now she will simply roll over and go to sleep. She doesn’t have to work as hard during the first round. That is the time when she can focus on other parts of your body to keep you hard which is much easier than a blowjob. Also you can do the same to her at the same time to keep her arousal levels high. This situation changes dramatically after you have an orgasm.

If you do have intercourse to early then both of you need to maintain a high level of arousal at the same time. The best way to do that is in the 69 position. Or if she doesn’t want to do that, then grab a toy and use it on her while her mouth is going to work on you.

Don’t assume she understands any of this. Explicitly tell her that if she wants to keep on going after your first ejaculation, she needs to give you head immediately. Too many women think that a man has lost or is losing interest in them sexually when he can’t get it up for a 2nd or 3rd round. They simply don’t understand male physiology. And neither do a lot of men.

So in conclusion, take control, don’t give in to your woman, or your desire for instant gratification and add a lot of foreplay to your sex life. Also, give these articles to your woman to read so that she might have a better insight in to how to get you up and keep you up.

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